Dare to say what needs to be said is one of the signs of audacity.

When the opportunity comes, it is the time when you need to express yourself the most, and dare to speak up will help you. Nowadays, almost all employers have an interview process at the time of recruitment.

The content of the interview is very extensive, but in the end, the most important thing is to dare to speak, and a decent and good conversation not only reflects the quality of a person's thoughts, but also makes up for some of your shortcomings, so as to stand out from the crowd. Sometimes, the success of the interview determines the fate of your life and becomes a turning point in your career. Many people beat their opponents with their excellent interview performance.

Today's society is a competitive society and a commercial society, so you don't have to spend too much effort to define its nature and characteristics, evaluate its advantages and disadvantages, and you can devote yourself to it and adapt to it as soon as possible. A young student shared his own experience:

As a student, his biggest fear was answering questions in class, and he found out that his classmates around him were just like him. Every time in class, when the professor asks a question, they always have the habit of lowering their heads, for fear that the professor's eyes will sweep over them.

In a foreign language class, an expert from a commercial bank gave a lecture. The lecturer always wants someone to cooperate with him, so the expert asked how many students in the classroom were studying economics, but no one responded. But he knew that many of them, including himself, were studying economics, but for fear of being asked, everyone was silent. The expert smiled wryly and said, I'll pause for a moment and tell you a story.

"When I first came to the U.S., I used to give lectures at universities, and every time I invited senior executives from Wall Street or multinational companies to give lectures. Before each lecture, I noticed an interesting phenomenon, the students around me always took a piece of hard paper, folded it in half, wrote their names in bold with a pen of extremely bright colors, and then put it on their seats. So when the speaker needs the listener to respond, he can directly look at the person by name.

I was puzzled, so I asked the classmate in front of me. He told me with a smile that the people who gave the lectures were first-class people, and they meant opportunities. When your answer satisfies or surprises him, it is likely to imply that he will give you more opportunities. It's a simple truth. ”

"In fact, I did see a few of my classmates around me who were able to work for top-notch companies because of their excellent insights. This incident has had a great impact on me, opportunities don't automatically find you, you have to constantly create opportunities for yourself and attract the attention of others to find opportunities. I find that Chinese students are really unsatisfactory in this regard, they are too reserved or cowardly, they are not used to letting others see them, maybe you will have an easy life, but you will never be more successful. I think each of you will have ambitions, but your first step must be to find people who appreciate you, which is very difficult for the silent ones. After the expert's words ended, some laughed, others dismissed. But he could clearly see more of his classmates raising their hands or giving some hint: I can answer.

Each of us is a limited existence, we are just a drop in the vast sea of people, there are many things that we cannot decide, we cannot choose our origin, our country, our environment, our leaders, our colleagues, we do not know when and where someone will help us or hinder us, but there is one thing we can choose, that is, our attitude towards life, we can continue to strive to improve ourselves. So that's all we can do, and that's all we can do! There are thousands of roads to success, and the most fundamental is this one. In the same way, no one can defeat you and defeat you except yourself, and the true master of fate is yourself. External causes cannot be denied and cannot be abandoned, but external causes can only work through internal causes. A person who attaches great importance to internal factors will not let go of any favorable factors, on the contrary, he has no confidence in himself, and he has no talent, so what is the use of more opportunities? Can you complain and feel sorry for yourself? In life, the biggest taboo is one's own cowardice and incompetence, which is also the truth that countless facts have proved in ancient and modern times!

Amplify your guts, speak your mind, be brave enough to be good – the opportunity is there.