Fang Yuan lives in the world with a big plan
As mentioned earlier, the strategy of "waiting for work with leisure" is to seize the opportunity and not act rashly. If you grasp the opportunity, you can change from weak to strong, from small to large. If you don't know how to grasp the opportunity, you have to abandon the weak and the strong, and then not only will you not be able to achieve your goal, but you will lose a mess. Successful politicians in the past know that the word "ninja" is an heirloom, and only those who can be ninja can wait for the opportunity to wait, and when they have enough strength to fight their opponents, they will fight back fiercely, and they will definitely be able to win in one battle.
Only by being able to endure what others can endure can we make ourselves bent and stretch, constantly accumulate strength, and enhance endurance and judgment, so that we can accumulate capital for the success of our future career.
Su Xun of the Song Dynasty once said: "One forbearance can control a hundred humiliations, and one tranquility can control a hundred movements." This means that the role of forbearance can resist thousands of troops, which can be said to be a strategy of "forbearance and small-scale planning". Zhuge Liang captured Meng seven times and held back his hatred, and endured it again and again, and finally subdued the rebels with his own forbearance and kept the peace and tranquility of the country.
Meng Shu was the leader of the ethnic minorities in the south of Shu during the Three Kingdoms, and led the people to rebel, and Zhuge Liang was ordered to lead the troops to pacify. When Zhuge Liang heard that Yu Shu was not only brave in battle, but also had great prestige among the tribal people in various regions of Nanzhong, he thought that if he was won over, it would make Shu have a stable rear. Therefore, it was ordered that Meng Shu should only be captured alive and not harmed. When the Shu army and Meng Shu's troops clashed for the first time, Zhuge Liang instructed the Shu army to deliberately retreat and lead Meng Huo to chase after him. Meng Shu relied on the strength of the crowd and only cared about rushing forward, but he was ambushed by the Shu army, was defeated, and became a prisoner himself. When the Shu army escorted Meng Shu, who was tied up with five flowers, back to the camp, Meng Shu knew that he would definitely die this time, so he made a trick and scolded him. Who knew that as soon as he entered the Shu army camp, Zhuge Liang not only immediately let people loosen the rope for him, but also accompanied him to visit the Shu army camp and persuaded him to surrender with good words. Meng was wild and untamable, not only was he not convinced, but he was arrogant and rude, saying that Zhuge Liang was cheating. Zhuge Liang was not angry, let him go back, and the two made an appointment to fight again.
After Meng Shu ran back, he regrouped and attacked the Shu army again with great momentum, only to be captured alive again. Zhuge Liang failed to persuade him to surrender, and once again sent Meng Shu out of the camp. Meng Huo was also a tough temper, and when he went back, he led people to attack and changed his offensive strategy at the same time, either holding on to the ferry or retreating to the mountains, but he couldn't get rid of Zhuge Liang's control. Captured again and again, released again and again. When he was captured for the seventh time, Zhuge Liang wanted to release him again, but Meng Shu refused to go, he said with tears: "Cheng is against me Meng Shu seven captures and seven verticals, it can be said that he is benevolent and righteous, I admire it in my heart, from now on, I will never mention the rebellion again." ”
After Meng returned, he persuaded all the rebel tribes to surrender, and the southern and central regions were re-controlled by Shu Han. Since then, the rear of Shu has become stable, and the people of all ethnic groups in the south have also been able to recuperate and live and work in peace and contentment.
As the saying goes, there are no more than three things. It's okay to tolerate it once or twice, but it's a little unbearable again and again. But Zhuge Liang arrested and released Meng Huo for the sake of the stability of his rear, let him go, endured it patiently, and did not give up because of Meng Shu's behavior, the reason why Zhuge Liang did this was to convince people with virtue, so that Meng Huo was happy and convinced, and made up his mind not to rebel again. This will enable them to obtain a stable and stable rear area, so that the people at home will not suffer from war, and at the same time, they will be able to gradually accumulate strength to deal with the coveting and aggression of Wei and Wu. If Zhuge Liang can't bear Meng Huo's arrogance and ignorance of the times, and kills him with a knife after catching it, it will only be a momentary anger, but it will arouse the hostility of other clansmen and compete to follow suit, then he will not only be tired of coping with this, but also will give Cao Wei and Dongwu a chance to take advantage of it and lose the world because he has no time to take care of it. Therefore, the difference between forbearance and intolerance is that forbearance can only express immediate resentment, but forbearance can be rewarded with long-term benefits. Those who are good at forbearance can "wait for work with ease" and easily achieve their goals.
In the operation of the enterprise, forcing the opponent to be in a difficult situation, there is no need to take direct offensive means, according to the principle of the mutual transformation of rigidity and softness, the implementation of active defense, gradually consume and exhaust the opponent, so that it from strong to weak, I am fully prepared and change the passive to the active, and then attack. The extension of this plan can also be described or explained by "static braking", "overcoming rigidity with softness", "treating the near and far", "responding to all changes with the same, turning the passive into the active", "quiet as a virgin, if you take off the rabbit", "if you don't scream, you are a blockbuster, if you don't fly, you have soaring into the sky" and so on. It is also similar to the "Art of War" in "The Art of War", "the good defender hides under the nine earths, and the good attacker moves above the nine heavens". In the modern business war, business operators are good at influencing and fatigue competitors, while I am calm, recuperating, preserving strength, standing by and moving, and taking the lead.