Only by learning to dance with suffering can we see the nature of the source of suffering and understand the inner truth. More importantly, it allows us to learn the lesson.

No one is born destined to be a loser, in the arena of life, whether you can surpass yourself and stand out, the key depends on what kind of attitude you have towards life, the key depends on how you manage your life. Those who only complain about others and do not want to make progress will be doomed to be eliminated.

In fact, there is no obstacle in this world that cannot be overcome, and a moment of frustration does not mean a lifetime of frustration. You know, in this world, there are many people who are far more unfortunate than you! There is a poor salesman who complains every day that he "has no talent" and complains that fate plays tricks on him.

On Christmas Eve, every household is bustling with activity, and everywhere is full of festive atmosphere. He was the only one who sat alone on a park bench and looked back on the past. Last year today, he was also a person, he spent Christmas on alcohol, no new clothes, no new shoes, not to mention a new car, a new house, he felt that he was the loneliest and most unlucky person in the world, and he even had the idea of suicide because of this!

"Alas! Looks like I'm going to be wearing these old shoes for Christmas again this year! As he spoke, he prepared to take off his old shoes. At this time, the "unlucky" salesman suddenly saw a young man sliding in a wheelchair in front of him. He suddenly realized: "How blessed I am to have shoes to wear!" He didn't even get a chance to wear shoes! From then on, the salesman no longer complains about what he does, he cherishes the opportunity, works hard and strives for the top. Years later, the salesman finally changed his life and became a millionaire. Many people are born with disabilities, but they never lose faith in life, never complain, they are self-reliant, indomitable, and ultimately overcome fate. But some people are born with good facial features and complete hands and feet, but they are still complaining about life and complaining about life, in comparison, don't we feel ashamed? Put aside complaining and strive for happiness with actions, you must understand: even if it is an old pair of shoes, it is still warm and comfortable to wear on your feet, because there are still people in this world who do not even have the opportunity to wear shoes!

Of course, it is normal for people to feel uneasy or wavering in their hearts when trouble and suffering arise. When faced with this situation, we must continue to encourage ourselves, muster up courage, and face it with confidence, which is the most correct choice. There was a young man named Lu Ogi who was 20 years old and was paralyzed from the waist down in an accident on a motorcycle. "Paralysis reborn me, everything I used to do had to be learned from scratch, like dressing and eating, these were exercises that required concentration, willpower and patience," Ruorgi later recalled. ”

With an attitude towards life, Ruoji claimed that he used to be just a muddy gas station worker, doing nothing all day, and had no goals in life. After the car accident, he had more fun, he went to college, got a degree in linguistics, worked as a tax consultant, and was also a master of archery and fishing. He emphasized that nowadays, "studying" and "working" are the two happiest things he chooses. Indeed, the most rewarding stage of life is often the most difficult and painful, because it forces you to re-examine and reflect, opens up your inner world for you, and brings you a clearer and more definite direction.

It's hard to stay in control of your life, but over time, experience can help you gather the strength to move more and more freely through life's gambles. Many disasters look back at them after the passage of time, and they will find that they are not as bad as they first appeared, which is the maturity and exercise of life.