[So serious]

[My son is also rebellious, when do I have to take him for a walk on the spot]

[This is to tell the truth a hundred times, and it will not be true to walk on the spot once]

[After the verbal preaching, the children feel annoyed, I thought about it, they can't listen to the class for forty minutes, how can the parents listen to it for an hour]

[Yes, the way of chanting scriptures has long been outdated, let alone reasoning with children, they are so young, how can they have a high level of comprehension, and they will go directly to the scene to slip away]

[Everyone recommends some places, I also want to take my children to experience other people's lives]

【Private Chat】

[Xuanxuan, it seems that you have really changed your past]

"That's a must, let my grandma say a few words, I don't know what my grandma thinks of me." Wen Qixuan said with a dry mouth, and decided to let Jiang Xiuhe continue, just to see what he was like in the eyes of his family.

[Xuanxuan, I want to hear grandma's real opinion]

"My eldest grandson, can I not like it? It doesn't matter when he's a bear, or when he's obedient. Jiang Xiuhe threw out a sentence first.

Wen Qixuan was directly shocked, he had always felt that no one really loved him, and it turned out that when he was disobedient, his grandmother still liked him.

[Auntie said it so well]

[This is the most harmonious relationship I have ever seen]

[Everyone in the Xuanxuan family is good]

[Yes, even if there is no blood relationship, but they are closer than their own children]

"But I also reflected on myself, I shouldn't have indulged him so much, every time he makes a mistake, I won't take punitive measures, it's all about saying, just know that you can change your mistakes, in fact, this sentence is very weightless, because there is no price for making mistakes, Xuanxuan will make it again and again, of course, I mean skipping class." Jiang Xiuhe really didn't really mean to be good for her grandson at that time.

At that time, she wished that Wen Qixuan would be rebellious, not go to school, and be abolished, so she connived at him, but she couldn't tell the truth in front of netizens.

[Grandma dotes on her grandson]

[My family too, every time I teach my children, my grandparents rush forward to stop them as soon as possible]

[The elderly meddle in the management of children, and it is difficult for children to manage well]

[The same feeling, the key is to let them ignore it and not listen at all, sometimes I beat the child, in fact, I just quit the ruler and hit a few times, grandma saw it, it made me feel like I was going to kill, and I quarreled when I came out, the child knows that there is a backer, where will he listen to his parents]

[Also, the parents beat, the elderly care, the children feel that their parents do not love them, and the relationship with their parents is becoming more and more estranged, they do not know that strict is love, loose is harmful]

[I think Aunt Jiang's words should be recorded and shown to grandparents, Aunt Jiang, or you can tell me again, what is the correct way for grandparents to educate their children]

"According to my experience, when parents educate their children, grandparents should avoid them, not help educate them, and not protect their children."

"One hits, one pulls, the child doesn't know whether he is right or wrong, if it is wrong, why is the grandparents protecting, if it is right, why are the parents beating?"

"Although I connived at Xuanxuan, when Wen Yan educated him, I didn't interfere, at most I comforted him afterwards, or when Wen Yan didn't care, I would take care of it."

"But I said that my method is not right, it is said to be a tube, but in fact nothing is done."

"Among my old girlfriends, there are also grandmothers, their education methods are very advanced, they say that when sons and daughters-in-law train children, they are in the house, no matter how loud the crying outside, resolutely do not go out, after a long time, the children find that their parents are the ones who talk at home, and they no longer dare to make mistakes, let the grandparents come forward to intercede, because they know that the words of grandparents do not work."

[My family is just the opposite, I just spoke, and my grandmother immediately stepped forward and pushed me into the room, telling me not to be impulsive, calm down first]

[Upstairs, your mother-in-law is so powerful]

[There was no lie, they found out that my expression was wrong, and calculated that I might be going to beat the child, so they immediately pulled me to the room and closed the door]

"Children should be educated by their parents, we are old, our own children have grown up, their children are educated, what does it matter to us, unless they say they need our help, we are convenient to intervene."

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[My own mother intervened more diligently, once I educated the child, my mother actually beat me with a ring ruler, hey, I am in front of the child, I really have no prestige at all, my mother said that I raised me to beat my granddaughter, right, and then I said what I said in front of the child, the child did not listen, the child said that only listen to grandma, grandma is the head of the family]

[Are there any elderly people in your family who are teachers?] It's even worse to have a teacher at home, I was managed when I was a child, and when I grew up, I thought I could finally manage my own children, but I was still managed]

[My dad is a high school teacher, very open-minded, he has been a homeroom teacher for more than 20 years, but when I educate children, he never interferes]

【Good Dad】

[Because he is a person from the past and knows how to educate children]

"I don't want to care about my grandson, I'm so old, why do I still care about it, so I can retire."

[Yes, my mother was so angry with me that her blood pressure rose and she almost had an accident]

[Yes, they are more angry than us, and they are angry not because our grandchildren make mistakes, but because we educate their precious grandchildren]

[It's all tears when you talk too much, look at the point, what should I do with my own parents and parents? ] Or don't live with the elderly.]

[Upstairs is right, either live separately, and if you live together, you have to accept their occasional interference]

[It's just occasional, very frequent, but there's no way, we have to go to work, we have to let them help take care of the children]

[My parents said that when I was a child, they brought it, and my husband and I were responsible for going to work, and we went home at night to accompany the children for a while.

"You can talk to your parents privately and find a way to find a compromise."

"Besides, Xuanxuan, in my eyes, he has always been a good boy, maybe no matter how bad his child is, he will feel good."

"He is still a filial child, and he will bring me things back no matter whether he is on a spring or autumn trip."

"Grandma, do you remember this?" Wen Qixuan asked incredulously.

"Of course, I used to show off in front of your Grandma Wang and Grandma Wu."

[Wen Qixuan still has such a delicate side]

[My son too, when he goes out to play, he will bring me gifts, but the gifts are very strange, what leaves, stones]

[Hahahaha, down-to-earth]

[It's not weird, how good this is, it doesn't cost money, and it can prove that I think about you when I go out to play]

[My son is in college, and he hasn't bought me anything until now]

[It seems that my daughter is still good, my daughter is also a university, and various festivals will send me a small red envelope]

[Envious]