Chapter 254: A marriage proposal is more than just a pre-ceremony to enter into marriage
At the moment, the car is driving smoothly, but the attention of the driver, including the person sitting in the car, is not on the car
"You all know that love is like drinking water, and you know it warmly. Actually, I have long felt Bai Zhi's heart, especially when we attended a friend's wedding in early September, and at that time, Bai Zhi almost wrote on her face when you will marry me."
"What a good life you have, kid!" Xu Qingyuan, a single dog for 10,000 years, had envy and distortion on his face.
"Bai Zhi is really a good girl, even if she already has this heart, she didn't rush me, but let me go with the flow. But I guess, in fact, she doesn't know that I know. ”
"Huh?"
After attending the wedding, she said that she was going to Xiangshan to repay her vows. Xiangshan was very special to us, because at that time I wanted to know her heart, and wanted to know if she liked me, so I asked her to go to Xiangshan, ready to test her heart. I think she probably wanted to test me if I wanted to get married. At that time, I didn't ask her if she liked me, but I had the answer. Again, she didn't ask, but I think she had the answer, which was to go with the flow. ”
"According to what you say, Xiao Jiang is really knowledgeable and full of trust in you." Ma Xi couldn't help but sigh.
"Why can't I meet a girl like this?" This is Xu Qingyuan's true thoughts.
Su Ye smiled and continued, "Earlier, the two senior brothers in Yunnan told me that girls can't wait, in fact, I also understand in my heart, but I always feel too fast, or worry about life after marriage, you know that love is blind, you can only see happiness, and marriage has to be mixed with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. ”
"What prompted you to change your mind?"
"Because of my waist injury, Bai Zhi's meticulous care, smearing medicine, wiping my body, feeding the warmth of being taken care of, makes me can't wait to enter the palace of marriage, I am thinking, we love each other so much, even if there is a problem in the future, what can't be solved?"
As for the reason why she really wanted to get married, Su Ye still mentioned it in passing, but just saying these things was enough to move Ma Xi and Xu Qingyuan.
"This is what love should look like." Xu Qingyuan gave his own evaluation, and Ma Xi couldn't help nodding in agreement.
"Two senior brothers, the problem now is that I want to propose, but I don't have a specific idea yet, do you have any ideas?"
Xu Qingyuan's head shook like a rattle, this question was out of line for him, "I haven't talked about love once, you have to ask Lao Ma, he was a merry and talented man when he was young." ”
"Don't hack me here, your sister-in-law and I are each other's first love."
"Then brother, how did you propose to your sister-in-law in the first place?"
This is really a long time ago, Ma Xi's eyes couldn't help but bring up a trace of memory, "We are college classmates, we met in Australia, when I was about to return to China, I took her to the beach, we walked barefoot on the beach, the sea water was very cold, and the sunset was beautiful." I pulled out the ring I had bought with my savings, got down on one knee and proposed, asking her if she would like to marry me. She agreed without hesitation, she was in tears, and I hugged her around the beach, feeling as if my heart was about to fly out. ”
Xu Qingyuan on the side said sourly, "I really didn't expect you to have such a romantic time." ”
"In fact, the marriage proposal itself is a very romantic thing, which means that I promise to be you alone for the rest of my life, happy and sad." Ma Xi took the attitude of a passerby, "So the essence of the marriage proposal is to give the other party enough security through this ceremony, so that she feels that she will be very happy to marry you, you pay enough attention to her, you are worthy of her trust, and you will give her the life she wants."
Of course, many couples now just regard the marriage proposal as a pre-ceremony to enter the marriage hall and make some surprises. But I don't think it's right, it's a bit of a waste to just propose for the sake of proposing. In a way, a marriage proposal should be a process in which the man shows his heart and ideas, and the guy tells the girl what I will do to you in the future, what will happen to our family, and what kind of life I will let you live. ”
Ma Xi's speech can be described as deafening. Now many marriage proposals are indeed like this, the boy prepares a surprise, fireworks, flowers, reviews the experience of the two, makes some PPT, photos, and the girl is moved to agree. As Ma Xi said, this is more like a marriage proposal for the sake of a marriage proposal, the couple has a tacit understanding about marriage, the girl needs a ceremony and a surprise, and the boy plays the role of giving.
Of course, this will also be touching, because the two also love each other. But as a man, Su Ye agrees with Ma Xi's words, proposing marriage is not only a ceremony for girls, but also an opportunity to show his heart and his thoughts about his future life.
"Old Ma, I really underestimated you, I didn't expect you to have such a cognition."
"It probably has something to do with my experience." Ma Xi had a smile on her face, but there were a lot of things in this smile, "The timing of my proposal was actually a critical moment, she and I were about to graduate from college, I was a poor student, and I didn't know where the future would be, I wanted to return to China, she wanted to stay in Australia, the country was still very poor at that time, and it would undoubtedly be better to stay abroad."
To be honest, I wasn't very confident about the outcome of my proposal at the time. But I know I love her and I don't want to lose her. So I told her in the sunset that I was poor now, but I would try to make her a good life. I'm going to go back to China and get a job at a TV station, so I won't starve her with a bite to eat. What she had abroad will be owned at home in the future, and I am glad that I had the courage at that time, and the promise I made at the beginning became a spur to me. ”
"Senior brother, the love story between you and your sister-in-law is very beautiful."
"Haha, now that I think about it, the promise made at that time seemed to be painting a cake for her, but I didn't expect it to be overfulfilled now."
Su Ye shook his head, "What you say from the bottom of your heart is not a cake, I think my sister-in-law is willing to marry my senior brother because I see your sincerity, not these promises." ”
"Don't talk about that, my daughter gave birth to me anyway." Ma Xi laughed, "Everyone be sober, the recording location is about to arrive, enter the state and prepare to work." ”
"Old Ma, you are really a capitalist who will cry when you hear it. One second you were still telling moving stories and you wanted to shed tears when you said it, and the next second you were exploiting, how did your face change so quickly? ”
"That's why I'm a capitalist!"
Xu Qingyuan was angry and said that he didn't want to talk to Ma Xi.
Su Ye couldn't help but smile when he saw this, but he was thinking more about what Ma Xi had just said in his heart, and he already had some vague thoughts about the marriage proposal
(End of chapter)