Have a "restless" heart
Always let your heart burn with a fighting spirit, and don't easily deny your own value. Man has come into this world to walk the way God has given us. It's a kind of luck, isn't it? Whether it is full of thorns or flowers, we all come to this world in the same way. Breathe together, watch the sunrise and sunset together. The big people have the pursuit of the big people, and the little people have the yearning of the little people. And no matter what kind of person you are, you should not doubt your self-worth.
In fact, sometimes, it is not bad to have eyes above the top, because people with eyes above the top will have more fighting spirit. Of course, the eye above the top here does not mean to treat others with an arrogant attitude, but to advocate that people should have lofty pursuits. Everyone wants to have a happy ending, and once they are satisfied, they often lose the motivation to struggle. From this point of view, there is always some restless turmoil in the bottom of my heart, and I will save myself a little passion for moving towards greater ambitions.
There is a piece of heaven above everyone's head and a piece of ground under their feet. If you want to be high, you must always pursue higher aspirations. Volunteering comes from dissatisfaction. At the beginning, there is a dream, and then it is brave to face it, work hard to achieve it, and fill the gap between the current situation and the dream. When people live, they should recognize who they are now and what they want to be in the future. Set yourself a feasible and ambitious goal to motivate yourself to grasp every step of your life and move towards a higher goal step by step.
As the saying goes, "I'd rather be the head of the chicken than the queen of the cow", which is to inspire people to create a world of their own. In fact, this is also a strong sense of autonomy that is not willing to be controlled by others. This kind of self-consciousness embodies a strong enterprising spirit that refuses to be resigned to being left behind, and is also a concrete embodiment of a person's superhuman courage to dare to take risks and open up. This sense of autonomy is also an indispensable quality for a person who is likely to achieve great things. Hu Xueyan, a red-roofed businessman, had a poor father when he was a child, and he became an apprentice in Qianzhuang since he was a child, starting from sweeping the floor and emptying the potty. Because he was diligent and intelligent, he stayed up to the end of his master's degree, and became a partner of Shinho, specializing in running the street to collect debts. Hu Xueyan, who was only in his twenties at the time, was really a little bold and reckless, and even took it upon himself to embezzle money from the money to fund the down-and-out Wang Youling to enter Beijing to donate officials. Not only did he lose his job in Shinwa, but because of this, he also "ruined" his reputation among his peers, and no money dealer dared to hire him, and finally fell to the point of making a living by doing odd jobs.
Fortunately, there is no endless road, Wang Youling got Hu Xueyan to sponsor him to donate to Beijing, everything went well, and when he returned to Hangzhou, he soon got the fat shortage of Zhejiang Shipping Bureau. Wang Youling knew that he wanted to report his kindness, and as soon as he returned to Hangzhou, he went around to find Hu Xueyan's whereabouts, even if his strength was limited, he had to try his best to help him.
Reunion with Wang Youling, because of the natural elimination of the "notoriety" left by Wang Youling, Hu Xueyan at this time has at least two choices that are quite good in the eyes of ordinary people: one is to stay by Wang Youling's side to help Wang Youling, and Wang Youling really needs a helper at this time, and he especially hopes that Hu Xueyan can stay in the yamen to help him. According to Wang Youling's idea, when the time is right, Hu Xueyan himself can also donate a fame, and with his ability, there will definitely be a time for Tengda. Hu Xueyan's other choice is to reply to the letter and money village where he has been a buddy, with his conditions at this time, the reply letter and will be reused, in fact, after receiving Wang Youling's arrangement to return 500 taels of silver, he has already prepared to pull Hu Xueyan back and give up his position. He found Hu Xueyan's home, begged Hu Xueyan to return to Xinhe, and even brought him all the salary during Hu Xueyan's departure from Xinhe.
