You don't want to be sad for these rotten people, there are many things that you can't control, you won't feel pain if you have low expectations for people, you just care too much about many things, you care too much about your own efforts, it will be very painful, because you care about it will have time and energy investment, in fact, these are just superfluous actions, you do others will not care, you might as well care more about yourself, spend more time doing your own things, spend less time doing other people's things.

Otherwise, they will hinder your development, whether you believe it or not.

You just have to organize your own time and get your own time out of this gap.

Everyone likes to take up your time, and you have to grasp it yourself.

Some people like to bully the good, bully the obedient, you just have to be disobedient, who said that if you want to respect the teacher, you have to give all your time, do you respect the students?

If you don't respect the students, how can the students respect you?

Stupid!

In the future, I don't care much about the teacher's opinion, and it's a big deal to take a vacation for a while and go out to find a job.

Anyway, this thing can't be done, so I won't do it.

Yes, today's mood is simply explosive, and a lot of irrational words can't be controlled at all.

Anyway, you still have to report positively, think about your problems positively, and even think about some problems for others, but that will lead to you not having enough time and not having time for what you have to do.

No matter what, you still have to be positive, you can't live up to your time and youth, as for those messy others but brains, then you don't need to brain, you just need to grab more minutes and seconds to manage your own things.

Create conditions for yourself to survive, to fight, to win your own future.

When you win everything, the power belongs to you.

You don't want to pre-set the information, and don't think that others are talking about you, they are not talking about you at all, but just yourself in the lab, but that's just a part of you, you shouldn't think about it for a minute or a second in your own time, it's all a drain on yourself.

The more you think about it, the more difficult it is to accept, bad emotions are very contagious, and self-discipline and stability are difficult.

Your mood world shouldn't be accessible to anyone.

So you shouldn't keep thinking about these questions.

Do your own thing, don't be affected by these rotten things, and in the end it will damage your own development.

Stick to what you feel is right, even if no one cares, that's okay.

You don't need to be too concerned about the information in the unexpected world, it's enough to be yourself.

A month later, there is still no news.

Miss Qin sat on the windowsill, frowning, and muttered, "How could I not find it?" ”

Siyun stood aside and comforted, "Miss, don't worry, the slave maid will go out to find it again, this time is on the eve of the imperial examination, Xu is son is reviewing his homework, and he has no time to come out." ”

Hearing this, I don't know how many times, Miss Qin could only sigh, "Maybe, maybe there is no fate between us." ”

"Miss, don't think so. Maybe it's because they're leaving each other for a better encounter. Siyun's words made Miss Qin feel a little better.

Gu Qingzhou sat side by side with the girl, looking at Miss Qin's expression and becoming happy, he didn't feel happy either.

Because she is really sad when she is unhappy, it makes him feel distressed and depressed for a long time, and today she finally shows a smiling face, which will give people a rare feeling.

He wanted her to be loved so that she could be happy even when he wasn't with her, although he felt sad and heartbroken when he thought of it, as if he had lost something very important in his life.

The feeling of real loss was so profound.

Everyone is suppressing themselves, everyone feels that they know a lot, and others don't understand, which has invisibly increased the estrangement.

Maybe there is no mutual understanding between people at all, it's just like taking different paths and creating intersections.

It doesn't feel like it, they all do it, but you know very well that you don't choose to do that, you don't do anything that you want, you just want to get everything you want.

It's hard, but it will end well.

In the end, it must be in a good state.

Worrying about loss, worrying about the future of impermanence, worrying about an uncertain life is just a loss of yourself, you should always live in the present moment, and if the wind is sunny and the weather is clear, you should be happy.

This is probably something that adults should do.

If you think too much, it's easy to be unhappy, and you're really unhappy.

But if you just have no desires, no sorrows and no joys, it's very good, and if you get so many bad karma, you end up with nothing.

That's great, if she can be happy, I can use it for the rest of my life.

Many of the beginnings are like this, but the reality often ends up being parting ways.

There is no one in this world who can unconditionally tolerate and accommodate another person, everyone seems to be sick, you may be one of them, sometimes you are so angry and angry that you can't find an outlet.

