Good friends also need to settle accounts

If we want to interact with people, then we can't avoid getting involved in interests, especially when talking about money with good friends, this situation is also inevitable. Good friends always feel a little sorry for that feeling when they talk about money, but they are unwilling to suffer in their hearts. Therefore, it is better to settle accounts with brothers, if you are in the way, then you can only suffer in the end. Just a few years ago, Mr. Li, who came to Beijing from the Northeast to do business, met a very good friend Jia in Beijing, but Mr. Li did not expect that in the end, he was cheated by this friend.

It turned out that Jia had swallowed the project money alone, and a pair of good friends also turned against each other. Every time Mr. Li mentioned it, he would be very angry and say: "Now good friends also have to settle accounts, and if they have business dealings, they must have certificates, otherwise they will suffer dumb losses like me." ”

When Mr. Li first arrived in Beijing, he met Jia at a business fair, and the two became good friends. Jia went to the sea for work reasons and started a business of contracting decoration projects. It happened to be related to Mr. Li's construction materials business, and as a result, they often had business dealings.

In 2005, after Mr. Jia got a business, he found Mr. Li and asked Mr. Li to find more than 20 workers to help him. Finding workers was not a difficult task for Mr. Li, so he readily agreed.

The renovation was carried out for nearly a month, and after the completion of the project, the renovation party also paid the workers, but none of the wages fell into the hands of the workers.

The workers were found by Mr. Li, so the workers all asked Mr. Li for wages. At this time, Mr. Li suddenly wondered: It shouldn't be like this, everyone is friends, he won't swallow the workers' money himself, right?

So Mr. Li found Jia and wanted to get his salary back, but Jia always shirked it, and even said to Mr. Li later: "Don't mention this matter to me again in the future." ”

Since the two of them did not sign any contract at the beginning, and could not produce evidence, Mr. Li had no choice but to pay his own wages and distribute them to the workers.

At that time, it was because Mr. Li believed his friend's words and believed that his friend would not lie to him, and he was finally deceived by Jia. It can be seen that it is better for good friends to settle accounts clearly, so as not to suffer losses and not be good. In fact, when many people start a business, they will start a business together with one or two friends because of lack of funds or experience.

But with the continuous development of the career and the increasing interests, there will be more and more calculations between friends. The unclear division of labor at the beginning and the unequal interests later will cause conflicts between friends, and even break down the friendship for many years, making friends enemies. Song Hua planned to start a business after graduating from university, but because she felt alone, she found her best friend Chen Lan, and in this way, the two opened a bookstore next to the university together.

When the bookstore first opened, because Song Hua and Chen Lan were inseparable from each other, they did not clarify each other's specific work. Because their thinking is that since this is their own business, it doesn't matter who pays a little more.

However, when the bookstore officially opened, the two best friends who used to be inseparable from each other often quarreled over trivial matters. Once, because the prices of several sets of books that Chen Lan bought from the market were too expensive, the two actually quarreled.

Soon, Song Hua could only come to the store once in a few days because of the renovation of the house at home. At the beginning, Chen Lan felt that it was no big deal, they were all friends anyway, and it didn't matter if she did more or less, not to mention that she couldn't do without people in her home now. But after a month passed, Chen Lan slowly felt as if taking care of the store was just her business, and she felt that she was a little at a loss.

When Song Hua returned to the store after the renovation, she found that Chen Lan had changed many things that everyone had agreed on before according to her wishes, which made Song Hua feel uncomfortable. Song Hua felt that the bookstore in which he owned half of the shares was manipulated by Chen Lan alone, so he began to feel dissatisfied, and the inner contradiction between the two deepened.

Soon after, Song Hua proposed to Chen Lan to withdraw his shares and withdraw his capital. Chen Lan was even more furious when she heard that she was going to withdraw her investment, and this time the quarrel between the two people told all their dissatisfaction with each other. Song Hua finally withdrew his investment, and for this reason, the friendship between the two people for many years has never returned. The so-called brothers settle accounts clearly, and the most taboo thing about partnership between good friends is that their responsibilities are not clear. Many things between friends are difficult to care about, but in the face of interests, sometimes friendships are really fragile and can easily break down.

Friends still have to settle accounts clearly, which will not hinder your friendship, on the contrary, it will make you clean and clean, less troubles of innocence, and the relationship between the two parties will continue to deepen.