At the banquet, everyone raises their glasses and drinks, but since everyone has a certain amount of alcohol, it is beneficial and harmless to drink in moderation. Therefore, in the face of the other party's kind persuasion, we still need to skillfully refuse. Successful refusal of alcohol will not only save yourself from stomach pain, but also will not make the other party feel that you do not give face, let alone hurt the harmony and bad things.

●Use physical health as a shield

Everyone knows that drinking is for the sake of communicating emotions and for the pleasure of body and mind. If you drink alcohol for the sake of drinking, so that you toss and damage your body and health, it is obviously because of a small loss, which no one wants to see. Therefore, we can refuse the other party's persuasion on the grounds that we are not feeling well or suffering from some kind of disease that is taboo (such as bad liver, high blood pressure, heart disease, etc.), so that the other party will not be able to force it anymore.

Zhang Dong attended a banquet, and his friend Wang Qiang hadn't met him for a long time, and offered to have three drinks with him. Zhang Dongdao said: "I have received your kindness, but unfortunately I have been unwell for a while and am taking medicine, and I have not been drinking for a long time, so I have to ask you to take more care." Fortunately, the coming day is long, and there will be a period later, and I will definitely get drunk with you in the future, okay? As soon as this remark came out, everyone praised it, and Wang Qiang had no choice but to accept it.

●Mention the consequences of excessive drinking

Of course, drinking should be good and not drunk, so that guests can come and return happy. In the final analysis, the kind of persuasion that ignores reality is only for the purpose of drinking people down, which can only be said to be a low-level and interesting persuasion technique at best, and it is a taboo in persuasion. As the person being advised, when more than half of the alcohol is drunk, the situation should be explained to the host or the person who advised the drinker. For example: "Thank you for your hospitality to me, I originally only had three taels of wine, but today because I drank extraordinarily satisfactorily, I was greedy for a few more glasses, and it would be 'wrong' to drink again, and I hope you can understand." "After this exculpation, don't drink it again. This kind of refusal to drink that really explains the consequences and hidden dangers, as long as the drinker understands the truth of "happiness produces sorrow", the empathetic person will accept it when he sees it.

●On the grounds that the family does not agree

Generally speaking, refusing to drink on the grounds of your lover's prohibition is often easy to make the other person think that you are making excuses to shirk, because he can't imagine how serious the problem is for you. Therefore, you must speak truthfully and vividly when refusing to drink, and show the consequences of not listening to the "ban", so that the other party feels that letting you drink is really tantamount to harming you, and he will stop persuading him to drink. It can be said that telling the truth and credibility of the reasons is the key to using this method to refuse alcohol. You can say, "My lover turns her face at me when she smells me full of alcohol." I don't lie to you, so if you really think about me, then we'll replace the bar with tea. In this way, the other party will have nothing to say.

● Find fault with the other party's advice to drink

When the other party persuades you to drink, you have to find a reason, and this reason is sometimes unreliable. In particular, some people who are not very clever in their advice often have many loopholes to catch. Seize these loopholes, analyze the reasoning, and finally prove that it is not you who should drink, but the other party, or someone else, and in the end, it will not be done. As long as this loophole is accurately grasped and analyzed is reasonable, then the other party has nothing to say and has no choice but to give up this difficult "work object".

At a gathering of friends, someone persuaded Zhang Hua to drink: "'Mr. Zhang', there are only two of us surnamed Zhang at this table, and the same surname was one family 500 years ago, it seems that we are fate, this glass of wine should be killed!" At this time, Zhang Hua seized on his omission and refused to drink: "Oh, I really want to drink this glass of wine with you, but I'm really sorry, you may be mistaken, my 'Zhang' is 'Lizao Zhang', not 'Gong Changzhang', so I don't know if these two surnames with different homophones were also the same family 500 years ago." So, I don't like your glass of wine. If the other party's reason is not valid, he can no longer persuade Zhang Hua to drink.