If a person forgets his original intention, then everything he does will lose his meaning, and this is the reality.

The heart is everything.

The heart is more of an emotion.

When you encounter setbacks, lower your expectations of anyone and everything, because when you are not in a good state, it is easy to make mistakes in many things you do, and it is easy to further the cycle of evil.

Reduce the degree of harm to yourself, give yourself time and space to calm down, love yourself as the ultimate goal, don't be yourself, just promise yourself to do things well.

I suddenly understood that stabilizing my mood and protecting my state and energy are the most important things in life.

Do you believe or not believe that it is your business and problem, instead of looking for reasons in others every day, it is better to find reasons from yourself, ask yourself for everything, ask yourself if you have done it well, if I do it, then I have a clear conscience, you ask me, you attack me, you can't hurt me, because my attitude is always here, and the person who does not cooperate is you.

In this case, another month passed.

The imperial examination is over, the top three lists have come out, the emperor is very happy, and ordered a palace banquet to welcome the top three in the imperial examination, champions, lists, and flowers.

During the meeting in the hall, Miss Qin saw the person she had dreamed of for many days, the person was standing in the high hall wearing a big red robe, and the sun shone on his body as if he had been plated with a layer of golden brilliance, which was particularly unreal.

Meeting again is like a world away, at this moment he is already a champion in a big red robe, his eyes pass through the crowd and meet her, everything is silent.

Does he remember her?

Siyun couldn't help but be surprised on the side, and whispered in Miss Qin's ear and asked, "Miss, is he the son you are looking for?" ”

Miss Qin's eyes stared at the handsome eight-foot-long man in red standing in the sun, at this moment it was when he was in the prime of his life, he was wearing a red champion hat, long black hair draped behind him, and his demeanor was in a measured manner, overlapping with the polite, restrained, respectful and polite man in white.

It's really him.

Sometimes a person's beauty does not depend on their appearance but on that unique temperament, which is the appearance of their personality and physical state, that is, they will be particularly good-looking.

What is the reason for a person to be attracted to the other person?

Is it a physical desire or a mental desire?

I can't tell the difference, and many times I'm just together in a blur, and I don't know what the reason is.

Time will not wait for anyone, many people will not wait for you, and if you don't expose your sense of need too early, it will not give people a sense of competition.

And you really don't compete with these people, you have to change your thinking, everything you do is for yourself, that is, the mentality of playing games purely by yourself, whether you win or lose, it will be me who wins, and many things as long as you get through it is a victory, such as concentrating on coding words at the moment, instead of being distracted to play with your mobile phone, every time you overcome your evil thoughts can be called a great victory.

Gaining a sense of control over yourself and your life can help you motivate yourself further and make yourself better.

Instead of losing your temper easily, it is better to put away your temper and do things well to grow.

You've done a great job of that.

Always be vigilant against other people's brainwashing of you, don't agree with other people's values, their values are built in their own favor, so no matter how good your posture is, always that starting point is not for you, you must always stay awake, even if time is wasted, you must also maintain a peaceful mind.

Don't believe that other people's words are right, but concentrate on the attitude of a good servant, and you have to make sure that your attitude towards everyone is basically the same, so that you are the attitude of a servant.

In fact, everyone's fellowship with you comes from the evaluation of your truth.

It's enough to be yourself and care less about others.

Conscientiously do your own things well, the details are in place, the service attitude is close to full score, and don't give others the opportunity to find fault with you.

Don't lie, say whatever you do at the moment, don't say what you didn't do, don't say it's yours, and explain in detail what each link does.

This greatly reduces your own internal friction.

Sincerity is the only shortcut to deal with interpersonal relationships, when you can't do it, you say you can't do it, and when you are sad, you say that you are really sad.

You always have to stand up for yourself honest, frank, serious and simple persona, don't give anyone any chance to break through your fortress, you can't distinguish from others when the truth or falsehood choose to believe, because in the end it is only you who is hurt, you can immediately distinguish who is willing to be sincere to you, the same things that others give you you must also be in place, the attitude must be serious and sincere, and there can be no luck.

