Volume 1 Chapter 500, the rich man can see it clearly
Everything happened too unexpectedly, and it seemed to be in the dark. I now understand why marriage is a matter of two families, Lin Feifei and I love each other again, but it is difficult for two families with huge differences between rich and poor to sit together, and it is difficult to reach a perfect balance.
Today, it was only the first confrontation, and it deviated from the intended track, my parents were angry, my father's face was pale, like frozen ground in winter, and my mother didn't speak, but her eyes were rolling with dissatisfaction and anger.
I silently pushed him into his wheelchair and walked home, not knowing what to say.
As I pondered how to comfort them, an angry aura had spread through the night, and my father could no longer suppress the anger in his heart, and he trembled with anger and scolded, "What do they mean? It's a dog's eyes that look down on people! Look down on our family, don't you? It's as if we're begging them! Yu Bin!"
My father yelled at me, and I was not prepared at all, and I was frightened.
When the bride price was negotiated like this, I was mentally prepared for the worst, and I said helplessly, "What's wrong? You say!"
"It's not that Dad wants to break up the two of you, you also saw her mother's attitude today, she looks down on our family at all, let alone buying a house in Dadu, it's 300,000 dowry, and our family will also take it out!"
My mother's eyes were a little red, and she said with chapped lips: "Binzi, it's not that my parents don't like Fei Fei, but you two are destined to be people from two worlds, our family is poor, but her family can't be disrespectful!" Listen to what her mother says about you? I think you are old and have no money, if you and Fei Fei really get married, you will have to quarrel with each other because of her family in the future."
I can't refute what they said, what they said is the truth, since I was with Lin Feifei, I was ready to fight a tough battle, these words were like a heavy stone, pressing on my heart, making me unable to breathe.
Two families with huge class differences tear at our souls like a storm, but no matter how much it bites, it can't swallow my will.
Lin Feifei and I seem to come from two different worlds, but in my opinion, the original family is like a factory background in the game, I can't decide where I come from, but we can choose our own future life, we are not the continuation of our parents, the reason why I have been going around for so many years is because I just want to be myself.
I have all kinds of complex emotions surging in my heart, they have always wanted me to live an arranged life, find a job in the county, marry a wife and have children, wife and children hot kang head, they think that many people are like this, so I should be like this, I did not move forward according to the steps of the world, I was regarded as a monster by many people in my hometown, the most fierce thing is that I and Kuang Li just broke up, the three aunts and six mothers-in-law all ran to my house, to introduce me to a girlfriend, completely ignoring my mood, I can't wait to let me get married, suddenly look back, I suddenly felt that big cities are actually good in big cities, everyone is busy making money, and no one cares if I get married young.
I organized the language and muttered, "Dad, Mom, this matter has nothing to do with Fei Fei, it's her mother who wants so much money, don't blame Fei Fei, she has been persuading her mother just now......
My father interrupted me with a wave of his hand and sighed, "What kind of child Fei Fei is, can I not know? I just want to tell you, if you really decide to be with Fei Fei, then the two of you will have to fight a lot in the future, even if the two of you get married in the future, it won't change the gap in reality, you might as well listen to the two of us, find a suitable one for you, why do you have to find a fairy to marry back, for you?"
I only felt extremely bitter in my heart, a sense of amazement, sighed helplessly, and said patiently: "Whether the shoes fit or not, only we know, as for the money of the bride price, I will communicate with Fei Fei well, everyone is in a bad mood today, at this time, let's put this matter aside."
The bride price and the house were like a big mountain, weighing on my shoulders, and I felt heavy every time I thought about it.
At this time, my father's angry voice rang out, "Let it go? At any time, the conditions put forward by her family are too harsh, and our family can't afford to marry this daughter-in-law."
I don't know what he said, I don't understand why the world always wants to push me and Lin Feifei to the poles, and we are
It's not the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl.
I feel helpless, but I don't dare to make a mistake in front of Lao Tzu, since my father was hospitalized, I began to talk to him cautiously, my young marriage is like a thorn in his heart, as long as a slight touch, it will prick his nerves.
I pushed the wheelchair forward, smiling cautiously, "You dissipate your anger first, Fei Fei and I really love each other, and you and my mother can't bear to watch us separate because we didn't talk about the bride price!" Besides, I'm so old, if I blow it with Feifei, won't it be more difficult to find a partner?"
My last sentence can't help but make my father realize the reality, at my age, in the marriage and love market in my hometown, there is no value at all, they all say that age is a man's wealth, but when it is my turn to talk about marriage, youth has become my negative capital.
When I was distracted, my mother was also bitterly persuading me, "Binzi...... If you had listened to us earlier, married and married your daughter-in-law earlier, and now your children are about to go to elementary school, I have always asked you to start a family first and then start a business, even if your work is not improving, at least you still have a wife and children, you are small, and now some children are in elementary school, hey......
I smiled slightly, the concubines were tired of hearing these words.
The world has told me with its actions that as long as you have money and everyone you have a relationship with, the rich will eventually become married, and the rich will see it clearly......
But so what?
What's wrong with being single? What about getting married?
Decades later, we are just a grain of sand in this world after all, even the house we bought with our empty wallets does not belong to us in the end, and in the end we can't take anything away, since we can't take it away, why are we so obsessed?
Of course, I just thought about it this way, and I didn't dare to say it in front of my parents, otherwise there would be another family debate competition.
My parents just got angry, and I'm going to bow down now, as long as they don't get angry with themselves.
They are all honest people, and they won't embarrass Lin Feifei because of this matter, but I'm afraid that they will hold back themselves, don't be angry.
My parents complained all the way, and my ears were almost cocooned, but I was still patient, accompanied by smiling faces, and patiently did ideological work for them......