Although this action is small and subtle, but for the results of the cleanup, the younger brother obviously does not have the so-called respect, after cleaning up, it will not take long to mess up, and the number of times will be too much, the sister will also complain, and the sister and brother will fight again.

This kind of thing may seem familiar to adults, but no one will think from the perspective of their sister.

Obviously, my toys are cleaned up, and I have to help my brother clean up, and I have to clean up, and because my brother is making trouble, I keep repeating this action that I don't know what is the camera, and sometimes because my brother is naughty, I will mess up her toys, causing parents to see it, and they will subconsciously say the small one first.

It turned out that unconsciously, his daughter had suffered so many grievances.

The couple flies around for a long time, and they have little company for their children, and the elders in the family will also subconsciously favor the younger ones, which also makes their daughters more and more aggrieved, looking at their younger brothers, and even having dislikes and hats.

"Children's emotions are more prone to paranoia, what is called the seeds of hatred planted from the heart, it is also very normal, so the relationship between sisters and brothers, parents must learn to be enlightened, you tell the child that you love her, but the behavior makes her very clear, you don't love her at all, such words are too much, naturally it has become a lie in the eyes of children, whether it is a quarrel or a fight, after that, to dredge with them the right and wrong of this matter, where is right, where is wrong, The two sisters sometimes quarrel, I don't go back to meddle in the matter of bickering, so that they feel that they can almost have a cold war, and then ask each of them what they think about this matter, feel that they are right, where they feel wronged, and then explain to them what the whole thing is like a bystander, if the sister is wrong, the sister will apologize, the sister is wrong, the sister will apologize, in fact, the child is very smart, you reason with them, maybe you can understand half or half of the ignore, but the truth is like this, They'll remember it in their hearts, and the next time they'll say, oh, it's not right for me to do that. ”

Compared with other children, the little sisters really saved Chu Xi a lot of trouble, but they are all independent and have their own thoughts.

In the past, my sister always let my sister as an older sister, but she is also a child.

In Chu Xi's concept, at home, whoever makes sense will listen to whom, whoever is right will listen to whom, whoever does wrong, whoever apologizes, even if it is the same, you can't feel indifferent just because you are an adult and the other party is a child.

Outside, the little sisters want to have one heart, and while the elder sister protects the younger sister, the younger sister also protects the elder sister.

"Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years, and today I can be regarded as a long knowledge."

It can be seen that her parenting experience is really useful.

No wonder the little sisters were taught to be so well-behaved.

"You complimented me, this is just my personal opinion, every child is a different personality, and the specific character of the child should be targeted."

This method may work for your own daughters, but it may not work for your children in other families.

Xiao Jiu's child is sensible, but are other people's children not sensible?

Maybe more sensible than your own children!

"The noodles are ready."

Her modesty, Wang Qi didn't say much, at least he didn't waste his time chatting with her tonight.

"Thank you, senior."

Politely thanked.