He Xiyan lowered her head speechlessly, and some pictures were tumbling in her mind, she still remembered what she experienced when she was with Ye Hao, the feeling of going from heaven to hell.

"Doctor Lan, do you say that the man made those promises just to make me happy, I just took it seriously."

There is one thing that she has not let go of, she is Ye Hao who has clearly said more than once that she will treat fate as if she were her own child. It was because of what he said that she dared to go to the castle with a fate that was only four months old at the time, and she dared to remarry with her children. She doesn't expect him to treat Yuan Yuan like her own child, she hopes that he can treat Yuan Yuan as a relative, that's all. But he has no feelings for fate.

Professor Lan snorted, but did not immediately answer He Xiyan's question, but read the information again, and after reading it, she lifted her glasses and drank several sips of water:

"What do you say about this question. Some men like to say sweet words, of course, they are just casually said, coaxing girls, and even promises are just said on a whim, casually, of course, such words cannot be taken seriously, and smart women will not take these words seriously. But your ex-husband, when he tells you that he will treat you and your ex-husband's child as if it were his own, he should have made a promise from the bottom of his heart. ”

Yes......

He Xiyan looked at Professor Lan with some surprise, as if she didn't understand what she said.

"I mean that when he said this, he felt that he could do what he had promised, but in fact he didn't, because he had made too high a judgment about himself, and he didn't know himself very well, but that doesn't deny that he was sincere when he said it," Professor Lan explained. The spark for conflict in your marriage with him is the conflict between you and the son born to your ex-husband. Of course, conflicts like yours exist in many second-married families, and there are many families that eventually break up like you. But you have a lot of responsibility for the breakdown of your second marriage. ”

When Professor Lan said this, there was a trace of emotion in He Xiyan's eyes. She bit her lip and looked at a cup on the coffee table, her eyes did not blink for a long time, and after a while, she said:

"You're right, Dr. Lan, I didn't think about it when I started this relationship, and I didn't think about the problems that I encountered later, I shouldn't have started this second marriage so easily. This has hurt myself and my ex-husband a lot. ”

He Xiyan said in a deep voice, a deep sigh came out of his mouth.

As soon as she finished speaking, Professor Lan shook his head.

"No, He Xiyan, your problem is not here. There is no big problem with the process of you and your second ex-husband knowing and falling in love, you are attracted to each other, and you really love each other to come together to have this marriage, which is a hard-won fate between you. It's just that when you encounter problems in your marriage, you didn't deal with it in the right way, after you took custody of your son, you didn't handle your relationship with your ex-husband well, and ignored your husband's feelings at the time, causing him to become very sensitive and even anxious, which is why he had so many extreme behaviors later. ”

He Xiyan frowned and looked at Professor Lan in confusion.