Chapter 141: Marriage Can't Be Won by Pleasing (Part II)
After the child was born, Xu Qin didn't want to breastfeed the child, considering that Xu Qin's body needed to recover, Ma Bowen didn't say anything to his parents. They invited a confinement lady and bought milk powder for the child.
I don't know if it's because of the milk powder feeding, the child always cries when he is sleepy. At this time, the mother always can't help but nag, saying that if the child is breastfed, it would be fine, and it would be easier to sleep next to the mother. The mother may feel sorry for the child, but Xu Qin is not happy after hearing it, she quarrels with her mother every day, either drops things or scolds people at home, and says that she wants to strangle the child to death at every turn.
Ma Bowen went to check on the Internet, and netizens said that it might be postpartum depression. In order to calm his wife down, in order not to make this family noisy, Ma Bowen rented another house in the same community. He asked his mother and sister-in-law to live in that house with the child, and he ran on both sides, even so, Xu Qin still annoyed him and asked him to stay there and not come back.
It was about 20 days when the child was in his twenties, and one night, it was already late, he was awakened by a nightmare, and he couldn't rest assured that Xu Qin went back to his home. There was a voice in the room, it was an extremely ambiguous sound, and as a man, his limbs were cold and his scalp was numb. He crept into the living room, where an ambiguous light peeked through the master bedroom.
The door to the master bedroom was not closed, and he walked over and looked through the crack in the door.
There were a lot of things scattered on the ground, including Xu Qin's high heels and men's dander. There is Xu Qin's skirt and men's pants. He knew that he should rush in, that he should arrest the pair of dogs and men, and that he should even use his manly demeanor to beat Xu Qin hard. But his feet seemed to be nailed, and he stood there motionless.
I don't know how long it took, but he left the door like a walking corpse. His mind went blank, and he didn't know how he got downstairs. He sat downstairs in the flower bed, his mind in a mess. For a while, he regretted that he shouldn't have come tonight, and if he hadn't come, he wouldn't have seen such an embarrassing scene. For a while, I blamed myself, and blamed myself for why I chose to escape like a wreck.
Ma Bowen felt aggrieved and wanted to cry happily, but he was a man, he couldn't cry, and crying made people see jokes. He sat downstairs for a long time, until the east turned white, and then dragged his heavy steps back to the rental house to continue to take care of the children.
The next day, Xu Qin sent him a text message, saying that he was depressed, went out for a walk, and asked him not to call him. Ma Bowen knew that she was going out with that man, and he didn't say anything because his heart was dead.
Xu Qin's departure caused an uproar at home! 's mother thinks that Xu Qin's approach is too much, thinks that she is not worthy of being a mother, and thinks that the reason why she dares to do this is because Ma Bowen is used to it. Xu Qin's mother thought that her daughter had been wronged by the Ma family and had no choice but to leave the child and run away from home. Because of this incident, the two families had a quarrel, and Xu Qin even moved back to her parents' house under the pretext of something.
Because they didn't know about their daughter-in-law's cheating, Ma Bowen's parents chose to compromise, they thought that they had children and couldn't let this marriage break up no matter what. They persuaded Ma Bowen to go to Xu Qin's house to pick up Xu Qin, and persuaded Ma Bowen that if Xu Qin came back, he would stop pampering her like before.
Ma Bowen went twice.
For the first time, he was scolded by his parents-in-law, and he was angry.
The second time, without waiting for his parents-in-law to speak, he told what happened that night. The parents-in-law didn't believe it and questioned Xu Qin, but Xu Qin looked at Ma Bowen and didn't speak.
How about their own daughters, Xu Qin's parents are clear. They dragged Xu Qin into the house and muttered for a long time, and Xu Qin followed Ma Bowen home.
The person is back, but the heart has not returned, Ma Bowen has lost his patience with her, and the life at home is still very fast. Ma Bowen's mother couldn't see her son's marriage in chaos like this, and Xu Qin had no feelings for her children, and she didn't want to fulfill her responsibilities and obligations as a mother, so she took her sister-in-law and the child back to her hometown in the countryside.
Although Ma Bowen didn't mention divorce, he didn't treat Xu Qin like before, he no longer cared about her, no longer asked her, she was just the mother of the child in this family.
Two years have passed since such a day of discord in appearance and discord in heart. Xu Qin suddenly found Ma Bowen and made a deep reflection on her absurd things in the past. She said that she was wrong, that she loved so many people, and finally found that the only one who was really good to her was Ma Bowen. She hopes that Ma Bowen can forgive her and give her a chance to mend her life and start over.
When the child was two and a half years old, they took the child back to their side, and during that time, Xu Qin did change a lot, she would take the initiative to take the child to kindergarten, and would take the child out to play, and the child slowly accepted the mother. However, the good times did not last long, and when the child was more than four years old, he once again found out that Xu Qin had betrayed her marriage.
Xu cares about her children, Xu still cares about this marriage with him, this derailment, Xu Qin didn't show too much, in her own words, she just cheated mentally, and didn't have any substantive relationship with that man, and in this relationship, it has always been her initiative, not the man's fault.
Of course, Ma Bowen knew that it was her fault, and he knew that his own daughter-in-law knew that because of Xu Qin's honesty, because Xu Qin did not take a substantive step, he did not quarrel with Xu Qin, but they separated.
No one mentioned it, nor did they mention the word separation on the surface, but they were separated. When Ma Bowen went home, they were a normal family of three, especially in front of their children, they behaved like a normal couple, but only they knew that they were just acting in front of their children.
When the child was in elementary school, Xu Qin took the initiative to file for divorce on the grounds that she was in love with someone else but she didn't want to hurt Ma Bowen anymore. She said that she knew that Ma Bowen was a good person, a good husband, and a good father, but she was not good, and she couldn't fall in love with him. She said she tried, but she couldn't help it.
Ma Bowen thought about it for a long time, and finally decided to let himself go and fulfill her and the men outside. Before the divorce was completed, she regretted it. No one mentioned the divorce again.
After a long time, Ma Bowen learned that it was not that Xu Qin didn't want to divorce him, but that the man didn't want Xu Qin to divorce. That man is also married, his wife is more capable than him, he is unwilling to divorce his wife, and he is even more unwilling to be entangled by a woman like Xu Qin, and he clearly distinguishes the nature of extramarital affairs from marriage. If Xu Qin insisted on divorcing, she would break off with Xu Qin and never have any contact again.
"Do you know who the man who has a relationship with Xu Qin is?" Liang Zhijie asked: "According to our speculation, he is most likely the one who killed Xu Qin." ”
"You know, I've seen pictures of him." Ma Bowen found a photo: "It's him, Wu Yuanqiang, a contractor." ”