Hu Xueyan did not take either road. Mixing in officialdom is not Hu Xueyan's interest, of course he will not take this road, and he will naturally not shirk to help Wang Youling, but in the end he still has to do his own career. And back to Xinhe, that is, Hu Xueyan said "back to soup tofu", he naturally won't do it. In fact, this is not just a matter of "good horses don't eat back grass", the key is that no matter how good this "back soup tofu" is, it can only be done until "everyone", after all, it is just a "second boss", and you can't make your own decisions about everything.
"If you can't be your own master, what kind of hero is you?" What Hu Xueyan wants is to make his own decisions. So as soon as he got started, he was going to open his own money bank - the fact is that Hu Xueyan at this time didn't even have the capital of one or two silver, he just expected that Wang Youling would also go out to the state and county, with his own plan, now there is a few thousand taels of silver to support the shelf of the bank, and then he can act as an agent for the treasury to exchange money, with his ability, he will be able to develop. This is the spirit, a strong desire to stand on its own in the shopping mall, to open up the territory, to gallop one side.
This strong sense of autonomy is the basis for Hu Xueyan to continue to develop his career. If a person has never thought of setting up his own business, he can only stand still forever, or rather, follow others to do a little business.
In fact, in life, many people are not without ideas, but lack courage and self-confidence. When they reach a certain age, they dare not accept change, and it is better to admit that they do not have the courage to face the setbacks and challenges that the new environment may bring. These people will only end up with nothing! It is said that a frog squatted on a duckweed in a pond near the volcano every day, and it was so used to it that it didn't even bother to jump to catch the flying insects in front of it. When the other friends in the pond found another "wonderful place" and went to it, it still held its head high and even laughed at them. Fortunately, this frog has developed the "long-tongued stunt" and can catch flying insects with little to no movement.
Finally, one day, the volcano erupted, and the water in the pond was boiled, and the boiling water touched the frog's feet, but it remained motionless. In the end, the frog had to be burned alive. The sad thing about the frog is that it clings to its own inertia and ends up losing its life because of "peace". In fact, it is not difficult to escape, it only needs to jump lightly, and it is enough to avoid this doom.
Many times, why don't we look like this frog? We cling to the same life, so that we form a habitual thinking, only know how to be content with the status quo, and never change easily, and even our own lives come to a standstill, gradually being eliminated by society.
In an era of rapid progress and fierce competition, if you are too satisfied with the status quo, you will lose opportunities, lose your ability to compete, and thus lose the possibility of success. Therefore, people should not stay in the comfortable and dangerous status quo all the time, and must have the courage to break through themselves, only in this way can they succeed.
There is no doubt that we all want to have a broad stage in life, but we must first be clear about what kind of stage we want. If a person lives without ambition, the most prominent manifestation is that he has no purpose in life. Without a goal is like walking on a dark road, not knowing where you are going. And the so-called goal is the height that you expect from your future achievements and are sure that you can reach it. Purpose brings us hope and stimulates us to forge ahead. Of course, there may be setbacks in the process of working hard to achieve the goal, but it is still necessary to be firm in faith and spirit.
If individuals lack orientation towards values, they often become suspicious and dissatisfied with existing social values, unable to believe in the meaning of life, and lose themselves. When everyone reaches old age, they will reflect on their past life, integrate the previous life course, and evaluate whether their life is meaningful and valuable, and whether they have achieved their dream goals. If you think that you have a unique and valuable life, you will feel that your life is perfect, that you will die without regrets, and that you will be able to face death without fear because of the transcendent wisdom that comes from experience. On the contrary, if you deny the value of your life, you will regret your past failures and be full of pessimism and despair for the rest of your life. Therefore, don't doubt yourself, and don't deny yourself! Because, no matter what, there is only one you in the world and you are unique. "The three armies can win the commandery, but the horsemen cannot win the ambition." It's not terrible for others to deny you, and you should never deny yourself. "Everyone can be Yao Shun", if Yao and Shun are understood as masters who can understand the laws of the universe, then these words can be understood as everyone is equal in front of the truth, and everyone can create!