585 is head-wrenching
Because tomorrow is the Dragon Boat Festival, everyone in "Su Ji" will have a day off, so there are many trivial things to deal with. Su Qingluan, as the shopkeeper, at this time, in order to prevent mistakes in the details, he could only be the last to leave, so when he went home, it was already dark.
As soon as she got home, she heard Yang say to her: "Tomorrow for the Dragon Boat Festival, do you want to go out with girls of the same age or something?" For example, the Tian family's ......"
As soon as he heard this, Su Qingluan understood: yes, it's another blind date bureau. After all, it has been so long since the crossing, although Yang occasionally suggests that she go out to relax and have a play, but he never suggests a specific "someone".
If a suggestion like "go out with a friend" appears in her mouth as if it were inadvertent, don't think about it, the subtext of this sentence must be "I gave you a nice boy this time, do you want to go and see it too, it's the little one in the old family" or something like that.
In her previous life, Su Qingluan passed away before she went to college, and after college, she has been lingering on the sickbed, so many times, whether it is classmates at school or some elders she knows after graduation, more blessings than topics such as "When will this girl have a partner" is "Don't think so much, relax and get better faster." ”
Compared with whether he can live until the next year, for Su Qingluan in his previous life, getting married and having children are too many distant topics.
Therefore, in the previous life, Su Qingluan did not have the opportunity to experience the "marriage urging topic" that was avoided by many young people for various reasons.
However, as the so-called "it should be yours who can't escape sooner or later", the "urging marriage and blind date" that I have not experienced in my previous life, and it is a high-density kind, Su Qingluan has experienced a thorough experience in this life.
This year, Su Qingluan will be fifteen years old according to the age calculation method of this era. Although Su Qingluan's fifteenth birthday in this era is still some time, from the perspective of people in this era, as long as they enter the year of "fifteen years old", it means that girls can reach the age of marriage.
What's more, in this era, there is no such thing as "starting in three years, the highest death penalty", and many girls are sent to their "husband's house" as child daughters-in-law when they are less than ten years old or even very young. It is not uncommon for people to get married at the age of twelve or thirteen.
In fact, strictly speaking, although the Yang family frequently arranges "blind date bureaus", Su Qingluan feels that the Yang family and Su Guangfu are already rare "enlightened parents" in this era.
First of all, the two of them did not "buy and sell" when they moved out the set of "parents' orders and matchmakers". In fact, according to the folk customs of this era, if both parents fall in love with the man's family, and the man also falls in love with the woman's family, it is completely possible to thoroughly implement the "arranged marriage" without going through the junior's own will.
In this era, this kind of marriage not only does not cause any criticism, but is the most "reasonable and natural" process.
But Su Guangfu and Yang fully respect Su Qingluan's opinion, as long as she is unwilling, Su Guangfu and Yang will not force her even if they feel it, and even comfort her and say that fifteen years old is not too old, and many people only get married at the age of eighteen or nineteen, and they are doing well.
Although in the thinking of modern people, fifteen and eighteen or nineteen years old have not reached the "legal age of marriage" in the strict sense, which can be described as the level of the eldest brother Mo Xiao and the second brother.
But in this era when the average age is only in their forties, and sixty or seventy are considered "high life", it is not easy to comfort your daughter to wait a few more years.
Secondly, Su Guangfu and Yang did not believe in "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented". These two people have both endured hardships and poverty, and they are people who support their three children with their own hands. So they understand better that "being able to make money" is a very important thing for ordinary people.
Relatively speaking, those bullshit "female virtues" and the like are worthless bullshit before the problem of food and clothing. Therefore, they never asked Su Qingluan to marry and teach his children at home from now on, and let go of the business he originally did or transfer it to others.
In Yang's words: "The money you earn is your own, where is there a saying about pushing money out?" Those who want their sons to take over the store that my daughter has worked so hard to run, don't they look in the mirror to see how many catties and taels they have? ”
The most important thing is that neither Su Guangfu nor the Yang family once asked "if you get married, how do you want to change yourself", their requirements for Su Qingluan are just to be "safe".
And for such a dense "group blind date bureau", it is just in line with the mentality of "a good blind date is not late", and I want her to have a satisfactory object as soon as possible.
After all, for women in this era, although they can never marry and stand on their own, they are much stricter in terms of the objective environment and the various social and self-problems they face.
Su Qingluan also thought about this problem, although having a child in this era is a ghost gate, but she checked all kinds of information in this era and found that if she doesn't marry and stand on her own, she will basically face a similar difficult environment.
The most important thing is that if she does not marry, it is often difficult for the "inheritance" she has accumulated to remain in her hands when she is getting old - because although she has "money" now, it is difficult for her to have a trustworthy "heir".
So whether Su Qingluan wants it or not, she has to have a child - a child who can inherit all her inheritance.
In this era, the option of "having a child out of wedlock" is completely not considered, not to mention whether it is allowed by the law, that is, in any environment, "unknown father" will be broken by people behind the back, or immersed in a pig cage and sunk in a pond.
Su Qingluan didn't want to challenge the laws of this era, because she didn't have that much ability at all now—unless she was the kind of eldest princess who was the only aunt of the current young emperor who was unparalleled under one person.
…… But compared to this kind of character, it is more likely that I can dream that I can find a husband who meets the requirements in all aspects.
Thinking of this, Su Qingluan couldn't help but scratch his head: Although he is very lucky, the father and aunt in this life are not strange, not dead-hearted, not feudal and old-fashioned, and even very reasonable, but it is too much to stand up to the blind date!
In Su Qingluan's opinion, these young men, who are only seventeen or eighteen years old, are all children who have not yet grown up. Although she is still a fifteen-year-old "girl" on the surface, after all, she has lived for two lifetimes and is almost thirty years old.
Although she also wants to "be a painless mother", the object should not be the person she calls "husband" in her life!
Thinking about the first time in his life, Su Qingluan didn't want to waste time with the hairy young man on such a memorable beautiful thing, so he shirked and said: "Auntie, I'm going to send this third zongzi out early tomorrow morning, oh, I'll put it all alone." ”
Because he came back late today, Mu Xingzhi's portion of zongzi was obviously too late to be delivered. However, this also gave Su Qingluan a chance to avoid the "blind date bureau".
However, it turned out that she was thinking too simply.