Uncle Yu's wife hurriedly waved her hand: "So you have wronged Xiaolu's mother!"

When she filed for divorce, she said she wanted children.

At that time, there was nothing that the neighbors didn't know, and any old neighbor they found was clear.

We were actually quite emotional in our hearts at that time, after all, we are all women, we all have children, and we are all mothers, so when we encounter a family style like the Lu family, who would want to leave the children behind!

But the old lady of the Lu family is also really spicy, and the posture at that time was completely as if whoever dared to take away her grandson would be dragged to death with her.

In the end, Xiaolu's mother went out of the house, and she couldn't take any of her savings, house, and children with her anyway. ”

Uncle Yu's wife exhaled with some sympathy: "You two are still young, so you may not necessarily understand my feelings."

Anyway, as a woman, I understand Xiao Lu's mother.

At that time, if she didn't leave, would she be forced to die by that family. ”

"Alas, indeed, that old couple is really a little ignorant!" Uncle Yu agreed with his wife's opinion, "The old couple broke up their son's marriage, and their daughter-in-law was forced away by them."

As for the children, they didn't let their mothers take them away, and they didn't allow their mothers to come back to see the children, but when their sons divorced and their daughters-in-law left, all the firewood, rice, oil and salt in the family that were originally helped to share were all done by the old couple themselves, which made them feel tired and burdened!

At the beginning, they were counting on their son to find another one, who was better qualified and more obedient than his previous wife, and came back to take over and help them run the house.

As a result, the eldest son of the Lu family didn't know if he was frightened by his parents, and after the divorce, he heard that he had never found a partner again, let alone remarried.

If he doesn't come back himself, it will be even more impossible to help his parents share the child's upbringing and education.

This old couple is purely self-reaping, and they don't reflect at all, scolding their thighs downstairs every day, saying that they blame their former daughter-in-law, if she hadn't left the child and ran away, they wouldn't have suffered so much, suffered so many crimes, and suffered so much. ”

"Not really! The people around them make fun of their house, every time they scold their former daughter-in-law outside, who doesn't laugh at them when they go home is not a thing! Uncle Yu's wife could see that she really didn't like the two deceased old men of the Lu family, and she couldn't help but feel a little angry just by recalling these old things.

Uncle Yu shook his head: "It doesn't matter what we think, after all, they are all a group of outsiders, and they have nothing to do with us."

The key is that Xiaolu, a child who grew up with his grandparents, listens to their old couple complaining so much every day, doesn't it all listen to it in his heart!

When we first got divorced, we also saw their eldest daughter-in-law come back to see the children and buy things for the children, but the old couple threw the things out of the window and downstairs.

Not only throwing things, but also scolding very loudly, saying things like 'women like you don't come to our door, our family doesn't want the stinky things you brought'.

Xiaolu was four or five years old at that time, a child, his grandparents indulged him to play as he wanted, and he didn't need to have any rules, his mother always criticized him and restrained him, so he was of the same mind as his grandparents.

When his mother came back to see him, he didn't get along with his mother, he didn't let him look at it, he didn't let him hug him, and the old couple of the Lu family still used this as something worth showing off.

Later, Xiaolu's mother didn't come back for many years, and I heard that she went back to her hometown.

In the third year or the first few years of moving into this new house, Xiao Lu was a junior high school child at that time, and his mother came back to see him and bought him a lot of things, not only food, but also some learning machines and the like, which was quite expensive anyway.

The boy pushed his mother out of the unit door step by step, and scolded his mother downstairs in front of many people.

said that she was dirty, disgusting, abandoned her husband and children, and was a bad woman, who didn't know what wild man she had lived with outside all these years, and she was free alone.

also said that she did not care about her family, did not run the house, did not keep the house, and took the initiative to file for divorce is a betrayal of her husband, children and the whole family.

He smashed all those things in front of his mother, saying that he didn't want his mother's stinky money, he didn't want the dirty things his mother bought, he would never forgive his mother in his life, and let his mother die early. ”

Ning Shuyi was a little surprised: "Lu Zhibao's resentment towards his mother is so deep! ”

"What can I say!" Uncle Yu spread his hands, "How can a child who is still in middle school say these words!"

Isn't it all the people around him who keep talking about it, and he remembers it!

My child said a description before, how do you say it...... Oh! That brain was marinated by his grandparents! ”

Ning Shuyi nodded, she could probably imagine that kind of situation, and she could also imagine the effect of the brainwashing that had been carried out over the years.

At that moment, she inexplicably thought of Zhang Wuji in the martial arts world.

His mother had also told him to be careful of women, especially beautiful women.

The only difference is that Zhang Wuji took his mother's words as a deaf ear, but Lu Zhibao began to be instilled by his grandparents at a young age, and that kind of value has been deeply rooted in the bone marrow.

According to Uncle Yu's description of his child, it is simply too vivid, it is "pickled into the taste".

Therefore, it is not surprising that he will unconsciously reveal some views and tendencies towards women while trying his best to cover up and dismiss them.

"Your second elder lives here, have you ever seen Lu Zhibao bring his girlfriend home?" Ning Shuyi thought for a moment and asked.

"Yes," Uncle Yu's wife nodded, "Since the Spring Festival, he brought his little girlfriend back. ”

"And before that? Has he ever brought anyone else home for a longer stay? ”

"That doesn't seem like it!" Uncle Yu's wife shook her head, "Although it is said that this child was raised crookedly by his grandparents, he has been influenced by his grandparents since he was a child, and not to mention other aspects, at least in the area of male and female interaction, it is quite traditional."

He'd never seen anyone come home before, and this was the first time.

We always thought he hadn't had a girlfriend or anything before, but what do you mean, he had other girlfriends before this?

I really haven't seen it before! ”

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