In interpersonal interactions, it is best not to touch the privacy of others. In special circumstances, if you are forced to mention someone's privacy, you should use euphemism to imply that you already know his mistake or privacy, so that he feels pressured to correct it. Generally speaking, people who are interested and can weigh will take care of the faces of both parties and end up quietly.

Everyone has privacy that no one knows. Psychologists point out that no one wants to "expose" their mistakes and privacy in front of everyone. Therefore, no matter how good a person with a mind is on a good relationship with the other party, he will never make other people's privacy public, let alone ridicule it as a joke. Because in this way, it will undoubtedly make people make a fool of themselves in public, and the "victim" will inevitably feel embarrassed and angry. Li Wenqiang and Xia Dongwen are not only young, but also university alumni and business partners. The two are very good, and they have reached the point where they have nothing to talk about, and they have no scruples when they joke with each other. Xia Dongwen was originally the chief of the financial department of a factory, and was sentenced to three years in prison for financial problems, and his wife divorced him. After being released from prison, he changed his ways, and finally succeeded in his career, and together with Li Wenqiang, he became the manager of two branches under a group company. Once, at the regular meeting of the head office, it was Xia Dongwen's turn to speak, and Xia Dongwen said humbly: "Everyone has said what I want to say, so there is no need to repeat it." Li Wenqiang was dissatisfied with Xia Dongwen's mother-in-law and mother-in-law, and joked: "What are you modest, are you still afraid that others will get your true biography?" Okay, you don't want to say it, let me tell you for you, your success lies in mastering the 'three certificates', one is the college graduation certificate, the second is the divorce certificate, and the third is the labor reform release certificate. In everyone's laughter, Xia Dongwen's face suddenly turned the color of pig liver. Since then, Xia Dongwen and Li Wenqiang have broken off diplomatic relations and are like strangers. There is an old Chinese saying that "trouble comes from the mouth", so we must be cautious in what we say, and we must be aware of what we can and cannot say.

A person who has no city government and casually ridicules other people's privacy will not only be unpopular because of his shallowness, vulgarity, and lack of self-cultivation, but also very likely to get into trouble because of it.

In daily life, we should be cautious, we should be careful when we speak, and we should ignore the privacy of others, let alone be obsessed with probing into the privacy of others.

People who are keen to intrude on other people's privacy are always annoying, and this is especially prominent in the West. Personal privacy includes a wide range of aspects, such as personal income, lady's age, husband and wife feelings, other people's family life, etc., all belong to the category of personal privacy.

"Asking a lady's age" is considered one of the most impolite habits in Westerners' interactions, so Westerners can praise a lady without any scruples in their daily interactions, but never ask about the other person's age. But the Chinese are different, some people often ask people "how old they are" as soon as they meet, so that the ladies are not good to answer, and it is not good not to answer, so they have to try to avoid contact with them in future entertainment.

Therefore, being able to avoid the suspicion of inquiring into the other person's privacy in social interaction is the first step to successful socializing. Therefore, when you are going to ask a question to the other person, it is best to go through it in your mind first to see if the question will involve the other person's personal privacy. If it does, avoid it as much as possible, so that the other party will not only be happy to accept you, but will also leave a good impression on you for your proper questioning and relaxed conversation in the social, and lay a good foundation for continued communication.