Chapter 922: Let go of the helping complex

Zhang Jiaqiang felt that he was not filial, because he wanted to be buried, he didn't even dare to do the funeral, and quietly buried his father in the cemetery in the middle of the night.

Once he thought of all this, Zhang Jiaqiang felt that what he thought in his heart was a face. He went back to his hometown to live, not to say that he wanted to work hard for anything, but to atone for his sins. In the land where my father stayed all his life, he will keep it until he dies in the future.

As soon as she said this, Zhang Lan felt that there was no need to persuade her. Zhang Jiaqiang is well thought out, he has his own set of perceptions and ideas, and there is no need for outsiders to impose on him what is best.

Zhang Lan opened her mouth to change the topic: "Drink and drink, don't talk about those past things." We can't change what happened, we just have to live the rest of the day. ”

"Zhang Lan, the main reason for inviting you to drink today is that I want to discuss something with you, if you think it's not easy to do, then just don't say it." Zhang Jiaqiang raised his wine glass and touched a glass with Zhang Lan before speaking.

"You have to say what it is first, how do I know if it is easy to do if you don't say what it is." Hearing Zhang Jiaqiang speak, Zhang Lan breathed a sigh of relief in her heart, she was not afraid of you, but she was afraid that you would drink all the time and not say anything. After you said this, everyone was relieved to eat and drink.

This kind of friend in the same village, when he said that he wanted to help with small things, Zhang Lan would help if he had the ability.

If nothing else, it is that their parents live in the village, and the human relations are also in the village, so they can do a small favor, not because there will be any return at the moment, but because the elderly in the family will have face in the village in the future and live a more comfortable life.

Nowadays, many people who settle outside and the elderly at home are in their hometown, they feel that they may not return to their hometown to live in the future, and any personal contacts will gradually be broken.

It's not that there's anything wrong with this approach, after all, there are all kinds of people in the countryside, and not everyone can encounter the same folk customs as the legend.

In the past, living in the countryside was more clearly able to see what naked humanity was. It's all too common to hate you and laugh at you.

The reason is that at that time, there was no more way out in the countryside, and most people spent their lives dealing with a few acres of land in front of them, and the whole family depended on the sky for food.

In this case, in a famine year, for a mouthful of food. In good years, in order to occupy a little more land, it is common for two families to fight blood feuds.

The patriarchal mentality is also established in this situation, if your family is scarce, there are really people who rely on their own children to have more children, and your children are exchanged for one.

Later, with the development of society, the peasants who were originally bound to the land still had more choices.

When people have the right to choose, and can have other livelihoods in addition to farming, they naturally begin to pay attention to other things.

From the initial marriage to what family the other party values, there are a few brothers who can be the family. It gradually became whether the child could earn money, whether the burden on the family was heavy, and what benefits it could bring to his family.

In just over ten years, giving birth to a daughter has changed from a sad face to a laugh. The daughter is an intimate little padded jacket that has become a word on most people's lips.

Zhang Jiaqiang asked Zhang Lan for help is not a big deal, he wants to ask Zhang Lan to show his father a good cemetery, he has already found several locations, and when Zhang Lan is free, go and see the location he chose.

He doesn't expect to find anything rich and rich, so that the family can be safe. I don't want to be able to do anything big, I just want to be able to not hold back.

He asked someone to see the location of the current cemetery a few years ago, and people said that the location of the ancestral grave was not very good, and there was still a little strength at the beginning, but because of the construction of waterways and signal towers, the location of his family's cemetery was no longer a little angry.

What Zhang Jiaqiang said is similar to the situation of the ancestral tomb of Zhang Lan's family, and the same is when the water conservancy was built, the atmosphere of that meeting was that feudal superstition was to be defeated, so many people didn't care about what was destroyed or not.

Zhang Lan and their team also started to remedy it because it didn't take long for them to start having an accident.

The location of Zhang Jiaqiang's family has been destroyed in a small part, but the development of future generations is good. Not to mention the wealthy, but the families are safe.

So later, they learned that it had been destroyed, and several families had no intention of moving the ancestral tomb.

In recent years, when the theory of feng shui became popular again, Zhang Jiaqiang's father began to think about finding a good place to keep for his family. The reason is that too many people have been buried in the ancestral graves of Zhang Jiaqiang and his family, at most to Zhang Jiaqiang's generation, and there is no place further down. It is up to each family to find a way to change land or find a location.

He thinks that Zhang Jiaqiang will be a person in a big city in the future, and now he is looking for a good position, the family does not say anything else, and the next three or four generations will not come back often in the future, and there will be a place when he wants to bury people in the future.

At that time, Zhang Jiaqiang's father felt that he was still young, and he only remembered the matter of finding a cemetery in his heart, and what he wanted was to find it slowly first, and he was not in a hurry to have a suitable location, in case he could meet a better one.

By now, there are not many ready-made places around Qingshan Village that can be used, or there are no more usable places, and some of the newly built cemeteries are based on the old graves, and some are transformed according to the terrain to create the places they want.

Of the several locations Zhang Jiaqiang found, three were near Qingshan Village, and two were near his aunt's house. His aunt's house is in a village not far east of Qingshan Village, which is closer to the mountains, and most of the residents in the village have moved out, and most of the people living in the village are now elderly.

Since coming back, Zhang Jiaqiang has been to his aunt's house several times, and when chatting, he heard that Zhang Jiaqiang wanted to find a good cemetery for his father, but there were not many suitable places in Qingshan Village.

His aunt said that in the past two years, people from other places around her village have often come to find a place to bury their graves, so that if Zhang Jiaqiang can't find a place, he can look for them in their village. At that time, no matter how much money is given, because Zhang Jiaqiang is here, he will not be like other outsiders, asking for more than 100,000 yuan for three points, and he will have to pay extra money every time he enters.

Zhang Jiaqiang found several places that he found himself based on drones and satellite maps, and he has not yet looked for a master. Now Zhang Lan and their villages are looking for a good cemetery too much, Zhang Jiaqiang is worried that after finding someone who doesn't know the roots, people will look at the place and then be cut off.

It's not that Zhang Jiaqiang is worried, but that something similar happened in a nearby village. After a family asked Feng Shui Cissus to find a good place, they went to talk to the main family about the place, but they didn't talk about it for a while because of money.

As a result, the Feng Shui Narcissus who invited him was not steady, and when he was eating with people, he told the people where he looked, and as a result, he was taken by someone with money to occupy the place.

(End of chapter)