In ancient times, there was a story about sending charcoal in the snow: on a snowy night, a life-saving charcoal fire was sent to people for warmth. Each of us will have difficulties, and we all want help from others. When others need our help, we must have the courage to lend a helping hand and help others solve their urgent needs, so as to build a good credit for ourselves.

In everyday life, many accidental things will determine your fate, such as your ability to help others when they are in the most difficult times. In fact, life has always interpreted a truth: to help others is to help yourself. At the end of the 20th century, there was an upsurge of immigration in the United States. A lawyer named Jerry set up a law firm in a small town of immigrants to handle all kinds of immigration matters.

In the beginning, he was so embarrassed that he couldn't even afford a photocopier. But he was busy all day long, using his power to help immigrants in need.

It was through his diligence and sincere service that Jerry began to make his law firm famous, and wealth followed.

Just as Jerry's career was booming, he invested all his assets in stocks in a flash, and ended up losing almost all of them.

Unfortunately, the revision of U.S. immigration law led to a significant decrease in the number of immigrants compared to the past, and Jerry's law firm business gradually declined, and finally went bankrupt. Just when Jerry was desperate, he received a letter from the president of the company, saying that he would give 1/3 of the company's shares to Jerry.

The moment Jerry first saw the letter, he couldn't believe his eyes, was it true? Is God really having mercy on me? Who is this man? Jerry decided to pay a visit to the president.

It turned out that the president was a Jew in his 50s. "Do you still know me?" The president asked Jerry with a smile. Jerry looked at it and shook his head, racking his brains to remember when he had seen him.

At this time, I saw the president take out a crumpled train ticket and a business card with Jerry's name and address written on it from the drawer, and the president continued: "20 years ago, when I first came to the United States, I was going to go to a small town, but when it was time for me to buy a train ticket, I found that my wallet was missing, but at this time, you came up from the back to help me buy a ticket. At that time, I insisted on leaving your name and address so that I could return the ticket money later, and you gave me this business card. Jerry slowly remembered the incident, and he asked, "What happened later?" ”

"It wasn't long before I got a foothold in a company and then opened my own. At that time, I went through many hardships in my work and life in the United States, and it was your help that changed my attitude towards life. "A person with good intentions deserves to be rewarded, and this reward is precisely because Jerry planted the good cause in the first place. Let's imagine if Jerry hadn't given $5 to help this Jew, how could he have received so much in the end?

Sometimes, people regard profit as more important than life, and some people are even able to fall into the well and watch other people's jokes for their own interests. But we need to know that the world is impermanent, no one knows who you will need help in the future, maybe when others are in trouble, you can reach out and help, maybe it will bring a turning point in your life.

In fact, in interpersonal communication, especially when others need help, you must take the initiative to care for others, and you will accumulate popularity. Because popularity is wealth, the most basic purpose of interpersonal communication is to get friends and accumulate popularity. Asking for help is passive, but if someone owes you a favor, it will naturally be easy to ask someone to do something, and someone will take the initiative to help you without even asking.