Be cautious in your words and deeds, and calculate wisely
Some leaders do not pay attention to their work methods, go straight to the point, and do not understand the clever use of the strategy of "encircling Wei to save Zhao", which often causes dissatisfaction among their subordinates. In fact, the leader will not only give orders, but also be a conductor and strategist who "encircles Wei and saves Zhao". How to make the most effective implementation of the instructions issued by the leader is a crucial issue for almost all leaders, and it is directly related to the influence of power and the weight of prestige. Therefore, the following rules should be followed when giving orders:
(1) Be cautious in words and deeds
The saint walked, and everyone watched. People with high status and popularity, their every move must be watched by a considerable number of people. This is said to be a foot of the ship, and the mast is a foot of swing. Therefore, people with a high social status should have a cautious and prudent attitude towards their words and deeds, so as to live up to the truth of Chrysostom.
As soon as the word is spoken, the horse is difficult to chase. When a saint touches others, he is careful with his words and deeds, not to prevent others, but to prevent his mouth. The tongue of a person is soft and irregular, and between people, the tongue acts on half a person. When US President George W. Bush visited Japan, he fainted during the banquet, which immediately affected the price of the Wall Street stock market. In view of this, it is very necessary for leading figures to constantly revise their words and deeds, and those who despise this principle and principle will inevitably arouse the attacks of public opinion from time to time and thus suffer from trouble. Because, the higher the status, the more their reputation belongs to the whole society.
Follow the principle of respecting others and being cautious in words and deeds, and the voice of praise must accompany you. On the contrary, it may not be. The more prestigious a great man is, the more humbly he must judge his words and deeds. Otherwise, prestige may also go to the opposite side, as the so-called does not accumulate small goodness, it is impossible to become famous; If there is no accumulation of great evil, there will be no calamity; Small evils accumulate a lot, and evil covers up good words.
(2) Inner ring and outer ring
Everyone is credible, and everyone is not credible. No matter how many people there are, there must be an inner circle and an outer circle. To use the inner ring correctly, the first thing should be to constantly expand and consolidate the outer ring, and only with the outer ring can the inner circle be strengthened.
The formation of the inner ring must also be accompanied by a fixed stance. After the group is formed, the opposition will not easily pull out the people in your inner circle, and the outer circle will move closer to the inner circle.
The maker of the order is oneself, and the publisher should be someone else, so as to avoid the focus of the contradiction on oneself, to avoid the focus of the contradiction, whether facing the inner circle or the outer circle, in some things, the inner and outer circles should be treated equally.
Leaders want to sit firmly in their positions, on the one hand, they must be cautious in their words and deeds, cultivate themselves, run in themselves through different ways, and at the same time establish their own prestige, which cannot be achieved overnight, and they must go through a road of nine twists and eighteen bends! Therefore, it is necessary to learn a little more about the mystery of "encircling Wei to save Zhao".