There was a horse pulling a cart forward, and because the road was uneven, it was very difficult to walk, and the wheels creaked. After some distance the wheel began to complain, the horse rebuked it, saying, "I am the one who pulls the cart, why do you complain?" "In fact, in life, many people are accustomed to complaining about various difficulties. Such a person does not try to find a way to solve the problem, he will only vent his dissatisfaction, and it will also affect the emotions of the people around him, because no one likes someone who complains. Zhou Bing is an employee of a company, and her living conditions were originally very good, but she had a very bad problem that she loved to complain.

Once, she quarreled with her husband at home and became unhappy. When it was time to go to work, he still remembered this matter, so he began to complain to his colleagues about how mediocre and lazy his husband was, and why he didn't think about it before getting married.

At that time, a colleague couldn't stand it anymore, so he said to her: "You even complain about people like your husband, wouldn't you complain even more if you changed to someone else?" You didn't see Xiao Li in our sales department quarreling with her husband every day, and she didn't go home for three days, if you met such a husband, it is estimated that you would have collapsed long ago. Don't you think people are good? So be content. Zhou Bing had nothing to say after hearing this, but he was still indignantly unconvinced.

Zhou Bing is not only dissatisfied with his family, but also likes to be picky about his work. Whenever a leader assigns a task, as long as she does a little more, she will complain non-stop.

Therefore, everyone will choose to avoid her as much as possible when they are working, so as not to get into trouble, and after a long time, Zhou Bing will be very isolated at work. However, instead of reflecting on her own faults, she continued to complain that her colleagues were not easy to get along with, and in the end she had to find another job. The most popular thing a complainant does is to put the blame on others, but he doesn't take the slightest responsibility, as if the whole world is at a loss to him. There are actually a lot of such people in life, and whoever stays by his side will be left behind. Zhu Yan is the new editor of the newspaper, and as a newcomer, she is mainly responsible for interviewing some current affairs news figures and writing their reports. Zhu Yan is very enthusiastic about this job, and is very active in business trips and interviews.

Once, Zhu Yan went to a rural area to interview an elderly man who had been abused because of his children's unfilial piety. The interview process went very smoothly, and Zhu Yan also got detailed information about the old man's life, and then the photography editor took another photo, and they returned to the company.

Zhu Yan spent the night rushing to produce this news report, which is ready to be published in the newspaper in the near future. At this time, she went to the photography editor to ask for a photo, and the photography editor sent her the photo. But unexpectedly, after seeing the photo, Zhu Yan immediately began to complain: "How do you take photos from this background?" Your photo doesn't reflect the background of the abuse of the elderly, how can you impress the reader? After hearing this, the photography editor quickly retorted: "Didn't you ask me to take photos in this place?" Why is it on my head now? Zhu Yan didn't listen to the photo editor's explanation, and was very depressed because she thought that the photo editor had messed up the photo.

In fact, there are many similar things at work. Whenever someone goes out for an interview with Zhu Yan, she can find fault with others.

In the end, my colleagues all went to the director to reflect: "Don't send me and Zhu Yan on a business trip." can't fall at all, you can only make a difference. You'd better send someone else. Later, Zhu Yan was severely criticized by the leader, and was also sent to work in other departments, because now the people in the department have been offended by Zhu Yan. Whether in life or at work, there is no such thing as absolute fairness. People who love to complain are based on absolute fairness in everything, so life is very painful. However, those who are positive and optimistic can look at the trials of life with a normal mindset, and no matter what kind of things they encounter, they can use the best way to deal with them. Such a person, whether a colleague or a friend, will naturally like him very much.

People who like to complain have fewer and fewer friends, and in the end they can only become alone. And a person who does not complain is welcomed anywhere, and people are willing to get along with such a person and are willing to cooperate with him. Only those who do not complain can win super popularity and win success in their careers.