For that man, she poured out her heart and lungs, lost herself, and could be said to tolerate him in every way. In that relationship, she felt that she was very depressed, as if she had to be careful all the time.

And the latter marriage came too quickly, she didn't think about it at the time, and she spent a relatively short time with Ye Hao, and she didn't know much about him, but she persuaded herself to accept him at that time, and even believed that she would have a good result with him.

"It's too easy for you to get into a relationship. He Xiyan ......" Professor Lan directly called out He Xiyan's name and looked at her with heavy eyes.

I feel that this woman's experience makes her feel some indescribable sadness.

"In your first marriage, you lowered your status, perhaps because your first husband was pursued by yourself, so you always accommodated him, you did not dare to lose your temper with him, you did not dare to quarrel with him, and even you accommodated his mother. Your bottomless dedication and forbearance in this marriage have led to your ex-mother-in-law and ex-husband asking for you endlessly. Human nature is sometimes like this, and we don't know how to cherish things that are too easy to get, and feelings are the same. So you feel wronged because they don't appreciate your kindness, and even your ex-husband is attracted to beautiful girls out there and betrays your marriage. ”

Professor Lan's words are heart-wrenching. He Xiyan's heart trembled, she bit her lip stubbornly, did not reply, just lowered her eyes, and there were some tears in those eyes.

Professor Lan went on to say:

"You don't have to doubt your first ex-husband's affection for you, judging from the state of your marriage and his behavior after the divorce described on your profile, he is sincere to you, and it can be said that he loves you very much. Of course, he himself should have realized this after your divorce. He may not know exactly when he fell in love with you, but when you really don't belong to him, he panics. This is what we often say that what is lost and what is not gained is the best, and people will always know how to cherish it after they have lost. That's what he is. ”

He himself has a big problem, he was in a state of confusion about the relationship at the beginning, he chose to fall in love with you not because he loved you, but his age and physiological situation at the time made him want a girl to accompany him, so that his boring life has some color, and even the most direct thing, he should be a physiological need, and his identity and education made him suppress this desire in his heart, and you just appeared at this time, and you are willing to love him without reservation, including willing to live with him, And you were an obedient and well-behaved girl at the time, which is exactly what he wanted. ”

So you are together in this situation, this way of getting love causes him to subconsciously not think that he loves you, he is also used to your giving, your good, but his emotional intelligence is not high, and he does not have a deep understanding of love, so he himself may not be aware that his feelings for you are slowly changing, and he doesn't even realize that the girl he is looking for outside is very similar to you, as active, and as flattering and caring for him. Then you get divorced, you fall in love with another man, and he starts to reflect on himself. ”