"How did you and Hong Xinli meet? Introduced or ......?" Ning Shuyi felt that these two people, whether they were in appearance or personality preferences, were not at all like they would appear in the same group, and she was a little curious about their intersection.

"We are alumni of the same cohort, not of the same college. She studied broadcasting and hosting, and I studied biology." Zhai Yujiang remembered what happened back then, and his expression looked more and more sad, "My family is all in business, but I don't have that business mind, my only interest is to make various models, and I still study a major that I can't see if I don't read a doctorate......

So at that time, I was a person that my grandmother didn't love my uncle and didn't love, and no one valued me and took me seriously.

I met Hong Xinli during a campus performance, and I was asked to help make a few prop models for the performance, and she was the host.

I'm not afraid of your jokes, I fell in love with her at first sight, she is the kind of woman who grows every hair on my heart.

But she is so beautiful, there is never a shortage of people chasing her in school, I am self-aware, I have always just liked her silently, and I didn't dare to say anything.

Later, when I graduated with a master's degree, I was already struggling to study, and I was not qualified to apply for a doctorate, and when I thought that I was going to graduate, she was also going to graduate, and I might never see each other again in this life, so I didn't want to mention how uncomfortable it was.

Before graduation, I had a casual meal, drank some wine, and my head was hot, so I ran to confess to her, but I didn't expect her to agree to me very easily."

"Then this is a sweet memory for all of you!" Ning Shuyi asked.

"Not really." Zhai Yujiang shook his head with a bitter face, "After the two of us were together, although we were about to graduate, we still attracted the attention of many people at once.

Some of them said that Lili was before graduation and had enough fun, so they needed to find an honest person.

Some people say that Lili's parents are very lenient with her, interfering with her type of boyfriend or something, and in order to rebel against her parents, she deliberately found a type that her parents would definitely not like.

Some people also said that Lili picked a circle and found that handsome guys were useless, so she began to be pragmatic and felt that my family conditions were good, so she found me as the wronged leader."

"What do you think about this?" Huo Yan asked him.

Zhai Yujiang lowered his head slightly and shook it gently: "I don't know...... At the beginning, when I heard the discussions outside, I felt very uncomfortable, but Lili comforted me and said that I should ignore others, and the relationship between the two of us was only related to the two of us, and it had nothing to do with those who chewed their tongues behind their backs.

She said that those who are clear are self-purifying, so why should they care what others say! She also told me to be confident in myself and not to think so badly of myself.

I was so moved that I felt so lucky to be able to get the heart of such a woman who was so beautiful, I was the luckiest and happiest man in the world!

But...... Later, I was admitted to the Museum of Natural History, which is a very stable job, and it is what I like, but I have no future, I can't make money, I can't accumulate any useful contacts, and I can't let my family borrow light because of me, and get any benefits.

Lili's life with me is not good, but it is not so salty, not cold, and always as if it is so bad......

I vaguely felt that she had seen too many capable and capable people of the opposite sex in the unit, so when I went home and saw me, I felt regretful, and felt that she had chosen me in the first place, and she was immature."

"Didn't you try to communicate the problem, try to solve it?" Ning Shuyi asked.

"How do you communicate? How to solve it?" Zhai Yujiang wiped his face and shook his head, "I didn't want to say a word to outsiders, whether it was for Lili's face or my own face, I couldn't open this mouth.

But today I am looking for death and life, and the more humiliating side is for you to see, and I have nothing to say about shamelessness.

Lili doesn't like to go home, she doesn't like to deal with my parents, she even goes back with me for the New Year, just

I took the kids back by myself.

Or when my parents come to our house for the New Year, she won't go home, go to her parents' side, and say that they should accompany their parents.

But actually, she doesn't like to associate with her parents."

"She's not close to her adoptive parents?" Ning Shuyi was a little surprised, after all, Hong Xinli's adoptive parents, Chen Dagang and his wife, provided so many intimate photos of a family of three, giving people a feeling that the relationship between a family of three is very close.

Zhai Yujiang nodded: "Not close, not close at all." It's her parents, the adoptive parents you are talking about, because I have only seen her as a parent, and I have never seen her own parents, so for me, there is no difference between adoptive parents and non-adoptive parents.

Since the two of us got married, her parents have been asking for things from her in a roundabout way, from gadgets worth 100 yuan to household appliances worth thousands of yuan, all of which I know and can see.

In private, Lili should have also returned money to her parents, whether it was a transfer or cash, in short, it should have been given.

Once I had a headache and took half a day off to go home and lie down, so Lili didn't know that I was at home, and neither did her parents.

They came to my house together and quarreled, I didn't hear it very clearly upstairs, probably just listening to what the old couple kept saying about how much they had paid for Lili for so many years, and what was wrong with being a child.

I couldn't hear what Lili said, but then my phone rang, and they heard it, and when they found that there were people at home, they stopped making noise and left quickly.

When they left, I went downstairs and saw Lili sitting on the couch with red eyes, I think she had cried."

Zhai Yujiang sighed: "I said something that may not be appropriate, I think her parents and her are not like the normal relationship between parents and children, but it seems to be a parasitic relationship, there is an inexplicable refusal to cut off the bonds with the children, no, needless to say, it is to reduce the bonds, they are unwilling, they must find ways to tie them together."

When I was in college, I knew that although Lili lived on campus, her parents bought a house near the school and accompanied her for undergraduate and graduate studies for seven years, otherwise no one would have rumored that she came to me to rebel against her parents.

I feel that Lili would like to live away from her parents, but whether she is studying, going to school, or working and starting a family, her parents will definitely follow her wherever she goes, and if it were me, I would feel very suffocated."