Unwilling to be lonely in life needs magnificent momentum, the strong have their own "I can", "I can", "who else I am" ambition, courage and domineering, so give up the "I don't matter" weak psychology, there will be the future "will be the top, a glance at the mountains". No matter what our circumstances may be, we must never look at our lives through the eyes of the world.

In his book "Wish You Had More Foresight in Your Character," Pyrux says, "A successful character must first overcome the two weaknesses of short-sightedness and blindness, because they are both formed by a lack of self-confidence." "We should realize that people cannot have smooth sailing in their lives, and they will always face setbacks, which requires us to overcome the short-term vision of focusing on immediate interests in the most difficult times, to have a long-term vision, and to set a good position for ourselves, which is a prerequisite for ensuring success.

If a person lacks confidence in his own abilities, even if he is mixed with modesty, he will not be able to achieve real success, let alone true happiness. Because sound self-confidence is often the key to success. Dreams are the privilege and nature of human beings, and successful people will spread the wings of their dreams and set their goals to fly into an attractive future.

When we were young, each of us was like a kitty eagle, and we had the magnificent dream of soaring in the sky and swimming freely. Interestingly, these great dreams often shrink or even shatter in the words of "don't be stupid" and "impossible" from relatives and friends around them. Among them, this disillusionment is also directly related to a weakness in your personality, that is, you have given up your vision because of others, and you may begin to be short-sighted and greedy for small profits.

How can you get a character that is not short-sighted but confident? Imagine the answer to your question, imagine that you are climbing over the mountain in your heart, imagine that you are crossing the finish line. On the surface, these assumptions may seem unrealistic, but they often increase your stamina and make you persevere, moving forward towards your ideals.

Successful people should have the personality to not let our dreams be extinguished by a few cold words from others. To rest on your laurels will only deprive you of the energy to achieve more. As long as you see far enough, you will definitely be able to really fly. Therefore, you should incorporate your own opinions into your personality and be confident that you can make a difference in the future, so that you can give up small favors. Otherwise, you won't be able to achieve great things, it's all because of your character weaknesses that restrict you! When Tan Dun was at the Central Conservatory of Music, he was known as one of the "Four Great Talents", and that year, he went to Colombia to study. In order to survive when he first arrived in a foreign land, Tan Dun could only choose to make a living as a street performer. Luckily, he befriended a black luthier, and the two worked together to occupy a piece of land in front of a commercial bank.

After accumulating a certain amount of money, Tan Dun decided to leave the black pianist and devote himself to Columbia University, the temple of art he had longed for for a long time. Here, he studied music with David Dowski and Mr. Zhou Wenzhong. Being in a school, of course, he can't make money by performing like he did on the street, and Tan Dun's life is gradually becoming poor. However, at this time, he had already entered a higher realm, and his gaze went beyond the material and into the distance......

Later, with the help of his mentors and friends, Tan Dun successfully held a solo concert in the United States, becoming the first Chinese musician to hold a solo concert in the United States. Later, Tan Dun broke into the international music hall with the song "Nine Songs", and continued to innovate, and gradually established his status as an "internationally famous composer" with his amazing musical works......

After Tan Dun became famous, once, when he passed by the place where he used to perform, he was surprised to find that the black luthier was still there! Ten years later, the black luthier's face was still full of satisfaction. Tan Dun stepped forward to talk to him, and the pianist asked Tan Dun about his current "place of work", and he simply replied to a very well-known concert hall, but he didn't want the other party to say: "That place is also good, you can make a lot of money." How would a black pianist know that Tan Dun has already become a world-renowned composer. The reason why Tan Dun has achieved what he is today is that he has always cherished the idea of becoming a musician, he has not positioned himself as a "performer", and he knows very well that he must not rely on "selling" to complete his life journey. On the contrary, the black luthier always decided that he was just a "street musician."

Throughout the ages, a large number of examples are enough to prove that an idea, a positioning, to a large extent, can change a person's life.

There is no doubt that everyone has had "pride" in their hearts, and they have all thought that one day they will get ahead and be majestic, but why are only a few people able to achieve their dreams? Fundamentally, it is because the "pride" of these people is stronger than that of ordinary people, and they know how to drive their "pride".

Many people in life do not have dreams, but do not have enough self-confidence and pride. Confidence is a psychology that feels like the world is believing because you have a certain belief. Only when a person is confident will he be more likely to act.

On the other hand, if a person is always self-deprecating, he will gradually become what he is despised. If a person has no faith in himself, then he is destined to be in the company of metrics; If a person doubts his abilities, then he will never succeed.

When a person reaches a certain age, if he still lacks basic and moderate confidence in himself, he will not be able to have the qualities of fortitude and fearlessness in life, and he will not be able to pursue his goals with passion and fighting spirit. Such a person is destined to do nothing, and his life will even be difficult, so how can he achieve a career?

Mozi, a famous thinker and educator during the Warring States Period, told his younger generations that "those who are not strong in ambition are not wise enough." How much a person can achieve in life depends to a large extent on the "pride" and "self-confidence" in his heart. If we want to "spread our wings and ride the wind", we must have the confidence and pride of "soaring up to 90,000 miles" in our hearts, so that our hearts are stirred with eternal fighting spirit and passion, and continue to soar towards the sky.

Confidence and pride are like the engines of an airplane, except that most people's engines are still flamed out, and once the engines are turned on and piloted correctly, you will quickly soar into the sky.