The first question asks whether you should insist on getting married at the best time if you don't find the right person to marry at the best time to have children. ”

The debater on the positive side knows that if he follows the other party's train of thought to answer, he is likely to face a situation of pressing step by step in the future.

So you have to step out and answer within your own framework.

Only in this way will it not make the matter of 'getting married in a hurry' seem blind.

This is the conclusion reached by several debaters on the positive side after some discussion.

"First of all, 'hurry' means to be mentally and physically in a hurry, not to meet a definite deadline. ”

"It's like when we go to work at eight o'clock and it's half past seven, and we need to hurry up and get on the road and avoid being late as much as possible."

"When we were in a hurry to get on the road, we probably avoided being late."

"However, there is still a certain probability that you will be late, which is not something that can be controlled."

"But it must have been much earlier than not rushing to work."

"It's the same thing for getting married in a hurry."

"Getting married within the optimal fertility window can give birth to the healthiest children and the mother's recovery will be faster."

"That's why I still insist that I need to get married in a hurry, and it's necessary to be in a hurry."

After saying this, several debaters on the positive side breathed a sigh of relief.

Finally got the situation back.

The audience, who supported the positive view, also applauded the debater's performance.

"That's right!"

"It's always right to hurry, don't wait until you can't find a good partner in the end."

"I heard that it is easy to recover from having children when you are young, so it is better to marry early and have children as early as possible!"

"But the older generation, like my grandmother and grandmother, have a long life after giving birth to five or six, and the age difference between their children is also more than ten years, and both old people have lived to be over eighty years old, so there is no such thing as how much late life hurts the body."

"Yes, and physical fitness is not just based on age, those who exercise regularly are much better than young people who don't exercise. Recovery is also quick. ”

"You're all thinking about having children, but it's hard for us single dogs to find a partner, and there's no way to force yourself to contact people who aren't interested."

"So people like you have to be in a hurry, get to know more people, so that you have a greater probability of finding someone who is willing to contact and socialize!"

"That's right! Actually, I wanted to give up."

"Be positive, a good lover also needs to fight for yourself, in the end, everyone is willing to come here to listen to this debate, in fact, their hearts are eager to find a better, more suitable way of life, I think you too, so to act in line with your heart, come on!"

This debate competition not only made the contestants think, but also made the audience aware of their real needs.

Although some people say that in order to get married and have children, they can relax the requirements for the marriage partner.

But when the opposing debater asked the corresponding question just now, he found that he was unwilling to compromise.

I will also worry about a series of unsatisfactory or even catastrophic things that may happen after marrying the wrong person.

So I began to remind myself that when making decisions, I must consider many aspects before acting.

There are also some people, although they keep saying that they won't get married if they can't find a suitable partner, and it doesn't matter if they don't get married for the rest of their lives.

But deep down in their hearts, they have a desire for a good married life, but they subconsciously think that they are likely to not find such an object, and they will not reach their ideal level, so they behave very Buddhist.

After listening to the debater's words, I began to feel the need to follow my heart.

Don't be awkward enough to say you don't need it, but try to find it, in case you meet the ideal other half?

The three arguments on the stage continued to state their views.

"Now to answer the second question of the opposite side - why are we obsessed with getting married and having children, and whether we are just to keep offspring who are related to us."

"I think everyone has their own ideal of a good life."

"The things that can make people cling to must be the things that their hearts desire and need the most."

"For us, marriage allows us to have a loving partner and a happy marriage."

"Giving birth to a child allows us to feel the process of giving birth to life, and to experience and witness the happiness and joy of a young life growing from childhood to adulthood."

"If we say, some people's dreams are poetry and distance, some people's dreams are to achieve fame, and some people's dreams are to disarm and return to the field."

"Then our dream is to have a real and ordinary happy life."

"Our yearning is the smell of fireworks in the world, which is the most soothing to the hearts of mortals."

"Fundamentally speaking, getting married and having children is our understanding of a happy life and our tireless pursuit."

The sound of the three debates reverberated throughout the large venue through microphones and multiple speakers.

Confronting the true needs of one's heart and speaking openly is something that many people find difficult to do.

However, it is precisely because of its authenticity and honesty that it has hit the hearts of countless audiences and aroused strong resonance.

The applause at the scene once again rang out for the debaters on the stage.

The audience's desire to discuss was also stimulated again.

"This statement is very level! He is worthy of being a student of Yenching Higher Education. ”

"Said something that everyone is usually embarrassed to say in life."

"In fact, these words are not only said for the parties, but also probably say the voices of many elders who urge everyone to get married."

A girl with a low ponytail suddenly said this.

An elderly man sat next to her, who gave an answer.

"Girl, you're right. We are middle-aged and elderly people of this age, and we can't open our mouths to say to our children, I want you to live happily, so I want you to get married as soon as possible. ”

"The clichés we say are also handed down from the previous generation. But they're gone, and even we're gone. ”

"This is not only a nostalgia for the older generation, but also a sustenance for the younger generation."

Listening to the elder's emotion, the next second, the low-ponytailed girl had red eyes for no reason.

She thought about her own family, and what her parents had said to her.

Because the family urged marriage strongly, the two sides broke out many fierce quarrels.

She repeatedly refused to continue contact with people she didn't feel, making her parents think that she had made up her mind not to get married.

In the face of his parents' anxious questioning, he was embarrassed to say that he refused because he wanted to pursue true happiness.

She knew that she had a lot of things that were difficult to say to her relatives, so it suddenly occurred to her that maybe her parents were too.

This kind of alexithymia is common to Chinese people.

This is especially true for those who are more traditional-minded.

She refused to marry on a blind date for happiness, and her parents urged her to marry for her happiness.

She suddenly felt that she should try to talk to her parents about her true thoughts in the future.

At this time, there was a sudden commotion next to him.

"I'll go! Jiang Qin also saw our debate competition!! She also replied!! ”