Language is an art in itself, and people feel that it is unpredictable and powerful.

When dealing with people and talking to each other, we should pay special attention to the use of language, and the proper use can have a better communication effect, and sometimes even two diametrically opposite effects.

In the Avanti story, there is a story called "Dream Interpretation". The story goes that the emperor had a dream in which a man had his teeth pulled out.

The emperor was very frightened when he woke up, and when he went to court the next day, the emperor told his ministers about the dream and asked who could explain it.

One of the ministers said, "Your Majesty's whole family will die before Your Majesty." The emperor was furious and ordered the minister to be beheaded.

At this time, Avanti came to the palace, and the emperor told him about the dream and asked him how to explain it.

Avanti said, "Your Majesty will outlive all your dependents. When the emperor heard this, he was very happy and ordered Avan to be rewarded heavily.

Two sentences, one meaning, a minister who did not adopt the art of language and was beheaded; Avanti's skillful use of the art of language was highly appreciated by the emperor, and in the end he came up with two very different effects.

One sounds harsh and one sounds ear-filling. This is the art of speaking, and the art of being a person, whether you are using a strategy such as making a noise or stealing from the world, but one thing you have to remember is that you need to use the right words to express the same meaning.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Sister Feng is also very fond of speaking, so she also likes Jia's mother very much. Once, Mother Jia told Aunt Xue and others that she accidentally fell into the water and injured her head because she was naughty when she was a child, and there is still a small mark the size of a thimble on her sideburns.

Sister Feng immediately said: "At that time, I couldn't live, but now who can enjoy this great blessing!" It can be seen that the fortune of the ancestors is not small. The ghost sent the gods, and he came out of that nest, so that he could live a long life. "Sister Feng's ghost is clever, which makes Jia's mother happy.

When talking to your boss, it's best to praise him when he's not paying attention, so that he is only happy, but you can't hear which words are sycophants for a while, and you also show that you only know a fact and do not mean to praise.

It should be said that this kind of conversation with the boss can be called art.

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