A moment of frustration does not mean a lifetime of frustration

We all live in our own hopes, and if there is anyone who lives hopelessly, then it can only be said that they are a walking corpse. In real life, many people are very psychologically fragile, and once they encounter setbacks or failures, they will feel helpless and hopeless, and even lose the courage to live. In fact, as long as we can hold on to hope in the face of adversity, most of us will be able to see the light of day.

The world is impermanent, and we can encounter difficulties and setbacks at any time. What do you think about sudden difficulties in life? Don't lock yourself in the hardships in front of you, look ahead, and when you can see the future vision of success, you can get out of the situation and achieve the goals of your dreams.

Our life needs to choose, our life needs to transform, every time suffering strikes, in the face of choice and abandonment, we must have enough courage to change ourselves, only in this way can we get a new life, in order to create another brilliance!

Take control of yourself and be your own master. A depressed face, a depressed expression, fearful thoughts, and an anxious attitude are signs of your lack of self-control, a sign of your weakness, and a sign that you can't control your environment. They are your enemies, resolutely reject them! There was a rich man who lost all his money in a big business and was in debt, he sold his house and car and paid off his debts.

At this moment, he was alone, childless, and destitute, with only a beloved hound and a book to rely on him. On a snowy night, he came to a deserted village and found a thatched hut sheltered from the wind. He saw an oil lamp inside, so he lit it with the only remaining match on his body, and took out his book to read. But a gust of wind suddenly blew out the lights, and it was immediately pitch black. The lonely old man was plunged into darkness, so desperate that he even thought of ending his own life. But the hounds standing beside him gave him some comfort, and he sighed helplessly and fell into a deep sleep.

When he woke up the next day, he suddenly found that his beloved hound had also been killed outside the door. Stroking this hunting dog that depended on each other, he suddenly decided that he wanted to end his life, and there was nothing left to be nostalgic for in the world. So, he took one last glance at everything around him. At this moment, he found that the whole village was silent in a terrible silence, and he could not help but hurry forward. Yes! It's horrible! Corpse! There are corpses everywhere! Dog's breakfast. Apparently, the village was ransacked by bandits last night, and not even a single person was left alive.

Seeing this terrible scene, he couldn't help but think about itโ€”ah! I'm the only one alive here, and I'm going to stay strong. At this time, a red sun was rising, illuminating all around, and he thought with relief, I am the only survivor in this world, and I have no reason not to cherish myself. Although I lost my beloved hound, I got life, which is the most precious thing in life.

With firm faith, the old man set off again in the bright sun. There are always times of pride and frustration in life, and temporary pride does not mean permanent pride; In the case of a moment of frustration, if you can't adjust your mentality, it will be difficult to have a moment of pride.

The old man in the story, in a state of frustration and even despair, regains hope and drives away sadness. This cannot but be said to be another major turning point in his life.

When we think of our daily life and learning, when we encounter frustration or sadness, we must also learn to adjust our mentality. If your speech, your exams, and your aspirations have not been successful, if you have ever made mistakes because of recklessness, if you have ever been embarrassed, if you have ever stumbled, if you have been reprimanded and abused...... Then don't dwell on it. Obsessing over these things will not only not help you, but will also take up your happy time. Ditch it! Kick them out of your mind completely. If your reputation has been ruined, don't think you'll never be cleared, go forward with a strong conviction!

Let worry and anxiety, heaviness and selfishness stay away from you; Avoid foolishness, falsehood, error, vanity, and superficiality; Be brave enough to resist the vices that will fail you and the thoughts that will make you fall, and you will be amazed at how easy and free your journey in life is!

Step out of the shadows and bask in the bright sunshine. No matter how painful and stubborn everything in the past was, throw them out of the clouds. Don't let worries, fears, anxieties, and regrets wear down your energy. Put your energy into the creation of the future!

Remember, if the heart is there, the dream is there!