Chapter 110: The Debate of the Pros and Cons Debaters!
After answering the second question, the opposing side of the second argument began to answer the third question.
"As for the third question of the positive side, if you don't get married in a hurry, and you have missed the best time when you want to have children, will you still stick to your original view?"
"We believe that marriage is an extremely important event, not only related to the development of life and personal happiness of ourselves and the person we are marrying with, but also to the happiness of everyone, including both families and possible children in the future."
"And all of this is built on the foundation of a happy marriage."
"If a person is 'in a hurry to get married', the word 'rush' has already indicated that TA does not have enough time to screen suitable partners and run in with marriage partners."
"There is a high probability that such a hastily concluded marriage will end in a marriage in which both parties lose, exist in name only, or break up."
"Parents on both sides will also work hard, and it is difficult for their children to get a good environment for growth."
"Is it true that having a child is all that is done as long as it is born?"
"There is no need to consider the child's psychological quality, personal ability, morality, and three views. And so on all aspects of the cultivation? ”
"If the child's nurturing process is not valued, then what is the probability that the child can grow into an adult with comprehensive and healthy physical and mental development, and a person who is beneficial to society?"
She said a lot in one breath, and launched a series of soul torture many times.
A lot of pressure was put on the debaters.
Off the stage, there was another round of applause and applause.
However, some viewers disagreed with her statement.
For this reason, some of the audience members sitting next to each other started a discussion while talking.
"That's a great point! The opposing side of my station mainly takes into account the issue of raising children. ”
"But isn't it, having a child is not over after birth, it is a life, and it is really irresponsible to think about people who only think about birth and do not think about raising."
"But who said that people who are in a hurry to get married will not think about raising children? Don't you have to think about it? ”
"However, doesn't it mean that you are in a hurry to get married, even if you don't find a suitable partner, you have to find someone to marry and give birth to a child before you reach the age?"
"That's also within the scope of ability, choose the person who best meets your requirements to get married, and the relationship can also be cultivated, and the living habits of both parties after marriage can continue to run in, and it may not necessarily break down."
"It sounds like there's some truth to that, but it feels like there's a higher chance of a rupture."
"It depends on the specific situation of the individual, after all, everyone is different, and it is impossible to speak uniformly."
After chatting, the audience on both sides still retained their original views.
On the stage ahead, after this wonderful defense of the opposing side, the chairman of the debate competition stood up and delivered a speech.
"Okay, we have listened to the answer of the opposing side to the question of the positive side."
"Next, let's ask the opposing side to ask questions about the positive side."
At this time, the opposing side has already made a note of the views in the positive statement just now, and grabbed some loopholes in their eyes.
The opposing side stood up, bowed to the chairman, the opposing debater, and the audience, and briefly introduced themselves.
Formal questioning ensued.
"Our first problem is that we know that it is not easy to find a suitable partner for whom we are both mutually satisfied."
"So, when you don't find a suitable marriage partner before the deadline you set, will you still choose a partner who is willing to marry you to complete the marriage and have children?"
"The second question is, what is your original intention of insisting on getting married and having children? Is it just to keep the blood that is related to you? ”
"The third question is, when your marriage fails, when you face a series of problems such as loss of reputation, physical and mental trauma, family breakdown, children not having a good environment for growth, and being unable to balance work and raising children, do you still insist that the original choice was right?"
"Please ask the other party to answer three times."
The debater made a gesture of invitation to the other party and sat down in his seat.
The eyes of the audience looked at the three arguments on the right side.
The phalanx on the left side of the auditorium is full of people from outside.
At this time, there are also some people who whisper after listening to the questions of the other side.
"These three problems are not so easy to deal with."
"Indeed, it depends on how the debater answers."
"These students are amazing! Don't say that his brain is bright, and his mouth is still so sharp. ”
"I can't even remember these questions, so I can't even answer them."
"That's why we're sitting in the audience as an audience, haha!"
"After listening to these questions, I suddenly realized that the idea that I must get married in a hurry is indeed a bit blind."
"Yes, I feel that this debate is worth it, and the views of both sides are worth listening to."
"That's right, although the two sides have different views, they are both very teachable and very rewarding."
In the middle of the auditorium are students and students from our university, and on the right are students from other universities in the surrounding area.
Taking advantage of the time to think about answering, these students in the audience also began to communicate with each other.
"This debate is very meaningful!"
"The meaning of listening to the debate competition is to win the strengths of all parties, so that the views of both sides can be used by me, which is much more meaningful than simply dividing the high and low wins and losses and sticking to one idea."
"I feel the same way, and it also helps to break down some of the prejudices."
"Not only that, but there is also a point that is very meaningful, that is, we can listen to it inspiring, and we can also avoid stepping on some pitfalls in the future."
"yes, a lot of the ideas are thought-provoking."
"Speaking of which, this debate tournament was triggered by a talk show, and I really hope that there will be more such debate competitions with practical significance and practical value in the school in the future."
"Yes, I think this debate tournament is worth recording and letting more people see it, especially in some backward areas, they may think less, so they need these more."
"If you look back there, there's a camera that's recording."
Hearing this, the classmate looked in the direction of the next seat's finger.
I saw a camera facing the stage, and the red indicator light was on.
"It's really recording, not bad."
After a few minutes of discussion and speculation, the positive side was ready to defend at this time.
Debater No. 3 stood up, also greeted everyone present and gave a brief introduction to himself.
"Thank you to the opposing debaters for their wonderful questions, and I will answer them one by one.