2. Don't joke
In life, making jokes with each other, doing a funny move, and making people laugh can add happy laughter and spice to life. This kind of joke is the wave of life and is very popular with people.
However, there are also jokes that are inappropriate. That is, some people like to joke around, exposing their ugliness in public in exchange for laughter and fun.
It's a good joke to make fun of people like this. Although it can also elicit laughter, it can also cause distress and resentment, which can seriously affect interpersonal relationships and interactions. For example, a group of young men and women are talking about the mountains together, and a young man wants to make a joke on a whim to amuse everyone. He pointed to a fat girl and said, "Why are you getting more and more 'slim', but unfortunately there is no sumo wrestling in China, otherwise, you must be the No. 1 seed!" His words made everyone laugh. But this girl is distressed that she is constantly gaining weight, and how can she bear it if she scratches her "baldness" in public? She turned her face and said, "What's wrong with my fatness, I didn't eat you and didn't drink you, what the hell are you!" You don't look in the mirror and look at yourself, you're as thin as a firewood! At this time, the laughter was gone, and the seeker of happiness set himself on fire and reaped the consequences.
It can be seen that it is very unwise to joke indiscriminately, it is easy to make people disgusted and contradictory, and this kind of laughter brought by the pain of others is unbearable.
For example, when a man makes an indecent joke in front of a lady, one of them warns him, "You shouldn't say these things in front of a lady." "Ahh You think you're a lady! He responded. Everyone laughs when they hear it, but this kind of joke leaves an unpleasant shadow. Some people often start by saying: "In such an economic downturn, there are still so many people to cheer, it seems that there are still many leisurely people in this society!" "Irritating words like this should be avoided as much as possible.
Once, a manager of a company gave the above example in a speech to a new employee. Later, a young man came to the manager and said, "If I had heard your words earlier, I would have been more rigorous, and that kind of thing would not have happened." It turned out that this person was beaten by his predecessor in the restaurant the night before and his nose was bruised and swollen, and what happened was like this-he had a prank habit of playing tricks and sarcastically mocking others, and when he was chatting in the company at noon the day before, he joked to a relatively close senior: "Mr. Chen, why do you want to marry a woman with missing teeth as your wife?" The man's wife, everyone knew that she was missing several front teeth, and she looked like an old woman, so everyone present laughed, and the person concerned had to smile bitterly, but his self-esteem was seriously hurt, so after the banquet that night, the senior said in front of everyone: "This guy just joined the company and didn't know what to do." After saying that, he punched and kicked the young man. It can be seen that people will be angry about words that stab his pride.
"A girl's skin is at its best when she is 18 to 20 years old. All of you are over this age, and your face will soon be wrinkled, and even if you put on a thick layer of powder and a blue-green eyeshadow, it will look like you have painted a wall, and you will feel like you have been beaten. ”
Women who hear such words must feel uncomfortable in their hearts. In this way, your impression in people's minds is very poor, which seriously affects your future communication, and also leaves an unpleasant aftertaste for others, and even brings serious harm to others. Therefore, sane people never joke around, and give people a very rigorous feeling.