Keep yourself mindful at all times, don't be wrapped up in negative emotions, stabilize yourself, try to spend all your time creating value, save your time and improve your effectiveness, and really let yourself learn real things.

For a person with a good memory, anything you say is on file with me, and you can easily tell the difference between someone who is really kind, someone who is really willing to believe in you, and someone who is really willing to give you a chance.

You don't have to be a successful person, your definition and positioning point is never success, because according to worldly standards you are destined to never succeed, but to live your own life and attitude, many things to choose depend on you, depending on how you will deal with it?

It is not advisable to harm the interests of others to do everything, the ultimate benefit must be yourself, you hold back your greed, selfishness, cowardice, cowardice, when you show a temperament that is completely inconsistent with yourself, you have overcome yourself, this is a victory that belongs only to you, no one can argue with you, in your field you are an absolute victory, and no voice will be able to affect you.

Many people may lie to me, they think that I am very easy to deceive, easy to bully, but in the end they will find that they are just wasting their lives and time, if you live a state of life stretching, you continue to maintain your state, do not be affected by anything negative, and firmly follow your own path.

No matter how difficult it is, it is just a period of suffering, everything will not come to the end of the past, you must survive, control your emotions, and use your reason to deal with the outside world to protect yourself.

You can stand firm against your power, at your own pace, and you must stand under pressure to fight for your own freedom and time.

Because if the teacher doesn't have a brain herself, don't expect her to take you up a high hill!

You just want to go in the right direction, like telling a story to tell everything slowly, you don't have to be nervous, you have to have your own unique speech aura to withstand all the pressure, clearly state all your thoughts and ideas, like telling a story to convince others.

You should try to chase after becoming a light every day, becoming a light is destined to be painful, becoming clear and simple is destined to lose a lot, but I will not lose myself, because I will firmly choose to believe in myself at any time, choose to tolerate myself unconditionally, I choose to give up the world, no matter who will disappear from my world, I will not care very much.

I finally believe that some people are really cold by nature, such as me, no one cares, and I don't care about them, it's really cold.

Being able to eliminate all the interference from the outside world, maybe it was intentional at the time, but then it gradually became heartless.

The more familiar you are, the more boring you get, and people like me are really ruthless.

It's probably a sadness to fall in love with me, so don't go to Huohuo's house and cause trouble and trouble for yourself.

Now I only pay attention to one thing, that is, to chat comfortably, to get along comfortably, and to live together without too many moths. As for the rest, it really doesn't matter.

I can be self-sufficient in money or anything more valuable, and I create my own business.

Don't think about being dependent on anyone.

No one is a safe haven for you, and if you don't have value in you, you won't have the basis to be attractive.

Your ability in all aspects is improving to attract better people, there is indeed an invisible circle in the world, the top of the circle does not communicate with the people below the circle, or simply look down on the people in the lower circle.

But as long as you don't have a sense of gain or loss, don't like things and don't feel sorry for yourself, you will gain real relationships and friendship, as long as you don't take advantage of others, you are willing to pay, willing to take responsibility, you will become the core of communication, excellent will make many people willing to take the initiative to connect with you, this is your strength and combat effectiveness.

It's useless to think too much, it's better to do things in a down-to-earth manner.

If no one else can make something, it will eventually be a zero-sum game, and no one can get it, then it is destined that people with high ability will contribute more and maintain a humble and polite attitude to win the favor of everyone, which is the final power terminator.

Being honest and straightforward is not something that everyone can do, you express what you think, and you are not afraid of expressing yourself wrong.

That's the core skill of a person, isn't it?

You won't play the game like this, the things you haven't figured out have already seen through the essence of the game in an instant, the essence is to let you tell stories, the world is short of storytellers, as long as you can tell the story enough wonderful and moving, someone will pay for your story.

Humans are probably a species that only remembers stories and gossip, which are the spiritual nourishment of human beings, and the fastest thing that can establish logical lines and brain circuits.

