283. Leave before it's too late
Wen Qixuan was embarrassed to be praised.
The boy lowered his head and whispered, "Oh, grandma, it's worthless, I'm afraid you will dislike it, what is there to say." ”
"This child, shy, I want to say that gifts can't be measured by money, mainly mind, children don't have so much money, buy expensive things are not spent by adults, in fact, the main thing is the heart of the heart, even if it comes back with a leaf, it means that in the process of playing, I thought of my family, and it is enough to have this heart." Jiang Xiuhe never felt that the gift brought back by Wen Qixuan was bad.
[A small gift is light and light, but it can represent my heart]
[So, don't dislike the strange things that our children brought back to us, it means that they thought of us in the process of playing, maybe they think that when they see the beautiful scenery, it would be nice if their parents could see it]
[This is the mentality when I go out to play, I will want to bring my parents over next time and let them feel it]
[In the middle of travel, Jinchuan in October is simply a fairyland on earth, the sky is very blue, the water is very clear, and the air is full of the sweet fragrance of fruits]
[Let me take a look at the photo above]
[I envy those who go out to travel in October, their children go to school, and they don't dare to ask for a day off]
[Yes, there are children who are tied up, and they can't go anywhere during school days]
[When will I not revolve around the child?]
【Waiting for children and adults】
[When is the child called older]
[At least the college entrance examination is over]
[Someone who came over told you that once you have a child who is older, the idea of what to do on your own is probably difficult to make, because in the eyes of parents, the child will always be a child, and the college entrance examination is over, you will still want to wait for him to graduate from college, and after graduating from college, you will want to think that he is not married, wait for him to get married, and after getting married, I feel that the child always needs someone to help take it...... Far away]
[Yes, so do what you want to do now]
[My best friend died yesterday, in her thirties, cancer, I am very sad, since she was critically ill, I have been thinking, what is the purpose of human life? 】
【Festival Mourning】
[The deceased is gone, the living are like this]
[Hey]
[We don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, so live the moment and do what you want]
"I agree with this point of view, but the premise is not to break the law, not to violate morality, and preferably not to have a bad influence on others, and then do what you think is right, or what makes you happy, because when to wait, there is too much uncertainty about the future."
[My college tutor died last month, in her fifties, and when I went to see her in the hospital, she told me that women must be kind to themselves]
"Wen Qixuan, don't look at these barrages, go over there and play for a while." Kang so-ha didn't want her grandson to see this.
"Okay." Wen Qixuan obediently walked away.
"I'm streaming with my mom." Liang Shuang originally sat by the wall and watched the barrage, and she had the right to speak on the topic at the moment.
[Sister Shuang is here]
[It's too pitiful for a woman to revolve around her children, her husband, and the stove all her life]
[Sisters, do you know? Last week I went to a bar, left my children with my husband, and played with my girlfriends until the early hours of the morning, that was the first time I went out to play in fifteen years of marriage, I cried while drinking, it was not that I had a lot of sad things, but the smell of freedom that I had not seen for a long time made me cry]
[Sisters, you should also go out and have a look, really, no wonder those men always like to play outside and not come back, don't care about anything, who doesn't like it]
[After getting married, I don't have myself, especially after I have children, I forget that I used to be free and happy]
[I don't know why, just looking at what everyone posted, I have a feeling that I want to cry, and I haven't been out for a long time]
"I understand that women do sacrifice a lot for their families, and saying this in the live broadcast room may be maliciously misinterpreted, saying that I am a woman, but now women have multiple identities, not only if they are good wives, good mothers, and good daughters-in-law, but also can make money, as long as men can make money." Jiang Xiuhe felt it.
"Of course, it is not denied that men are tired of making money, but women who are tied up by daily trivial matters are even more tired, I often see such jokes, men say that women do housework at home with children and do not go to work, what is tired."
[That's what my family said, I don't help you, I don't understand you, and I still speak coldly]
[Let's leave as soon as possible]
[If it weren't for the sake of the children, I would have a pair of twins in my family, I would bring them myself, and it would be like a war every day]
[I understand, a child is already like a war]
[I asked my husband to experience my life for a day according to what I do every day, and at the end of the day, he finally understood me]
[The one in my family took the baby for a day, and I didn't do anything else, so it's very easy]
[Let him come according to your daily life, don't bring your own baby]
[Looking at everyone's messages, I'm really sad, my wish is to have three days of my own things, turn off my phone, don't be disturbed by anyone, I find a place to do nothing, just be in a daze]
[All I want in my life is to get rich and be free]
"Occasionally relax, you can make an agreement with your other half, such as taking one day a week to relax, don't do housework on this day, don't take care of children, this is also called a combination of work and rest, right?" Liang Shuang suggested.
[Yes, otherwise I will always be so depressed, and my resentment will break through the heavenly spirit cover]
[A woman's illness is mostly out of anger, so proper relaxation can adjust the mood, and it is also to better serve the family, right, just tell the object]
[Yes, I've been backlogged for too long, and I usually keep everything in my heart, and then I became depressed and kept taking medicine for treatment, and then I tried to let go, and now my depression is much better]
[Depression is also quite scary]
[Relaxation is not about not going home, you can also adjust your mood at a weekly gathering of friends, just eat together or something]
[Agree, with more friends, you can also confide]
"Actually, you won't disagree with eating together." Jiang Xiuhe said casually.
[My family doesn't agree, I have a lot of friends, I often date, and every time I say how to get together again]
[Hahahaha, you get together too often]
[Isn't this the same as men always socializing]
[How often do you get together, it won't be every other day, right?]
[Sometimes even every day]
"That's too often, you're socializing more often than men." Jiang Xiuhe said with a smile.
[Sister, your husband is so good to you, is your family coming the other way around]
[It's true, my husband takes the children after work, I go out hi]
【It's so good】
[Such a man is too good, isn't it]
[My mother-in-law is good, mother-in-law does laundry, cooks and takes care of children, so I have a lot of time, I am very grateful to her]
[It's good to have an elderly person to help]
[My mother-in-law used to be a teacher, so I was relieved that she was taking care of the children, and she was so good that she would take the initiative to let me do my own thing, saying that she was at home]
【Best Mother-in-law】
(End of chapter)