On January 25th, we were together again.

We chatted for a day on January 14th, maybe she was a little moved.

"Why aren't we in a hurry It's been delayed from 2022 to 2023 Is it possible to drag it from the Year of the Tiger to the Year of the Rabbit How can you not be in a hurry about lifelong events Or you didn't take the matter between us seriously at all. If it's settled, I'd like to take you to meet my parents when they come, and if you've never wanted to be with me, and you've never taken it seriously, and you're just shaking me off, then I'm going to have unrealistic fantasies."

"A lot of things are not what they used to be. So while you are giving so much, I also ask myself why? I'm not young, I'm not beautiful, I have a five-year-old son, and I don't have a father yet, what are people trying to do? ”

"There are two questions I have to think about first:

1. Why I like her

1. She is kind, rational, intelligent, excellent, beautiful, and has a delicate face that makes it impossible to distinguish age, which attracts me.

2. With her, I am very relieved and happy.

Second, how much I like her

1. I always think about her and think about her. Think what she thinks, think for her, respect her, and understand her. Take care of her, love her.

2. I never forget it, and I have always refused to give up my pursuit of her. Don't ask for anything in return, pay silently. Strive to improve yourself and want to provide her with the best life. I like it so much that I forget about myself.

3. I'm afraid that she will be angry, afraid of losing her, and can't live without her.

4. I want to give her a sense of security and a commitment to stay with her for the rest of her life, and I want to live this life with her.

Three, what she needs

1. She needs a reliable man, firm and reliable, always good to her, so that she admires and worships, and can provide her with the life she wants.

2. Willing to pay 100% for her.

3. It's good for her son.

Fourth, what can I offer

1. I can be firm and wholeheartedly good to her.

2. She still needs to work hard to provide her with a better life. ”

"No, although you came prepared, but what you wrote is unrealistic, this is not a fact, you said that I finished reading, can I believe it?"

"I didn't come prepared, I usually wrote down what I thought of."

"I want to ask another question, have you ever thought about it, I know very well what I have, I have nothing, but if one day the economic situation is bad, the company is gone, or there are other changes, then I may not be able to protect the only things I have, then what do you say I have?"

"I have a stable job, I will support you"

"This is not a problem, the main problem is not an economic problem, the company is gone, I sit and eat, I will not sit and eat, the family has a bottom, but it is an unbalanced, mismatched problem. Think about it from your perspective, if I were your parent and I think my son is also very good, then I might ask him to find a young, good person, not beautiful, maybe put it aside, the son himself likes, simpler, without so many complicated problems, this may be the most important thing, then you think about these problems. ”

"You're too worried, I can make my own decisions, my parents can't control me, and they won't interfere with me, but I learned that they will tell them that I have found someone I am willing to protect for the rest of my life, so that they don't have to worry about me anymore. Admittedly, there may be some places that are a little inconsiderate, but I really have been writing down what I think of all the time, and I think it's the fact that there is nothing unrealistic and incomplete, and I will slowly think about it later, after all, the days are still long, and we will improve in getting along. ”

"What I just said, I think are more practical issues, you can think about it carefully, instead of making a decision as soon as your brain is hot."

"I really don't have a hot brain I think about these questions I have thought about it It's not a day or two Since the day you told me that your ex-husband died, I've been thinking about it, including whether I can take care of you and your son and your parents The answer is yes I told you later I'm not a reckless person I also have to think about my own happiness I used to think about it I just lived my life alone until the moment I wanted to be with you, it made me rekindle my desire for a happy life I want to try to improve my life so that I can take care of you instead of lying down."

"It's terrible to think about these things, I don't have the courage to deal with them, let alone you, the focus of my life has changed, this is not a financial problem but energy, and I will share more with my children, so I feel unfair and guilty about my other half. So that's why I'm so late, it's not that I'm uncertain, it's that everything is changing, and I'm not sure I'm strong enough to deal with everything that comes next."

"I have my own things to do, and I don't need you to pay anything, you just have me in your heart, you used to ignore me at every turn, I don't live anymore, it's not the same good. It's not unfair, I understand your current situation and am willing to accept it, I have told you before, this is the premise of our relationship, I am willing to give you enough space and time for you to take care of the people you need to care, as long as you agree, I am also willing to help you take care of children and the elderly. On the basis of my true love for you, these are the obligations that I must assume if I want to accept you. You really can't do it alone, your immature shoulders can't carry these, I believe that you are willing to linger more or less have feelings for me, after all, we have known each other for a long time, and we still know each other very well. Imagine if one day your dad has an attack, what will you do by yourself, can you get it alone, your mother is not young, you take care of your dad, who will take care of your son. You really can't do it on your own. On the premise of loving you, I am here to help you, to share the burden of life with you, not to make trouble for you, I really don't need you to care about me. My situation is simpler, my parents are taken care of by my sister and brother-in-law, and my son is more than 10 years old and has his mother and grandmother to take care of. So I have the ability to take on the responsibility of being with you, otherwise I wouldn't easily promise to be with you, after all, everything needs to be done, not as simple as touching the skin of the mouth. ”

