How to face your opponent's "fishing in troubled waters"

In real life, you will inevitably meet various types of people, so you need to learn to deal with all kinds of people.

Generally speaking, people prefer to associate with warm and generous people rather than with those who like to fish in troubled waters and are greedy for small profits.

Many young people have lost some friends because of this, and some even feel very distressed. In fact, people who love to fish in troubled waters and love to be greedy for small profits are not necessarily full of copper smell, and they should be specifically analyzed in interpersonal communication.

Generally speaking, in terms of action, it is manifested as greed and greed for small profits, and its psychological process is often different from person to person.

The reasons for this can be considered from two levels: living habits and life concepts. The problem of greedy for small profits is a habit formed by the influence of the social environment (especially the family environment).

Such people often lack lofty ideals, have a difficult family life, and some have a casual style of life, low self-esteem, get by, and do not seek progress.

However, this kind of person is not bad-hearted, especially outgoing, has no hidden fears, and is easy to understand.

In dealing with such people, it is necessary to pay attention to positive criticism and guide them to work hard in their work and study in order to raise their ideal level.

When the ideal level is raised, the demand for self-esteem will be raised, and the problem of greed for small profits will be restrained accordingly.

The greed for profit of this group of people must not be tolerated, because appeasing them will only increase the extent of this bad habit.

They should not be sarcastically sarcastic, as sarcasm will inevitably affect their self-esteem needs.

There are also some people who love to fish in troubled waters and are greedy for small profits, and their behavior is governed by a certain consciousness and reflects the concept of life.

Such people often have special life experience, have suffered hardships in life, and their outlook on life is often manifested as:

"Self" is the center. When dealing with this kind of person, you should get along with them sincerely, sincerely help each other in work, study and life, and use your own behavior to influence each other.

Saying goes

"The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time",

"Sincerity, gold and stone for the open". After a long time, a person who is magnanimous everywhere will surely make such a greedy person feel ashamed from the bottom of his heart, knowing that when he truly understands your sincere heart, he will always be grateful to you, and the friendship established by this must be pure and strong.

Because people who rely on fishing in troubled waters and greedy for small profits will inevitably not cause great harm, and it is an important way to behave in favor of such a person from the perspective of unity, so that he can change this bad problem.

There are two ways to use this plan: one is to use it passively, or to wait

"Muddy" after the go

"Touching the Fish"; The first is to use it actively, that is, to try to muddy the water first, so that the other party is busy and lose his opinion, and then follow my will into the trap.

This is often done in the West's life-and-death annexation wars.