If the story you tell can be understood and disseminated, it means that you are a qualified and excellent speaker, and you can eat with one mouth or one hand, but you are not willing to practice these two skills well.

You really don't want to waste time on some rotten people, so don't take the time to think about what these people are thinking, you have proven your ability by doing everything you need to do well, and you don't need to think too much about the rest.

Thinking too much is a waste of your time, something that doesn't make sense.

No matter how bad people and bad things are, you don't need to think for a second more, control your thoughts, don't waste time thinking about meaningless things, and you shouldn't give a second.

That's the kind of sane person who is sane enough!

No matter what they do, don't think about it for a second, listen when you're there, and just do it when you're not.

The moment Miss Qin saw Liang Yi, Gu Qingzhou's whole person felt bad, it was really a ploy, but it was a pity that Miss Qin was too simple.

This person who is in his heart suddenly appears, and everyone will be confused!

The key is that this Liang Yi is indeed not bad, and it is no wonder that the little girl is confused.

If it was he who met a Qin girl in that scene, then he....

In an instant, he suddenly realized, and suddenly understood, his feelings for Miss Qin were the same as Miss Qin's feelings for Liang Yi at this moment, it turned out that he liked it.

[Gu Qingzhou's favorability +8, currently 60]

The little pink rabbit was very surprised, [This is enlightening? 】

Qin Ci raised his eyes, and the corners of his mouth hid a shallow smile: "It's okay." ”

Perhaps knowing that each plane is a person, she seems to have an expectation in her heart.

Looking forward to seeing him as he is complete, and looking forward to seeing himself as complete.

Finding yourself is a difficult process, many times you need to go through a lot of things before you understand what you fit in, each stage is a process, this process is a little difficult under the hindrance of others, but this is not necessarily a bad thing, maybe a good thing.

It allows you to see the unevenness of human beings, the diversity of human beings.

Finding oneself is never easy, and even the simplest things are very costly.

Specifically, there should be nothing simple in this world, and you think that simple is that you are too proud.

Everything will be forgotten if there is no volitional effort, and people need to constantly maintain their output and update ability, otherwise the brain's memory will be altered.

Unless you are born with an excellent memory.

Whoever is better is naturally the student, and the student must have his own opinion so as not to be led astray by the teacher.

If you let it go unchecked and don't take the initiative to think and don't add your own willpower, then things will definitely not be possible.

As long as you understand this, you know that there is no need to do a lot of experiments, and you need to understand one thing, and that is where your heart and attention are, where your harvest will be, and the rest is not important.

If you think too much all day, you end up being influenced and achieving nothing.

But everyone is not willing to waste their time and become a mediocre person, after all, they still have their own ideals and dreams when they are young.

Everything needs to be done seriously, live in the moment seriously, and take the trouble to solve every problem, this is the right attitude towards life, always do the right thing, even if you lose a lot of things, it is worth it.

People have to take a long-term view, I have signed a contract with my future self, I must work hard to do it, the only person I need to submit an answer is myself, not anyone.

No one will be responsible for your life, you are the first person responsible for your life, if you are unwilling to think because you are afraid of all kinds of difficulties, if you do not resist because you are afraid of various threats from the outside world, you will be dissatisfied with yourself, because the separation of behavior and will will make you doubt yourself, if you don't have differences with yourself, then you should do a good job of promising yourself, instead of deceiving yourself with a perfunctory attitude towards others.

This is insincerity to oneself, and insincerity will further lead to the separation of one's will and behavior, and evolve into saying one thing and doing another, and the whole person will become synonymous with hypocrisy.

Have you ever thought that others are your own mirror, and if you smile at the mirror, you in the mirror will smile at you, and if you break the mirror, then you will also be broken in the mirror.

If people want to get along with each other for a long-term and stable relationship, then the optimal solution must be to give a lot and position yourself in a person who is rich and willing to give.

After Gu Qingzhou figured this out, the waves of the heart lake rippled in circles.

He originally fell in love with Miss Qin, but after realizing it now, he felt that Liang Yi was not pleasing anywhere.

What kind of red robe is Zhuang Yuanlang wearing, and he is not going to get married.