Suffering losses will make you more open-minded and generous in the eyes of your friends, and will allow you to gain deeper friendship, which will naturally make more friends more willing to help you and do things for you.

However, it is also necessary to pay attention to methods and skills, and losses cannot be eaten indiscriminately, and some people go to suffer losses and suffer dark losses in order to settle things, and as a result, they have become "dumb people who eat Coptis chinensis, and there are words of suffering".

Sun Quan was like this, in order to get back to Jingzhou, he pretended to let his sister marry Liu Bei, but in the end, under Zhuge Liang's ingenious arrangement, Sun Quan not only lost his sister, but also folded his soldiers, Jingzhou was still in the hands of others, and this loss was obviously not worth it.

"Suffering losses is blessings", and those who suffer losses do not want their interests to be lost in vain, but hope to exchange "losses" for "blessings".

Of course, as for what "fu" is, each of us may have different opinions. Therefore, exchanging temporary losses for long-term benefits is the real sense of "suffering losses is blessings". Otherwise, you will suffer a stupid loss. Because of this, there is also a saying called "Suffering in the clear is a blessing", clearly suffer losses, let the key person know that you are actively suffering, he will recognize your loss, and even thank you for your loss, you can exchange for the gratitude of others. In ancient times, Li Lang, Wang Lang and Gao Lang lived in the same house. One day, Gao Lang went home and mistakenly took Wang Lang's gold. As a result, Wang Lang suspected that Li Lang took it, and Li Lang hurriedly apologized to him and returned the gold to him.

Later, when Gao Lang came back, he returned the gold to Wang Lang and explained what happened, and Wang Lang felt very ashamed at this time. Since then, both of them have regarded Li Lang as a kind and sincere friend. In fact, suffering a loss is not a good thing, but the consequences of suffering a loss are not necessarily a bad thing. Li Lang's actions allowed him to gain a loyal friendship between the two.

From another point of view, Li Lang's approach is also very worthwhile, if Gao Lang who took the gold does not return it, Wang Lang confirms that Li Lang took it, and Li Lang pays him back, after a long time, Wang Lang will forget about it, the two are still friends, and the most afraid is that Li Lang and Wang Lang quarrel over the matter of taking gold. Because we should understand that before the gold is returned, the more justified it is, the worse it will be, and perhaps both of them will turn against each other and end their friendship because of this. Therefore, it is very reasonable for some people to say that "suffering losses is blessings".