On Saturday, October 14th, in Beijing, an alley, a wedding is underway at this moment.

This is the latest episode of the threesome, and it will be recorded for two consecutive episodes, in fact, it should have been recorded, but Su Ye's back injury was delayed.

In the corner of the wedding banquet, Su Ye and his party ate at the wine table, and the theme of this episode is 'loneliness'.

Today's recording is undoubtedly very in line with Xu Qingyuan's hobby, he sandwiched a peanut and took a sip of liquor, "It's good to get married, we thought we were the loneliest person in the world, but we didn't expect that there was a lonely person in another part of the earth, so the two got married, and there was someone to accompany each other, so that there was a goal for being lonely, we could complain to each other, we could sympathize with each other, and the two lonely people were not so lonely." ”

"It's too mean, but loneliness is the norm in life, and it's true, life itself is a lonely journey, we come alone, and we leave alone." Ma Xi made his own comment, "Senior brother, what do you think? ”

Su Ye sighed, he felt that he was so busy, after looking for Zhao Wanning yesterday, he planned to measure Jiang Baizhi's finger circumference when he went back at night, but Jiang Baizhi felt that his injury was not healed, and he waited until he fell asleep before sleeping, which made his abacus fall short.

Looking at the wedding in front of him, he saw people and thought about how he would propose. But Ma Xi's problem came again, but it was also his job.

Su Ye sorted out his thoughts before saying, "Judging from the words of the two senior brothers, I think you are too pessimistic about 'loneliness'. ”

"Oh?"

Su Ye dipped his fingers in the tea and wrote the word loneliness on the table, "Look at these two words, in fact, they are very lively when they are opened, there are children, fruits, animals, mosquitoes and flies, don't these add up to an alley in a midsummer evening, bustling and full of human flavor." ”

To be honest, Xu Qingyuan was amazed, Su Ye's interpretation of the word is very exciting, "Senior brother means that only when a person is quiet can he notice the human flavor, or is it beautiful?" ”

Su Ye nodded, and said, "Senior Brother Ma said that we will be lonely for the rest of our lives, and this is right. But let's not demonize the word 'loneliness', the core value of loneliness is to get along with yourself, review yourself, and make yourself a better version of yourself. When we can accept loneliness, take the initiative to be alone, and enjoy loneliness, it is the beginning of our life. ”

Ma Xi suddenly smiled when he heard this, "What Senior Brother said is very good, we seem to have indeed demonized loneliness." Think about what we all said when we were younger? But Schopenhauer's phrase 'Lonely or vulgar' is regarded as the golden rule! ”

"So what is the cause of loneliness?" Xu Qingyuan asked.

"When I was a child, I was not afraid of the sky and the earth, and I also had my family to shelter from the wind and rain. But when you grow up, friends who have parted ways, the death of your loved ones, your powerlessness in the face of life choices, the blink of an eye, your appearance is mediocre, and you have achieved nothing, but you have spent half of your life in a leisurely manner, all of which will make people feel lonely. Ma Xi said.

Su Ye nodded, and then added, "Senior Brother Ma is talking about external factors, and I think there are also internal factors. Loneliness is because you can't be alone with yourself, you can't lift your spirits for anything, you feel lonely. And these will tell themselves: I am lonely, I have to break this loneliness! And when you have the action to break the loneliness, you will only be more lonely and fall into a vicious circle."

The three of them couldn't help but fall into silence, and after a long time, Ma Xi summed up sharply, "There is nothing wrong with loneliness, what makes loneliness bad is because we are afraid of loneliness." ”

In the transition, Ma Xi drove the car through the alley to the next recording venue.

Xu Qingyuan took the initiative to provoke the topic, "Lao Ma, don't say it, the topics and recording locations selected by the program team every time are very good, loneliness and weddings, it's really wonderful." Does the director team want to tell everyone that even if you get married, you are lonely? ”

"Don't talk nonsense, it's all your own thoughts."

Xu Qingyuan laughed and turned the topic to Su Ye, which was also the habit of him and Ma Xi, Su Ye was the youngest among the three, but Su Ye was the most serious. This makes the two always like to tease Su Ye, "I guess the little junior brother must still be calling for love in the center of the world." ”

This ridicule is because Su Ye always puts forward very positive things on the topic, which is different from Xu Qingyuan's meanness and Ma Xi's sophistication.

"Do you think that the little junior brother is very beautiful to get married, and the two of them got married because they love each other?"

Of course, Su Ye knew what Xu Qingyuan wanted to hear, but he wouldn't do Xu Qingyuan's wish so easily, "Senior brother, it's one-sided for you to say that. ”

"Oh?"

"The so-called love is not constant equal to marriage, if this is limited to this word, then human love is too little and too monotonous, love is companionship and understanding, without that marriage certificate can not love each other. And I also want to refute the argument that the marriage of the senior brother just now is two lonely people warming each other, I want to say, don't pursue love when you are lonely, when you can live well without love, it is the moment when you really have love. ”

Xu Qingyuan was speechless, and Ma Xi couldn't help laughing, "Let you provoke the little junior brother, can you say anything about him with your mouth?" ”

At this moment, Xu Qingyuan was like a gambler, after being defeated by Su Ye, he unwillingly turned his gaze to Ma Xi again, "Old Ma, just now you said that loneliness is the normal state of life, so are you lonely?" ”

Of course, Ma Xi knew what Xu Qingyuan was planning, if he said that he was not lonely, he would slap himself in the face. But if you say that you are lonely, it is estimated that it is another wave of ridicule. But he is not a vegetarian, "I love the wind and the spirits, but also the solitude and freedom. ”

The main purpose of this sentence is to avoid talking about it, as if it has been said and as if nothing has been said.

Xu Qingyuan saw that Ma Xi was not fooled, and hit Su Ye with his idea again, "Little junior brother, what about you, are you lonely?" ”

Su Ye also knew Xu Qingyuan's abacus, if he said that he was not lonely, it would be hypocritical. But if you say that you are lonely, Xu Qingyuan will definitely say that you are a professor of philosophy, you study all day, haven't you learned to get along with yourself?

Thinking of this, Su Ye couldn't help but smile, it was Xu Qingyuan who provoked first, no wonder he made a big move, "I used to be lonely, but soon I won't be lonely." ”

"Why?"

"I'm going to propose to Bai Zhi!"

"What?" The two spoke in unison, and Ma Xi stepped on a sudden brake, which shows how excited they are.

"Is that surprising?"

"Please, I don't know who was entangled when I was in Yunnan, what the hell is going on?"

"I don't know what's going on, and suddenly I don't want to talk about it."

After Su Ye said this, he felt a chill in his neck, and he seemed to have underestimated the level of gossip of middle-aged people

(End of chapter)