In this life, people must experience countless misses. When we lose the beauty that we thought we could get, we will always sigh even more that the road of life is difficult. It doesn't have to be this way, no matter what life misses, we should be committed to making our lives full of brightness and brilliance.

There is a pain in life called missing. Some of the most beautiful and precious things in life are often missed by us, and we always feel regret and pain because we miss the good. In fact, you don't have to get it if you like something, as the saying goes, "What you can't get is always the best." ”

When you're fascinated by a good thing, it's probably wisest to appreciate it from afar, and missing it may bring you unexpected gains.

When we walk through the world in a hurry, can we take in the beautiful scenery along the way? Is it possible to keep all the treasures of the world for yourself? No, it can't be, and even most of the time we miss them a lot. As a result, there is the phrase "regret" in life. Think about it, what can regret leave you? Nothing seems to be good except for a dull pain that is difficult to tell. So, don't let yourself always have this kind of hidden pain, "everything is fate", since you don't have a relationship with it, then let it go! A child was playing in a peaceful place, when a Zen master came and gave the child a piece of candy, and the child was very happy. After a while, the Zen master saw that the child was crying very sadly, so he asked him why he was crying, and the child said, "I threw away the candy." The Zen master thought, "This child is very calm when he has no sugar, happy when he gets it for no reason, and very sad when he loses it." After losing sugar, it should be the same as when you didn't get sugar, so what's so sad! "Yes! Why be sad?

Time will turn possession into loss, and loss into possession. What you had back then may be being lost today; What you didn't get back then may be far worse than what you have today. Sometimes missing out is the starting point for future possession, and sometimes possession is the reason for losing in the future. Harvard University in the United States wants to recruit a student in China, and all the fees for this student are fully covered by the U.S. government. The preliminary examination was over, and 30 students became candidates.

The 10th day after the exam is the day of the interview. 30 students and their parents gathered at the Jinjiang Hotel to wait for the interview. When the examiner, Lawrence King, appeared in the lobby of the hotel, he was immediately surrounded by everyone, who greeted him in fluent English, and some even eagerly introduced themselves. At this time, there was only one student, who didn't have time to surround because he got up a step late, and when he wanted to get close to the examiner, the examiner's surroundings were already impassable, and there was no possibility of interjecting into the void at all.

So he missed the great opportunity to get close to the examiner, and he felt that he might have missed the opportunity, so he was a little disappointed. At this moment, he saw a foreign woman standing in a corner of the hall a little lonely, staring out the window blankly. He wondered: Is she in trouble in a foreign country, I don't know if I can help. So he walked over to her, greeted her politely, introduced himself to her, and finally asked, "Madame, is there anything you need my help with?" The next two had a very speculative conversation.

The student was later selected by Lawrence King, who did not have the best grades out of 30 candidates, and before the interview he missed the best opportunity to get close to the examiner and deepen his impression in the examiner's mind, but he had no intention of getting in the shadows. It turned out that the foreign lady was none other than Lawrence King's wife, and this incident once caused a shock to many people: it turned out that the beauty was missed, and the harvest was not necessarily regretful, and sometimes it could even be fulfillment. In life, you should leave a calmness for yourself, so that you can be calm about things that don't go your way; Go with the flow of fame and fortune. You must know that all the opportunities in the world are not set for you, there are always gains and losses in life, there are successes and failures, and the boat of life is originally up and down between gains and losses! Everyone cherishes the opportunity of beauty, but not all of us can seize it, and the beauty that we miss is not necessarily worth regretting.

Some beauties should not be missed, while others require you to miss them. Once upon a time, a traveler heard that there was a place with a great view, and he decided to find that place at all costs. However, after several years of trekking through mountains and rivers and many hardships, he is quite tired, but his destination is still far away. At this time, an old man pointed out a fork in the road and told him that there were many beautiful places and that there was no need to follow one road to the end. He did as the old man said, and soon he saw many unusually beautiful sights, and he was full of praise, and lingered, glad that he had not blindly sought the beautiful place of his dreams. Life is like this, trekking on the journey of life, our vision is limited, if we are not willing to miss some of the scenery in front of us, then we may miss the more charming scenery ahead, only those who are good at abandoning, will enjoy the real beauty.

Some misses give birth to beauty, and as long as your eyes and heart are always looking, happiness and joy will soon come. It's just that sometimes, it takes courage to miss, and it also requires wisdom.

You don't have to get it to like something. Sometimes, some people go to great lengths to get what they like, and even more so, they may do whatever it takes to the extreme. Maybe he got what he liked after desperately chasing it, but in the process of chasing, what he lost cannot be calculated, and the price he paid should be very heavy, and what he got cannot be compensated.

It's not cost-effective to exhaust yourself physically and mentally just to force something. Besides, once you get something, you may find that it is not as good as you originally imagined. If you find out that what you lost is more precious than what you gained, you will be upset. As the saying goes, "What you can't get is always the best." So when you like something, it's probably not the wisest thing to get, and missing it can be rewarding. In short, life needs a little casualness and casualness, not for the regret of loss, nor for the persistence of longing.

There are many emotions that may only be understood after experiencing them. For example, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself, and after you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. In the process of gaining and losing, we slowly realize ourselves, in fact, life does not need such meaningless attachment, there is nothing that really cannot be given up, learn to give up, life will be easier!

So, when you feel like you're at the most difficult time in your life, don't feel sorry for missing out. The torment of loss will bring you unexpected gains. Although the flowers are beautiful, after all, there is a day when they wither, so please don't sigh at the flowers anymore. Because maybe in the next time, you will reap the warmth of raindrops and the romance of playing in the rain.

So, don't shed tears for missing out, face tomorrow's life with a smile, and strive to live your own wonderful life, and the future will be bright.