"You had an argument when you left us during the day today?" Ning Shuyi took the initiative to bring up what she saw from the window during the day.

Zhai Yujiang probably wanted to open his heart and talk about it at this time, and vent his emotions that he couldn't bear alone, so he didn't hide it.

"Yes." He nodded very frankly, "They pulled me and said that although Lili is gone, the child is Lili's bloodline, so the child must belong to them, otherwise they are worried that I will find another woman to remarry after a while, and I will abuse the child."

I used to look at Lili's face, and I didn't think I was as good as Lili, so I was more tolerant, and I always endured them, and I never blushed with them.

This time they were still thinking about my child, and I couldn't bear it anymore.

I said that their own suffocating parenting of Lili must end here, Lili is dead, and I can't let them raise my children like Lili, without a healthy sense of kinship."

Fang Cai Zhai Yujiang cried about his love and marriage with Hong Xinli, about family matters, especially the part involving children, he didn't mention much, this happened to involve this part, Huo Yan immediately grasped the topic: "How do you say this?"

"Lili is not close to the child." Zhai Yujiang sighed and said in a heavy tone.

In fact, Huo Yan and Ning Shuyi were not the slightest surprised by this matter, as early as downstairs at the scene of the crime, housekeeping aunt Yu Shufang mentioned these things to them in the car.

But Yu Shufang is just a nanny after all, and her position and role are destined to be only superficial what she can see, and what she says may not be very objective.

Now that Zhai Yujiang is saying the same, Ning Shuyi and they naturally have to take it seriously.

They need to have a comprehensive grasp of this multi-faceted Hong Xinli as much as possible.

"When I got married to Lili, I said that we were both not too young and should have a child, and Lili had no objection.

But the process was not particularly smooth, but fortunately we didn't give up, tried it on and off for a few years, and finally had good news.

That's when I started to think that Lili didn't seem to be like anyone else with children.

Other women may either not like children at all and simply don't give birth, or they are born with motherhood and can't like their children after having children.

But she's not."

Zhai Yujiang said this, with a confused expression on his face and a little resentment towards his parents-in-law: "When she was first pregnant, Lili didn't believe that she really had a child for a while, and after the first three or four months, the reaction became smaller, and her belly grew, and she began to accept that she was really pregnant.

After the child was born, she immediately proposed that she could not breastfeed and would not take maternity leave, so she should immediately take medicine to regulate her body, and then go back to work.

At that time, my aunt was left at home to help, and I didn't really accept the child sleeping with the nanny at first, I wanted to let the child sleep in our bedroom, but Lili didn't want to, she said it would affect her rest.

If the child is in our bedroom, she simply doesn't come home at all, she just goes home to pick up her things and then leaves.

I'm afraid that our relationship will really be over, in contrast, children can only be with us for so many twenty or thirty years, and husband and wife will go together for a lifetime.

So I agreed to let the child sleep with the nanny, and begged her not to go home all the time, so that she could say yes.

Even so, when the child is older and begins to like to interact with adults, she will not play with the child, because she finds the child very annoying, and she cannot stay alone with the child.

She was reluctant to hold the child and let the child touch her.

Last year, when the child was only two or three years old, she was very happy to see her mother, so she ran over and climbed on the chair, climbed on her back, and tried to touch her hair, but she was so annoyed that she pushed her hand back, and the child fell off the chair and knocked a big bag on his forehead......

Zhai Yujiang shook his head bitterly: "Later, she said that she just didn't like others to touch her freshly made hair, and it was annoying to mess it up, so she didn't think about it so much.

I just think that people will not be so indifferent for no reason, after all, I listen to her evening show almost every day, she is so patient and gentle in the show!

can be so gentle with strangers, why are you reluctant to take it out when you are to your own children?

Thinking about it, I think it can only be one reason, that is, she thinks her parents are too suffocating, so she is afraid that getting along with her children will make her and her parents retest the kind of family relationship, she has a knot!

For her, maybe getting married or having children is just a task that a person must complete in her lifetime, and the task is completed, and the follow-up is not what she is interested in and wants."

Zhai Yujiang's narration made Ning Shuyi feel more and more strange the more he listened, and after the other party finished speaking, he carefully asked, "Do you mean that after Hong Xinli became pregnant and gave birth, it was as if she had fulfilled her obligations, and there was a lack of life content between you and a normal couple?"

After all, she is a young single woman, and there are some things that she is embarrassed to ask too bluntly.

Fortunately, Zhai Yujiang was not stupid, and immediately understood what she meant.

He didn't expect that such an obscure subtext in his words would also be heard by Ning Shuyi, and suddenly his face turned even redder because of embarrassment.

Fortunately, the lights in this private room are not so bright, and I can't see it.

But out of honesty, he nodded with difficulty, putting aside the embarrassment and face issues for the time being.

"yes, even when she came home, we were just roommates who slept in the same double bed.

Sometimes I want to be cheeky and be more enthusiastic and proactive, and she will even lose her temper with me in order to reject me.

Because of the accumulation of these things, I feel that our marriage has actually existed in name only, rather than passively waiting for her to bring it up, it is better for me to take the initiative to propose a divorce, so that I will not be so passive and so sad.

But when I mentioned the divorce, she resolutely disagreed, and in order to coax me, she would take the initiative to show favor to me, and become intimate with me, probably able to maintain that work for a month or two, or will it change back to the old way.

So sometimes I feel like she doesn't really need me, she just needs a lasting marriage, she needs someone to play the role of her husband, she also needs children to form a complete family of three, so that every aspect of her life should have all the projects.

In her eyes, I or the child may just be a prop, no different from the one on stage."