"The reality is okay, it's not as bad as you think, my dad is in good health, regular check-ups are very good, of course, if the parents need to take care of their health, I can't escape the responsibility, although the child does not have a father, but I have a good relationship with my grandmother, grandma has been helping to take care of it, and settled the house next to my son's primary school In order to take care of the child, she knows that I am busy, afraid that I can't take care of it! I don't worry about these trivial problems in life, I'm looking for a husband, not just a father for my children, so I'm not worried about these problems, but because you're still young and just as good, I can't find a balance to support the future! This is the uncertainty of the future and the instability of human nature that I am worried about. ”

"It's been so long, I'm sure you already know what kind of person I am, although I don't look like a Leo on the outside, in fact, my Leo characteristics are obvious, I am a persistent person, I will not let go of what I believe, and I will move firmly towards the goal. Many years ago, a friend commented on me very pertinently, although I don't like to talk, but I know very well in my heart what I want and how I know how to get it. So you don't have to worry that I chose you today, and when I meet someone else in the future, I will empathize with you, and you will always be the best in my heart, and no one can compare to you. With you, I won't look at anyone else. I'm not too young, feelings are very heart-consuming, in your place has almost exhausted almost all of my desire for love and the romance that can come up with, I can say that I am exhausted, I dare not imagine, if you reject me again, I may really accept a person who is willing to accept me casually in the future, and I don't care whether I love it or not. I have almost exhausted all my hopes for love with you, and if I can't do this, I may not believe in love anymore, I will not be willing to give anymore, or I will finish this life alone. So you don't have to worry about this anymore, you have some confidence in me, some confidence in yourself, you don't know how good you are in my eyes, that is, the existence of the goddess. I shouldn't say this, but I'm a little happy to know that your ex-husband is dead, I think I'm finally waiting for the opportunity, one is to avoid the worry that you will remarry him. One is that the goddess can't pursue it, and now the goddess is in trouble, and I've been insisting, this time I can make the goddess favorable. Of course, I really didn't take advantage of the situation to rob you, I often worry that you are still dating others, after all, you are so good, as long as you are willing, the people who chase you are not allowed to line up from one end of Meijiang to the other. So when you say that you are willing to think about it, I really feel that my sky is clear, I have been pursuing it for so long, it is really hard, and finally I can see the light of day. Then I suffered from gains and losses, reminding myself over and over again not to be careless, and to be calm. Do you know, I sent you a message in the middle of the night the day before yesterday, you ignored me yesterday, I was in a trance all day long, blaming myself for being redundant, afraid that you would annoy me and change my mind again, and regret and blame myself. ”

"By the way, no matter how young I am, I am one year older than you It's better to feel safer than finding someone younger than you, but if you really want to find someone who is more than ten years older than you and not much younger than your dad What if he hangs up one day, what should you do Mao Amin just found Xie Zhikun from the middle plant system He hung up at the age of 60 Leaving a young son and a butt of debt This time you also feel It is stronger than anything else I have been yang for less than a day Brother Liu, who is in his 50s in our department, was uncomfortable with me for more than a month In fact, in the end, men fight for their careers, and in the end, they fight for who is in good health and who lives long I really regret my life now I don't dare to drive blindly and don't dare to cross the road when I cross the street This is not only responsible for myself, responsible for my parents, but also responsible for you I can't leave you alone to fight against this unknown world. ”

"Life and death have a life and wealth in the sky, in short, it is better to earn more than to live longer, in the face of money, human life is greater than the sky."

"I really can't promise what the future will be But the past can always see a person's heart Seeing you say that drinking Xuanlung Clearing Mixture works I immediately placed an order to buy It was slow I drove all the way to find it From two pharmacies near my home I have been looking for your company I can't remember how many pharmacies I entered along the way I just didn't have to declare my lungs I couldn't do it I was anxious I saw that the Oriental Fortune Information said that everyone was grabbing vitamins I immediately thought that you also need these to buy I know that you like foreign ones I saw a company that seemed to be called swiss But I saw that it took 10 days to ship Remember that Tomson Beijian is a listed company I should buy it without a problem Seeing your son's Didi Gold I'm afraid it's not enough to play I'll go to Taobao to find After all, it's something for children I'm afraid of danger I visited I don't know how many stores I saw a real person sending photos I dare to buy it if I think it's reliable I have never been so interested in a person. ”

"Be grateful and remember it in your heart [namaste] [namaste] [namaste]."

"I don't want you to be grateful, I never thought about what I wanted you to do when I did this, I just wanted to do this for you from the bottom of my heart."

"Accompany your parents to have a good New Year, good things will be grinding, and the result will definitely come true."