She didn't reply, just listened silently.

Professor Lan patted He Xiyan's shoulder at this time, and a comforting smile appeared on the corner of his mouth: "Okay, don't get too entangled in this one issue, people, there are always shortcomings and advantages." Both of your ex-husbands have something good about them, otherwise you wouldn't have taken a fancy to them, would you? But no matter how good a person is, he will have shortcomings, and if his conduct is not bad, this person can still get along. I don't suggest that once people encounter problems such as a third party or domestic violence, economic pressure or conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the conflict will be infinitely magnified, and the marriage will not be able to continue, and finally the divorce will end, which is a very bad result. Every marriage is hard-won, we must know how to cherish and tolerate, don't start easily, and don't give up easily when we start. ”

Professor Lan said earnestly, she had been looking at He Xiyan all the time, watching her expression change.

He Xiyan also looked up at Professor Lan at this time, and nodded at her, indicating that she understood, and of course also said that she agreed with some of her views.

"Professor Lan, do you think I'm going to go to extremes?" He Xiyan smiled bitterly and asked. She could hear the meaning of Professor Lan's words, maybe in Professor Lan's opinion, her and Ye Hao's previous marriage did not end in divorce.

Professor Lan pursed his lips and smiled, a faint smile flashing.

She thought for a moment and replied, "No, you didn't have such a personality in the first place, it was some of your experiences that made you very sensitive, so you are in this state." You can try to think more about the good things in your relationship and not always focus on the bad side of it. This will make you feel that even if it was a bad marriage, she has left you with good memories. Time will make people slowly forget the pain, but the best things in the relationship are like wine. Now think about it, in your two relationships, have you ever been happy and happy. For example, in your first relationship, you may feel wronged at the time, but now you know that the man you once thought did not love you actually loved you deeply, although this love came too late, he is still in love. Another example is your second marriage, although the end is very bad, but you and your ex-husband once loved each other like that, and you have also gone through a very good time together. Why do you have to dwell on those painful memories and injuries all the time, after all, all these years have passed. ”

Professor Lan's tone became calmer, and his expression did not seem to be as serious as he had just been, but became gentle.

He Xiyan nodded.

Yes, it really doesn't make much sense for her to keep remembering those sad and painful pasts.

"Thank you, Professor Lan." He Xiyan let out a faint smile. She felt a little more relaxed at this time, because there were many questions that she couldn't figure out on her own, and she could almost figure it out.

"No," Professor Lan took a few sips of tea and said with a smile: "Actually, many things, if you think about it from another angle, you won't be so pessimistic and sharp." It's the same with feelings. These two ex-husbands of yours love you very much, although they have done some things to hurt you, but it is rare to be sincere, and they give them the most precious thing. ”