Fifth, cultivate talents, endure hardships and be willing
After divorcing Mr. Wang, my mother did not fall in love and get married again. She got up early and went to bed late and worked hard, trained me to study wholeheartedly, and hoped that I would live up to my expectations, become an adult, fulfill the wishes of my husband and mother-in-law, and rely on me when I was old. Under my mother's upbringing, I gradually grew up, understood my mother's good intentions better, studied harder and diligently, took the initiative, worked hard, and my grades were always very good.
In the second year after leaving Mr. Wang, I was admitted to junior high school with excellent grades, fulfilling my promise to my mother. My mother was very happy to see my junior high school admission letter, so she went to the store in the town, bought two feet of floral cloth, cut it overnight, and made a floral cloth skirt with stitches and threads as a reward for me. It was the first time in my life that I wore a skirt, and I was naturally very happy, I ran around the village in a flower skirt, and when I met people, I said that my mother made it for me to enter junior high school. The little sisters looked at my flower dress and were very envious; Not only envy my flower skirt, but also envy me for being admitted to junior high school with high scores. I understood my mother's happiness and heart, and once again told my mother: When I reach junior high school, I must study harder, and after three years, I will ensure that I will be admitted to the county high school with excellent results.
The middle school is in the town, and you have to live in the middle school. I had to leave my mother and live in the dormitory of the middle school with a quilt and school bag. My mother gave me the best, thickest quilt, and she left only the worn, thinner quilt. I couldn't bear to ask for it, my mother said that I was at school, and the quilt should be covered warmly, protect my body, and be dignified, so as not to make my classmates laugh; She is good at home, spread more straw on the bed, and there is no problem with the old and thinner quilt, so you must give me a good quilt. I was very touched and told my mother again that I would study hard and promise to be admitted to high school with excellent grades after three years. My mother listened to my assurance, hugged me excitedly and kissed me again and again, and said, "Mom believes in you." "At that time, the school food was not good, and the students often did not have enough to eat. The mother ate more melons and vegetables to supplement the rations, and saved food for her to eat. Once, when she brought me food and came back at noon in the middle of summer, when the sun was at its peak and the weather was hot, she was hungry and tired, and unfortunately fainted from heat stroke and fell unconscious. Thanks to the neighbors who were working in the fields, they found her, moved her to the shade of a tree, and poured some cold water on her to wake up, sent her home, and saved her mother's life.
Under my mother's persecution and encouragement, three years later, I was admitted to the county high school with excellent grades. My mother was very happy, took my high school admission letter, took me to the grave of my father and grandmother, knelt down on both knees, kowtowed again and again, cried and laughed, saying that she had lived up to their trust and hope, over the years, she had endured hardships and stood hard work, tried her best, and worked hard to train me to study hard and be positive, and finally was admitted to the county high school with excellent grades. In the future, she will continue to train me to study well in high school, and I believe that in three years, I will also be admitted to university as I wish.
With my mother's blessing and hope, I went to the county seat to study in high school, and I was busier and harder. At this time, my mother was also busier, because the country implemented reform and opening up, and the land was contracted to the household. The whole family goes into battle to farm, and the mother is only one person who does it, sweating on sunny days and mud on rainy days. I couldn't bear it, so I came back every Sunday to help my mother with her work. Farm work inevitably delays my homework, so I have to use my evenings to do my homework. After a tiring day during the day, I am exhausted, and often fall asleep after finishing less than half of my homework. My mother felt sorry for me and told me not to go home every Sunday and to stay at school to do my homework and review my homework. Am I not sorry for my mother? He said, "What is the work of one man?" Everyone is working together as a family, and you are the only one in our family, and I won't help you do a little more, how long will you do it? Don't miss the farming time and the crops? How can your body stand it? What should I do if I am tired and sick? "My mother got angry and scolded me for being disobedient and not doing my job. "The harvest is delayed, but it is only a season; You've missed your homework, but it's a lifetime event! I'd rather delay the crops than let you delay your homework! If you really feel sorry for me, just study every homework well, take the first place in the class, and be admitted to university in the future! That way, you have a good future, and I will have something to rely on when I am old. If you don't study your homework well and can't get into college, no matter how idle I am, I'll be distressed to death! Remorse is dead! I'd rather work a little more than die of distress and regret! "I understood my mother, so I had to stay in school and study hard all the time, according to my mother's words, strive to be the first in the class in every homework, graduate from high school, and successfully enter university. Maybe only in this way can it conform to the mother's heart and wishes, and only then can I really feel sorry for my mother and honor my mother. For my sake, my mother gave up love, even disregarding her body and life; For the sake of my mother, I can only study hard to fulfill her wishes.
In the usual farm work, my mother can barely get through the morning and be greedy for night; However, the wheat harvest was too busy to do it, the weather was hot, and the farm work was heavy and urgent, and once he fainted in the wheat field. When I heard the news, I was so heartbroken that I could no longer study with peace of mind, so I returned home overnight, knelt down and begged my mother to let me come back to help harvest the wheat, saying that I would go back to school as soon as I finished harvesting the wheat. My mother still firmly disagreed, and she would rather work alone overnight and for a few more days, rather than let me delay my homework to help her. I knew my mother's temper and understood my mother's intentions, so I had to cry all the way back to school. This incident made me understand my mother's heart even more: if I delay my homework, if I don't study hard, if I don't do well in my studies, if I graduate from high school, and I can't get into college, my mother will be ten times sadter than my body and sick, ten or a hundred times! Since then, I have devoted all my heart to studying, day and night, diligent and hard, and dare not slack off.
Life is good, others are busy building new houses, putting furniture, making new clothes, and the home and body have a new look and a new atmosphere. My mother still has the same old house, old clothes and old furniture, except for the more food she has hoarded, there is almost no change in the rest. She sold the surplus food and saved up the money yuan by dollar, buying me study materials, nutritional products, and new clothes. Only from me can I see the signs of reform and opening up that the peasants have become rich. I really couldn't bear my mother to work so myself, so I secretly saved my living expenses and bought my mother a moon-white shirt. I was so happy that I went home on Sunday and gave it to my mother, thinking that I would be praised by my mother, and I didn't want to be scolded by my mother. My mother scolded me for spending money indiscriminately, worrying about it, wasting it in vain, and delaying my studies. I understand my mother's painstaking efforts, so I don't feel humiliated or sad. My mother cherished this really good shirt very much, and she was usually reluctant to wear it, so she only wore it once when she came to school to deliver things and visit me, and quickly took it off when she got home, washed it, and put it away. I know that my mother doesn't buy new clothes for me, and she wears new clothes for me. It's just that I don't dare to save my living expenses to buy things for my mother in the future, because it will make my mother sad and sad, thinking that I am wasting time and not feeling at ease to study. I can only study hard wholeheartedly, report to my mother with excellent academic performance, and repay my mother.