"You're right."

Wang Qi didn't expect that Chu Xi would see things so thoroughly.

originally thought that twins like hers must have a very good relationship, and there will be no situation like their own family.

"By the way, share your parenting experience with me."

In this regard, Wang Qi also seems very modest, although he has been in the industry for many years and is an old-timer in the circle, he is still ignorant about parenting.

Sometimes when faced with some of the child's behavior, he doesn't even know how to deal with it properly.

"You think too highly of me, thanks to you, I'll say a few more words."

In order not to be cold, she can be regarded as fighting, not to mention that she is quite comfortable chatting with Wang Qi.

"In fact, parents often say that the love for each child is the same, in fact, I don't think it's true, a bowl of water is flat, it is obviously very difficult, what can be done, but not too tilted."

Can it not hurt for your own child?

But when two children are together, even if they tell themselves every day that they must be treated equally, there is no way for people to really treat them equally, and some actions are even subconscious favoritism that they may not have discovered, but the child's mind is the most sensitive, and you subconsciously did not find it, but they found it themselves.

It will also make children subconsciously feel that their parents are hurting the other one, and they don't hurt themselves at all.

Her words made Wang Qi interested.

"I don't think that boys should be treated harshly, girls should be treated gently, maybe fathers will be more biased towards daughters! After all, girls are more delicate, and boys need to be responsible. ”

Boys need a little responsibility, this kind of consciousness you can transmit to him, but when he is very young, some behaviors do not reflect any manhood at all, so there is no need to say that boys must do it, girls do not need to do it.

"Whether it is a son or a daughter, it may be said that heavier things, boys come, lighter things girls come, this is normal, but it can't be said that boys do it all, girls don't have to do it, the big ones don't have to do more, the small ones do less, the big ones must let the small ones go, I particularly disagree with this."

Maybe after growing up before, I also have a certain plan in my heart for my children.

For example, for example, if your eldest daughter is six years old and your youngest son is four years old, when there is a difference between the two years, your eldest daughter may have done a lot of things she has done at your youngest son's age, and when she is six years old, she will help her younger brother do those behaviors that originally belonged to her younger brother, and there may be some discomfort and gap in my heart. After all, I'm going to divide my own toys into half of my brother is already unhappy, and now I have to do all the work for him, no one praises what is done, and if I don't do well, I will say, the big crying is called ignorant, the small crying is called small, this subconscious of adults will only make children more and more aggrieved. ”

Her words also made Wang Qi fall into deep thought.

In the past, when her daughter was very young, she was always very well-behaved and would put away the toys she had played.

However, with the arrival of the younger brother, the younger brother grows up, and there are more and more toys at home, although the younger brother sometimes cleans up, but most of them are more playful and lazy, basically the mother and sister are helping to clean up.