The tears in He Xiyan's eyes could no longer hold back and slide down the corners of her eyes, she looked at Professor Lan and nodded at her.

"Dr. Lan, which of us do you think has the bigger problem in this marriage?" He Xiyan asked.

She sometimes thinks about these things, but every time she thinks about them, her heart aches, she wants to forget, so she subconsciously refuses to think about these pasts, let alone think about the causes of these problems.

Professor Lan took two sips of water and patted He Xiyan on the shoulder. Said:

"You are all responsible for the failure of this relationship, of course, his responsibility is greater, because he did not have a correct understanding of the relationship at that time, and he showed selfishness, indifference and even coldness in the four years he spent with you, which is why you were so hurt in this relationship, because you fell in love with a man who didn't know how to love or know how to reciprocate."

He Xiyan took a deep breath, she stroked her chest, trying to calm her breath.

Professor Lan went on to say:

"But you don't have to resent him and hate her now, everyone has to go through some setbacks to grow slowly, and he is the same. Your relationship hurt you deeply, but he also hurt too. ”

He Xiyan, "Is it because he is sincere to me that he is injured?" He Xiyan asked.

Professor Lan shook his head.

"No, he doesn't love you and he's hurt just as much. Because he himself is not a selfish and conscienceless person, he will feel guilty for not treating you well, and he will even feel that he will never find a better woman than you treat him. For him, it is the loss of the most precious thing in his life, which he can no longer find, so his sadness and sadness will not be less than yours, it does not depend on the depth of his feelings for you. ”

He Xiyan snorted, she took a deep breath, and blinked her eyes vigorously a few more times.

Professor Lan's words made some of the doubts that she had been buried in her heart disappear, and she understood why Mo Yixuan had some of her later behaviors.

"Do you still love your ex-husband?" Professor Lan asked with a frown, because from what he had observed, she felt that the counselor seemed to have feelings for him, her ex-husband.

However, He Xiyan shook his head, and then replied lightly, "No." ”

Professor Lan nodded, and then flipped to the next page of the document. After taking a sip of water, he continued:

"Let's talk about your second marriage, He Xiyan. According to your own description, you felt very happy at the beginning of this marriage, and even for a long time, you felt that you had found the right partner. You also described that your second ex-husband used to be very nice to you, he would personally cook for you, take care of you when you were sick, and give you gifts from time to time to make you happy, all of which you did not get in your first marriage, so you feel very happy. ”

He Xiyan smiled bitterly, she filled in the information truthfully, and it was just a pseudonym description. She wrote all the good and bad in it.

Professor Lan, "So you and your second ex-husband are actually really in love with each other, and you have had a lot of good memories, and even spent a beautiful and peaceful married life, but your relationship has not stood the test." ”