Of course his daughter-in-law didn't want to, the couple had worked hard for so many years, and finally bought a house in a big city and settled down, and the children started school, how could they give up easily.

But Zhang Jiaqiang has figured it out after repeated thinking, don't force it on the wall if it's mud, if it's the wall, the wall will also feel very troublesome.

Ordinary people may not have any great achievements no matter how hard they work, if the child is smart, then he will not start to ask for a tutor from the first grade of primary school, attend various interest classes, and until now there is nothing particularly prominent.

Zhang Jiaqiang's words and other words complained that now he has completely seen it, there is wine today and wine today, and joy is a while.

It is the ability of the child to be admitted to a good school and find a good job in the future, otherwise it is not a big deal to live an ordinary life.

It's not a big problem to love to play and make trouble, it's normal for children to be playful, as for the future to be greedy for fun and make mistakes, an ordinary person, what big things can be wrong, after the mentality is relaxed, I feel peaceful when I see everything.

and his daughter-in-law, whether he agrees or not, Zhang Jiaqiang is ready to come back, and the big deal is divorce.

Hearing Zhang Jiaqiang's threat of divorce, Zhang Lan couldn't help it, which was too extreme. And his father died of a sudden illness in his hometown, what does this have to do with his daughter-in-law.

Don't say anything, because he and his daughter-in-law settled in Jinling, it caused Zhang Jiaqiang's father to work hard for his children all his life, and finally died alone when he died.

But if you really have the heart, even if the economic conditions in Jinling are not good for a while, but you always have the ability to pull your parents to do a physical examination every year, and the income of the two couples is nearly 20,000 yuan a month, which is difficult to find anywhere.

It is understandable that the high consumption expenditure is large, and I have spent time in big cities, plus raising children and paying off mortgages, daily consumption is a little more difficult.

But what does this kind of thing have to do with his daughter-in-law, just like Zhang Jiaqiang now threatens to live in his hometown in the future, if a person really makes up his mind, where can there be anything else that can stop him.

kept saying that his daughter-in-law would divorce if he didn't agree, just because he felt that his daughter-in-law's opinion was inconsistent with him on this matter, and he planned to use this method to convince himself or others.

Life is lived by himself, Zhang Jiaqiang's father died unexpectedly at home alone, and after the incident appeared, others felt a little sorry.

Zhang Lan can also guess the rumors of some people, raising such a promising son, and in the end, no one can even see the last side of his son.

I was going to persuade it, but then I thought about it and there was no need for it.

Life is all lived by oneself, and this kind of question about future life choices, if you are not a close relative, don't interfere. Even if you are a close relative, don't force the other party to follow the path you are optimistic about.

Let go of the complex of helping others and respect the fate of others. Do not participate in the cause and effect of others, and do not disturb the qi of others.

Doctors don't knock on the door, teachers don't follow the way, the law doesn't pass lightly, and they don't ask or talk. Where there are so many people who need to cross, those who can cross are their own efforts.

In the adult world, there is no screening, no education, only choice, no change. In life, a person's thoughts are summarized from experiences along the way, and each person's experience is different, creating different perspectives.

The world is a vast and complex world, and what everyone sees is only the tip of the iceberg.

If you have not suffered from others, do not persuade others to be good, if you have suffered from me, you may not have my goodness. The difference between people is really that the experience from childhood to adulthood is different, you don't participate in other people's worlds, you can never understand other people's feelings.

Participating in his world may not be as kind as him. Life is actually a ship sailing on the sea, and everyone has their own ferry and their own end point to reach.

In a few words, let the other party follow the path they want, and the so-called good for you is actually completely unnecessary. The so-called friends, meeting along the way is fate. The meaning of meeting is to illuminate each other, otherwise, it is very romantic to drink tea alone, and it is also sober to blow the wind alone.

Everyone you meet in life is not used to change, but to achieve each other. Allow others to be others, allow yourself to be yourself, and not impose and consume each other.

Zhang Lan didn't want to say too much, what Zhang Jiaqiang wanted to do was his freedom. Even if their husband and wife originally had a good relationship, nothing is set in stone, and it doesn't matter how they get apart.

It is said that it is persuasion and not persuasion, but no matter how sober the person standing next to him is, no matter how good he is, no matter what he says. But this kind of sober people's exhortation, for those who are deeply involved, they will instinctively defend and resist.

Because most people are unwilling to admit their mistakes, they are proving that their efforts are right and their dignity cannot be violated.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to divorce, it is originally at a fork in the road in life, and no one can see whether life is good or bad in the future.

Zhang Lan was silent, but Xiaobin next to him was full of persuasion, persuading Zhang Jiaqiang to think about it and not make decisions blindly.

Now and the past is different, it is not easy to meet a daughter-in-law who shares weal and woe and works hard with you. For example, he himself, who has been married for so many years, and his children are all in junior high school, but later, when he says that he changes his mind, he changes his mind, and he just doesn't live with you.

What can you do about this, no matter how you keep it, you will finally get divorced. That's it, his mother still thinks about keeping in touch with people when Xiaobin is okay all day long.

In the eyes of the older generation, they are both two children, and they are still so old, and they have to come back in the end.

But Xiaobin doesn't think so, a change of heart is a change of heart. The so-called going around and coming back is nothing more than feeling that after a few laps outside, the life of coming back is not as good as it was at the beginning.

But if life is better than the original, it is impossible to turn back from this kind of change of heart and divorce.

Xiaobin felt that he was not a rag-picker, and he also felt a little lost when he divorced at the beginning, and he wondered if he had really done something wrong. Later, after figuring it out, I understood that some people can't change.

It's not easy to meet someone together, and it's not a big mistake. It's just that you want to come back to your hometown to live, and the other party opposes you and you have to divorce someone. In Xiaobin's opinion, Zhang Jiaqiang is too immature, after working hard outside for so many years, is his idea so simple?

"Binzi, you don't understand." Regarding Xiaobin's persuasion, Zhang Jiaqiang smacked his lips and shook his head with a smile and said.

Then Zhang Jiaqiang explained that over the years, whenever he returned to his hometown, he felt that he was a character. After working alone for so many years, I have made a home in a big city. In the end, I found out that after being mixed for so long, it turned out that even my parents were not filial piety.

That kind of recognition after suddenly waking up made Zhang Jiaqiang feel remorse every time he thought about it.

Especially after returning home, I heard that his father was lying on the ground with a mobile phone in his hand, but he couldn't make a call. He couldn't imagine what it was like for his father to lie on the ground and wait to die when he had a cerebral hemorrhage.

(End of chapter)