Chapter 80: Domineering
originally thought that Uncle Yu's words might make his wife feel uncomfortable, but the old lady was busy waving her hand: "Then don't worry!"
Although I haven't had any dealings with the police, this old man in my family likes to watch that kind of TV series about the struggle between the enemy and the special forces, and I follow it every day, and I have realized it after watching too much!
In this TV series, those who die early are all loose-mouthed, and they don't talk nonsense about what they should say or not! ”
Ning Shuyi couldn't help laughing a little, and felt glad in his heart, they were really lucky this time, and they met such a pair of old neighbors with lovely personalities here.
Uncle Yu warmly beckoned them to sit down, and specially poured two glasses of water.
"Uncle Yu, do you two know Lu Zhibao in your unit?" Ning Shuyi asked.
"Xiao Lu? Know, that must know! Uncle Yu immediately nodded, "Not only do I know him, but I even know his grandparents, his father, uncles and aunts!"
What's wrong? What kind of conflict is this kid making with others outside, what is the trouble? ”
"You old man, you can say whatever people ask, how can you still ask in reverse!" The old wife pushed Uncle Yu next to him and reminded him.
Uncle Yu hurriedly patted his mouth: "Blame me!" Blame me! I'm used to chatting with people casually! ”
"Do you have a certain understanding of the situation of the Lu family? Can you tell us about it? Ning Shuyi asked, "I heard that Lu Zhibao's parents have not been by his side since he was a child, and he grew up with his grandparents?" ”
Uncle Yu and his wife glanced at each other and sighed in unison.
"Is there anything inconvenient to say?" Ning Shuyi couldn't help but feel a little puzzled when he saw this.
Uncle Yu waved his hand: "It's inconvenient to talk about it, it's just those things in the early years of the Lu family...... When I think about it, I don't know how to evaluate it.
The eldest son of their family, when he was going to school in other places, had a girlfriend, and the two had a very good relationship, so he brought it home.
The old couple of their family didn't particularly approve of it at first, but later saw that their son was determined to be good with others, so they agreed, on the condition that they must live with their in-laws after getting married.
As a result, this really got married and started to live, and the Lu family did not have a stable life.
Xiaolu's mother is not from the same place after all, and the taste of eating and living habits are somewhat different.
However, the old man and the old lady of the Lu family were not particularly satisfied with her daughter-in-law, and when they lived together, the old couple relied on the old and sold the old, and they were domineering, and they had to follow their habits and their hobbies.
So the quarrel in their family has never stopped, and the big and small quarrels are endless every day. ”
Uncle Yu's wife nodded and added: "It's not just about living habits, it's also about educating children.
The old man and the old lady of the Lu family are very doting on their children and are domineering.
The grandson of their family, don't look like a human being when he grows up, don't you know, when he was a child, no other child's children in this area were willing to play with him.
Especially the old lady of the Lu family, the most serious! Anyway, no matter what, it is their grandson who is justified, and it is someone else's fault.
If someone else's family is brought by her parents, she is embarrassed to worry about her old lady, and when she meets other people's homes, the old people also help take care of them.
The eldest daughter-in-law of their family should have said it back then, she was really a good person, and she managed the children very well, but as soon as she took care of the children, her mother-in-law pointed her nose and scolded her.
Children, where do you know who is really good to him, who is harming him, who must be who follows him in everything, who is good!
So when Xiao Lu was young, he didn't understand his mother's hard work, but he couldn't blame the child, after all, he was only three or four years old at that time, so what kind of truth could he understand. ”
"Alas, anyway, their family will be so noisy in the last days that they can't go on." Uncle Yu shook his head, "Don't say if they can stand it themselves, there was no demolition at that time, and the neighbors listened to them every day, and they couldn't stand it."
Later, their eldest daughter-in-law was really annoyed, and there was already a rumor of preparing for demolition at that time, so she proposed to wait until the time of demolition, add money to two houses, and the two families were separated, but they lived not far away, and they did not delay taking care of the elderly.
How can the two old men of the Lu family agree, it's another trouble.
In the end, the eldest daughter-in-law asked for a separation, and the old man asked his son to divorce his daughter-in-law.
The eldest son of the Lu family is a very good person, that is, ...... Nest, honest, may have such courage in his life, that is, to marry his wife, and it will be gone when it runs out.
In the end, he didn't dare to stand up and say that he was going to split up with his wife, and he still divorced the marriage. ”
When Uncle Yu said this, he couldn't help but shake his head, feeling embarrassed about what happened back then.
"If you want me to say, the last thing in this is the eldest son of the Lu family!" Uncle Yu's wife said with emotion, "At the beginning, my parents didn't agree, and he was the one who had to marry someone else!"
After marrying into the door, he was the one who mediated and didn't understand the conflict between his parents and his wife!
His wife is angry everywhere at home, and wants to separate the family, and he still lives in the same area, which does not involve problems such as being too far away and inconvenient to take care of, and he does not dare to be the master.
In the end, because he didn't dare to disobey his parents, his wife felt very chilled when she saw his attitude, and she didn't give in, so he actually agreed to divorce.
But after leaving, he felt painful and uncomfortable, missed his wife, and had grievances against his parents at home, so he simply didn't care about the children, and went to work alone or something, and he didn't come back anyway.
I heard that for so many years, except for sending living expenses to my family, I haven't come back to see it once!
You said that if he could use this energy to reason with the old people in the family, he would not have to divorce the marriage.
As a result, as soon as he left, the child was lost to two old people who didn't know how to educate...... Alas......"
"Since the old man dotes on his children so much and doesn't know the correct way to raise them, why didn't Lu Zhibao take Lu Zhibao with him when his mother and his father divorced?" Ning Shuyi asked.
From Lu Zhibao's words, she realized that many of his values should be inseparable from the influence of his original family.
And he also revealed that he felt that his parents were not around, so he lacked a lot in his growth.
Obviously, Lu Zhibao's mother and father were separated, leaving the child alone, which should also be one of the important influencing factors.