People can tolerate a lot of things, but they don't tolerate arrogance. In any case, we should restrain that domineering spirit and manage our lives with humility and sincerity. No matter how great the achievements of tomorrow are, they will only be fleeting. When we walk more and more calmly and calmly on this road, we will definitely reap the relief of life.

This world will be wonderful without anyone, and no one will stop turning without this earth. No matter how successful your career is, no matter how well organized and obedient you are, don't overestimate your position. So no matter what the future holds, let us have a humble heart to know that the world does not support the idea of self-supremacy, and if you blindly believe in your own strength, then one day you will experience the pain of falling to the bottom in self-absorption.

When people reach a certain age, whether it is career or financial resources, they have accumulated a lot, which makes us very proud and proud. As positions continue to rise, so may our family status. This makes us feel that we are really important, and some people even feel that once the company does not have itself, it will not be able to function properly, and the family will be a mess if it is not supported by itself. In fact, sometimes things are not as we imagined, the world will not be affected by anyone without it, and if one of us disappears one day, the earth will still turn as it should be. Although sometimes your boss always compliments you on your shrewdness, one day you leave, his company probably won't be affected much. If you think that your home will be messy without your care, then it is better to do an experiment, disappear for two days to see, when you open the door again, maybe you will find that the life of the original family can be said to be in order, even a little more relaxed.

Of course, this is not to say that we have no value in this world from now on, but by the way, I would like to remind you that when you see the vastness of the sky, think about your own insignificance, and when you stand in the endless flow of people, think about your ordinary. Yes, even if you think that no matter how strong you are, we are just ordinary people, and living an ordinary life and living happily is the goal we pursue. There is no need for us to press anyone over, and there is no need to put on a posture that we can't do without me. In the face of life, humility is a blessing, and only those who know how to be humble can continue to move forward in this world and constantly find their own value in life. Because we know that our thinking is not always right, and sometimes overconfidence is a kind of conceit, and it will always lead us to another world that is off the right track.

Edison said, "There are many things that I thought were right, but after the experiment, I was wrong, so I did not have a very confident judgment about anything, and if something felt wrong to me at the moment, I could discard it immediately." "A person must have the courage to change his wrong judgment at any time, so that he can make fewer mistakes.

Don't say things too confidently, it's a good communicative principle. If you can stick to this principle, you don't have to take it back even if you find out that what you said is wrong in the future. You should know that the meaning or belief you express is, after all, only your own opinion and belief, and others still retain their own opinions and beliefs, and have the right to choose. By doing this, others will naturally not stare at your mistakes, and you will not have to insist on your mistakes for the sake of your own face, so that you will naturally avoid falling into the embarrassing situation of being self-serving.

The weaker the evidence on which your opinion is based, the more likely it is to lead to arbitrariness and self-righteousness. Excessive affirmation is nothing more than trying to hide some doubts about your own opinions. If you can get rid of this kind of thinking, you will develop a good habit of "I am equal to others, and I should not use command but negotiation to get along with others".

A famous psychologist once said that men and women are just grown up children.

No matter how old you are, you can't handle everything well, and adults make the same mistakes as children. Therefore, it is not uncommon for people to make mistakes unintentionally in some social situations. Sometimes you might as well "intentionally destroy" your image, make a joke about yourself, or "expose your shortcomings", maybe you can get the love of others, and at the same time, you can also adjust the atmosphere to make others think you are approachable.

In our daily lives, if we abandon our solipsism, we will get unexpected benefits; And those who are reckless and competitive in everything are often not welcomed. Those high-profile "strongmen" often make people stay away because of their lack of human touch, as the so-called "there are people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the sky", no one can always be a victorious general. The conceited are accustomed to indulging in the illusion of vanity of victory, and they are often self-satisfied with a single success, and the flowers and applause that have long passed away are always flashed in front of them. They take the honor given to them by others for granted, and they can't sit still and think about what they have done and what they have gained. I always think that the success of the past can last for a long time, and I always think that others will always be willing to bow down. Therefore, they regard themselves as high-minded and have no one in their eyes, and even worse, they not only do not want to make progress themselves, but also wait for opportunities to ridicule the efforts of others, and eventually they will be unable to bear the psychological pressure that has formed for a long time, resulting in psychological distortion.

Egoistic people tend to take themselves very seriously, and in their field of vision, no one can compare with themselves. It is undeniable that many of them are indeed talented and capable, but they are empty-sighted and easily complacent, so they do not seek progress, which ultimately leads to failure in life. It can be said that arrogance is their distinguishing characteristic, they are lonely and self-admiring, unwilling to communicate with others, and self-contained, which will inevitably lead to a tragic ending in the end.

In today's era, competition is a competition of personalities, and even if a person with a self-respecting personality is full of talent, it is difficult for him to succeed if he does not know how to overcome his personality shortcomings. Only by firmly adopting a humble attitude to manage our own lives and manage our own lives can we remove the stumbling block that is too "selfish" set by ourselves on the way forward, get along with everyone more harmoniously, and truly have our own calmness and happiness.