In the process of interacting with others, the closeness and goodwill between people is actually determined by whether they can respect each other. If you treat others as friends, then they will treat you as friends. If you respect each other, the other party will respect you.

In life, don't tear up the face between friends because of some trivial things. In terms of human needs, a normal person needs the respect and respect of others. It is impossible for each of us to live alone, we all need the friendship of friends, and the acquisition of friendship and friends is based on respect for others.

Mutual respect between people plays a very important role in the interaction of human society. There are many examples in history where you have achieved great things for yourself because of respect for others and the use of their talents. During the Warring States Period, the Wei general Pang Juan framed Sun Bin because he was jealous of his talents, and finally dug out Sun Bin's two kneecaps, causing Sun Bin to be unable to walk.

The king of Qi knew that Sun Bin was a very talented person, so he sent someone to secretly take Sun Bin back to Qi and worship Sun Bin as a military advisor. King Qi respected Sun Bin's talent and did not look down on him because he was a disabled person.

When Wei attacked Zhao, Zhao asked Qi for help. King Qi Feng Tian Ji was the general, and Sun Bin was the military advisor, and sent troops to rescue the Zhao State.

As a result, Tian Ji directly attacked the capital of Wei according to Sun Bin's strategy, causing Wei to have to withdraw his troops to protect himself, which is the famous story of "besieging Wei to save Zhao" in history.

Later, Sun Bin used the method of reducing the focus to induce Pang Juan to be defeated and die after the plan, which made the reputation of the Qi country greater. If the King of Qi did not respect Sun Bin, then Sun Bin's wisdom would not be brought into full play, and it would be impossible to achieve the great cause of the King of Qi. In fact, respect for others is a virtue, and in daily life, people need to deal with others, and it is particularly important to respect and understand others. Li Cheng and Zhang Tao are both employees who have just joined the work. Li Cheng is a lively and informal person, while Zhang Tao is a careful and gentle person.

In the first period of time in the new unit, everyone liked the two of them very much and was eager to help them. But gradually, things changed.

Li Cheng felt that everyone had become less fond of talking to him, but Zhang Tao didn't seem to have this kind of trouble. Why? It turns out that the problem lies in every detail of his usual interactions with people.

Especially when young colleagues are chatting together, they usually talk about where there is something delicious, but without waiting for others to finish, Li Cheng will always be eager to suddenly interject: "How can it be so delicious!" The last time I ate it, I didn't think it tasted good at all. Or, "Yes, yes, I've eaten." "It's obviously very disrespectful to interrupt the other person in the middle of the conversation. Zhang Tao, on the other hand, will wait for his colleague to finish speaking before expressing his opinion.

When talking to colleagues, Li Cheng is always idle, often doing some small actions: manicure, yawning, etc. Zhang Tao, on the other hand, listens quietly and sometimes comments, and never does his own thing when he listens to his colleagues.

At the beginning of each month, the unit has a regular meeting, and everyone has to present their work plan at the discussion meeting. When other colleagues' proposals were not finished, if Li Cheng found a problem, he would immediately stand up and ask questions, which made the colleagues who spoke very annoyed.

Especially in a discussion meeting, my colleague Xiao Wang had just finished halfway through the explanation, and Li Chengcheng found that there was a lack of rigor in his plan, so he immediately stood up and said: "I don't think you can do this place." ”

In fact, everyone had already seen this flaw at that time, but Xiao Wang was very annoyed that his explanation was interrupted, so he unceremoniously refuted Li Cheng. The two argued, and finally settled under the persuasion of their colleagues.

Although everyone knows that Li Cheng's character is not bad, he just doesn't respect others and always likes to interrupt other people's conversations, so everyone is reluctant to make friends with him. Of course, there is no perfect person in this world, and people will always make some mistakes. Don't just talk about others, but also measure yourself. When you casually expose someone else's scars, what would you think if they treated you the same way?

Mencius once said, "Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them. "If a person can understand and respect others well in the process of interacting with others, then he will also be understood and respected by others.

Respect is a university question. To respect others is to respect oneself. Respect for others is not only an attitude towards others, but also a noble moral character, because it can resolve conflicts between people and enhance friendship between people.