Being true is like having a real "core", but at the same time, it does not exclude giving proper packaging outside the "core". In today's society, only when the other party recognizes and accepts you, can you smoothly enter the other party's heart, give a good impression to the other party, and further communicate and interact with the other party, so as to complete and do the things you want to do.

First, pay attention to etiquette so that you are valued.

Xunzi said: "If people are rude, they will not live, if they are rude, they will not succeed, and if the country is rude, they will be restless." ”

Confucius said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." This is not only the advice of philosophers, but also the conclusion that people have drawn from their painful experiences.

"Zuo Biography" Zhuang Gong ten years. When the Marquis of Qi was outside, he passed by Tan Guo, and Tan Guo did not treat each other with etiquette. When he returned to the Qi Kingdom, all the princes went to celebrate, but the Tan Kingdom did not go. In the winter of that year, the Marquis of Qi sent troops to destroy the Tan State because of his rudeness to Qi Guo.

On the contrary, if a person treats others with courtesy and pays attention to etiquette, he can be respected. The application of etiquette, with harmony as well, with colleagues, superiors, subordinates, parents, wives, etc., all require proper etiquette.

Etiquette is an extremely interesting cultural phenomenon and an embodiment of sensibility. It is influenced by history, customs, religion and social trends, and is the norm of norms and behaviors agreed upon in the interpersonal communication of people in a region. Etiquette and politeness are the concretization and actualization of etiquette, and etiquette should be reflected through etiquette and politeness.

Pay attention to etiquette and politeness is mutual respect in interpersonal communication, contact feelings, enhance friendship behavior, but also a kind of morality, is a kind of perceptual beauty, now we talk about civilization and etiquette should be from the heart, the appearance of the same behavior, its manners, reception, treatment, dress, appearance, conversation, etc., all with noble and sincere characteristics, is the external manifestation of personal cultural literacy, morality, appearance, education and conscience and other spiritual connotations. Only rational people can "know how to be courteous", can they "be strict with themselves and treat others leniently", can they know that respecting others is respecting themselves, and know how to abide by and maintain social morality, which is to create a civilized and polite living environment for themselves, and to become a person who knows etiquette and etiquette by distinguishing the boundary between etiquette and indecency, and can also establish an image of a gentleman for himself.

Second, establish an image of credibility.

If a person is not honest enough and does not pay attention to credibility, he often becomes a duplicitous person in communication, and becomes a philistine villain who abandons friends for profit in society, and such a person has no friends. If you don't make friends, everything won't last long. People need to treat each other with sincerity and fellowship with trust. A true husband is one who is true to his word, honest and reliable.

Confucius often taught his students to "believe in words and do results", that is, words must be counted and words must be done; We must be decisive and not hesitate. Zeng Zi kept the teacher's words in mind, and every night before going to bed, he had to reflect: "Have I done my best sincerely?" Is there anything I have to do with my friends that I am dishonest and untrustworthy? Have I carefully reviewed the teacher's teachings? Day after day, year after year, Zeng Zi has always been so strict with himself, and he has become a well-known person who is very good at doing things.

When dealing with others, you must be creditworthy, reputation is your brand, others think that you are a person who speaks of credibility, so that you will trust and rely on you, and you will be invincible and invincible when doing things.