Not worthy of the storm

After two days, the turmoil finally calmed down again.

At noon on February 16th, I received a Valentine's Day gift from Peipei, Lingmei pen gift box, which I liked very much. It proves that she has me in her heart, but I am too unconfident.

But after giving the gift, she sued me, and the gift was said to be for you, so leave it as a souvenir. I felt bad when I heard it, and said, don't be like this, we are going to finish this life, and I wish you a good result, which means that I wish you and me, and the two of us have a good result together.

"How old are you again?"

Just as her gift arrived, I took a picture and sent it to her, telling her that I liked it very much.

"If you like it, keep a souvenir. I'll have a good end for you. It's good to have received something, and what should be said has been said, good luck."

"Can you tell me why? We said we wouldn't break up. Yesterday you said you were going to give me a chance. I thought we had reconciled yesterday. I was wrong in my judgment before, if you don't like me, you won't prepare a gift for me. I really didn't know before. ”

"1. I didn't say it this time, you don't have to defend it, I'm not a fool, you know it very well in your own heart

2. You are not sincere and firm enough, don't be reluctant, let alone compromise, otherwise it will end in tragedy

3. There may be seeds in the world of men's games, depending on whether they break out, so instead of this, I'd rather find enough to play than starve."

"It looks like it was the phone call last night. You have a misunderstanding of me. I didn't go hungry, I was serious about every relationship, but the development of things was different from what I expected, and I wasn't irresponsible or anything if there was no result. This incident started because of me, but I have already explained, there is no justification, that is, I have some expectations for you, it is not at all that you said that you are not worthy of me, I never thought that you are not worthy of me, but I am not worthy of you. I think I'm sincere and determined enough, I never thought that I was reluctant, after all, I am also responsible for my happiness, let alone compromised, I have dreamed of our happy life together countless times. Bumps and bumps in emotional communication are inevitable, and I will find a way to solve problems when I encounter them, and don't give up easily. How old am I, what do I still play, I'm serious about you. Every time there is a conflict between us, I try to try to make amends, and if I am not firm enough, we will not be able to get to where we are today. I sent you a whole day of WeChat yesterday, and another night in the evening, just because I cherish the relationship between us, it's a pity to miss it. I'm not the hunting mentality you said at all, I'm going with the goal of two people living for a long time. The relationship I had before, I didn't say it very clearly in a hurry with you on the phone yesterday, and I will make it clear to you when I find an opportunity in the future, it's not what you said at all, I failed someone or something, it's not as simple as you think, I'm not sorry for her. Besides, that's in the past, and it doesn't mean anything. I'm not as frivolous as you think, I'm a serious and responsible person for my feelings. There is one thing I ask you to promise me, whether you will accept me again or not, and never return to me what I have given you, which is why I was in a hurry to call you just now. That's the last fig leaf I'll have in front of you, don't tear it off and throw it in my face, please be careful about my dignity as a man. You promised me that we would move our relationship forward steadily. I've always wanted our relationship to be like building a house, building one floor today and building one floor tomorrow, rather than tearing down the foundation at the slightest moment. You didn't reply to my WeChat last night, I slept there last night, and I was a little worried, whether it would be because of what I said about my previous relationship on the phone, it would make you misunderstand something, but I didn't expect it to happen. I was really wronged. You have always tried and deceived me, and I have never bothered with you. I'll tell you whatever you ask, and I never hide it from you, but I didn't expect to get this in exchange. ”

"Don't go online, this is called frank communication, be sincere"

"It's not as bad as you think it is with that girl"

"I don't care about that, it's just a casual question"

"Let's not separate, okay. You said you wanted to be quiet, I didn't dare to look for you today, I didn't think that this was what I was waiting for. ”

"Just like you invited me to your house, my knee-jerk reaction was, this is your rhythm, and the same is true for other girls, and it is exactly what I expected. You think the other way around, you ask me out, I'll go, and the other boys ask me out, and I'll go, which shows that I used to accept like this, the bottom line is low, and it's not defended, and I won't talk about it later, you think for yourself."

"If we mention this as soon as we meet me, that's unreliable. We've known each other for almost two years and we've been together, and I thought our relationship had reached that point. You said before that your bottom line is to know each other for more than half a year, and I think we have both been known for 4 and a half years. ”

"That's half a year together, not looking at it from afar"

"That's because I misunderstood what you said, I'm a bit stupid, it doesn't mean that I'm a bad person."

"According to your calculations, I have been with my kindergarten classmates for more than 30 years."

"I'm really not a bad person. Didn't I realize the problem and tell you that I wanted to change it? If you don't want to talk about it later, you won't break up because of this. It's not that I can't afford to wait, I've been waiting for you for two years, and I don't care if I continue to wait. You see how much you care about me, you know that I love to write a diary, you specially bought me a pen and a diary, such a good pen and diary, I received it for the first time, I like it very much, and I am very happy. A lot of things I realized now, and I always thought you didn't know me, I didn't know what I liked, and now it seems that this is not the case at all. I'm going to miss you, I may really feel sorry for the rest of my life, what a good girl I missed, so understanding. In the past, I was really narrow-minded, and I always felt that only I was good to you, and you were average to me, but now it seems that this is not the case. It's just that I'm more direct, and you're more reserved. It's really not necessary, it's not a big matter of principle to break up for some small things. It is inevitable that two people will get along with each other, just say it, and each other must have a problem of acceptance and habit. Is there really anything I can't accept at all, is it really necessary to break up so resolutely? Is the relationship between us really so fragile, we have known each other for more than two years, even if it is empty, the time to really understand each other must add up to a year, don't you feel a pity to be separated like this? It's not that you've never liked me, and you still recognize me more or less, but you've experienced some small twists and turns, and our relationship is still moving forward. ”

"Give you 2 months to quit smoking first, quit and then talk about it"

"Okay. In fact, 2.5 you asked me to quit, I won't smoke, yesterday you made an awkward trouble with me and ignored me, I was very depressed, so I smoked again, and I really didn't smoke it for 10 days in the middle. ”

"You've been saying you want to quit smoking since the day you met me, and it's been almost 2 years, and I've been quitting all the time, and I feel like I'm giving less in February."

"You and I are separated, I quit when we were together, and when we had dinner with our former colleagues in 21 years, they asked me to smoke and I didn't smoke. The longest record was a month of abstinence, but every time you were separated from me, I was depressed and wanted to relapse. Besides, you never said that you had to quit, 2.5 You made it clear, I made up my mind to quit, how could I think that I would break up again in a few days, you don't know how sad I am. I must quit this time. I also wondered, it's not a little girl in her 20s, she's almost 40, why do you mention breaking up at every turn, worrying about yourself. The longest record you have talked about after the divorce is no more than a month, and it is only a month with the branch president, and you broke up with me again, so I can stand you and desperately want to make amends. You said that you were going to break up with me, and then go to talk to others, and if there was a conflict, you would break up, who could stand you, and I would take you in, reluctant to let you go, I love you the most, so reluctant. ”

"It's a big problem for me"

"Just kidding, you're very good, it's me who has a lot to do, and I can't make you happy at every turn. You used to be unladylike. You take care of me a little more, don't mention breaking up in the future, we have to be good, I will try not to mess with you. ”

"I didn't promise you. After quitting smoking, none of my previous boyfriends smoked and didn't like it."

"Successive ...... Baidu search, calendar"

"Can you see the point?"

"I didn't have much addiction in the first place, my parents didn't smoke for a few days, and I didn't think about it after quitting for 10 days."