060: Experience being a parent

Chengcheng's attitude is very resolute, that is, he wants to leave his sister and future brother-in-law to study abroad and pursue his own free life. Lin Zhaowan had no choice but to tell her that she had to think about this matter and couldn't agree to her for the time being.

Unexpectedly, Chengcheng just stuck out his tongue and obediently took his homework book back to the room.

Her schedule is very stable, and it is the routine that a child should have. Seven in the morning and nine in the evening is also her routine that she can't go back.

When Chen Ji'an came back from work, Lin Zhaowan took a tablet to search for which Japanese university was better, and wanted to find an intermediary to ask first. If Chengcheng wants to go abroad, she has to wait for her to become an adult, have independent ability, and the basic standards for judging right and wrong, before she can go abroad, otherwise if she is delayed, she will regret it for the rest of her life.

Chengcheng's psychological age is very mature, and she has long thought that she can't spend her sister's money, and she has saved a lot of New Year's money before, and she doesn't want any extra money.

In addition to buying textbooks and study materials, she is reluctant to even buy a toy for the cost of the canteen.

Since her parents' accident, although she didn't say anything, she actually understood everything in her heart. In order not to burden her, she even went to the nearby library to read books on Saturdays and Sundays, instead of going out to play with her friends, and matured like a little adult.

But the more this happened, the more distressed she became, and even felt that she was not a qualified sister.

Chen Ji'an said hello to her after returning home, she just answered with a "hmm", continued to hold the tablet, and didn't say anything.

They eat together except for weekend dinners, and Chen Ji'an usually eats in the new unit, while she eats in the school cafeteria. Some time ago, Chen Ji'an changed from self-employed to a stable system, and the time to get off work at night was not as irregular as before, and even got off work in the early morning, so he could spend more time with her.

Chen Ji'an also wondered, a few days ago, she was very happy to know that she had a boyfriend assigned by the country, and when she went home, she had to hug him and praise him, why did she ignore him now?

Didn't he clean up the garbage in his room before he went to work in the morning?

Or did he spill the shower gel on the ground while taking a shower and make her slip?

It has to be said that it is more troublesome for two people to live together than for him to live alone. He shook his head and walked into the bathroom, let's take a shower first, otherwise he would be dirty now, and he wouldn't dare to approach her.

Chen Ji'an also had a girlfriend before he knew that girls had such a serious cleanliness habit...... If he is not careful, he may be gently criticized by her.

In fact, Lin Zhaowan is good-tempered, but I didn't expect him to come back from overtime last time, when she was practicing yoga in the living room, he packed her favorite ginger duck and put it in front of her, and her clothes rubbed against her nightdress, she gasped and pulled the corner of her skirt back.

She wanted to lose her temper, but looking at his face, she suppressed the fire again, and said stupidly: "Don't stain my nightdress, and you have to change your slippers before entering the door, I just mopped the floor, it will be dirty." ”

He was stunned for a few seconds and spread his hands, indicating that he knew he was wrong.

But at that moment, I thought she was a little cute.

I just don't know if she can be so cute the next time he does it again?

It wasn't until Chen Ji'an came out of the bathroom after taking a shower that Lin Zhaowan finally regained her previous enthusiasm, she walked over in slippers, hugged him, and sniffed desperately: "You are so fragrant!" ”

He was stunned for a moment, looked at the TV that had been turned off, and asked, "You're not going to be watching "The Temptation to Go Home" again, are you?" ”

He is not Hong Shixian, he won't look outside, she must not suddenly ask him on a whim how many clothes there are in Pinru's wardrobe, he really doesn't know.

Lin Zhaowan was stunned for a moment, then reacted and knocked on his chest: "What are you thinking!" I'm just recharging, and the moment you go home is my happiest moment, the moment my dream comes true! ”

“……”

Is it?

He never thought he would be her dream.

She spread out her hand holding him, held the tablet in front of him, and said seriously: "Mr. Chen, didn't you ask me if I can have the determination and ability to be a mother?" Now let's try it out first? ”

He raised his eyebrows, how to experience it? Chengcheng was really happy with him during this time, and that was because of changing diapers, feeding, and breastfeeding...... They don't have to worry about these things.

On the contrary, because of Chengcheng, he didn't believe that he could be a completely good father. It takes too much effort to raise and take care of a child, and the woman has to pay a greater price than the man, he doesn't want the girl he likes to be a mother so early, completely immersed in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and lose his current freshness.

Lin Zhaowan turned on the screen of the tablet and sighed: "My sister, at a young age, wants to study abroad." ”

……

The air was suddenly quiet.

Here comes the "disagreement" between parents and children.

However, because they were bringing someone else's child, Lin Zhaowan and Chen Ji'an had no differences of opinion, and the problem was solved in almost three minutes.

That is, Chengcheng can only go abroad after the third year of high school, and it must not be sent out at this age, which is unsafe in all senses.

She suddenly sighed: "It's really tiring to be a mother. ”

There are so many problems to consider, if the mind is immature, or if you don't love your child enough, it is difficult to worry about him so much.

He let out an "um" with a hint of a low voice: "So I don't want you to be a mother." ”

She knows the problem very clearly, and she doesn't want to avoid it: "But marriage is a matter of two people, if you want to have children, but I don't want to, the intention is not agreed, and we will still break up." ”

This is the biggest risk of falling in love with someone who is close to ten years older than you, and everyone has different plans for the future. Some people are enjoying their young lives, and some people are already thinking about the rest of their lives, and they can no longer care about playing, but think about the responsibilities of a family.

Since she decided to be with him, it was after thought.

Chen Ji'an also thinks so, and the problem of parents is an unavoidable problem. He can not get married or have children, it doesn't matter if he is criticized alone, but if he takes her with him, he will let her suffer gossip together.

The so-called escape is actually a very unrealistic idea, you can escape for a while, but you can't escape for a lifetime. You will all be stumped by gossip, and that's the way society is.

So it's his problem, he can't solve the discussion of his parents and neighbors, so he doesn't want her to accompany him to bear all this at a young age.

But now, he will try to solve all this and let her marry him with peace of mind.

Her eyes were shining, she looked at him intently, and held his hand: "Chen Ji'an, let's have a baby at the age of 26!" ”