There are not many big opportunities that people can encounter in their lives, and when the opportunity arises, they must know how to fight for it, and they must have a desire to express themselves.

"There is Bole in the world, and then there is a thousand miles of horses", if a thousand miles of horses can meet Bole is very lucky, but "thousands of miles of horses often have, and Bole does not often have." "If a talent wants to stand out, he must be good at exposing and showing his talents in the out.

Confucius said, "As long as you do what is benevolent and righteous, you don't have to be humble even in front of your teacher." ”

In the chapter "Liren", Confucius once said: "A gentleman has nothing to do with the affairs of the world, as long as it conforms to justice." ”

Therefore, Confucius's students said that he was "unnecessary, unrelenting." That is, not rigid, not stubborn.

Mencius even praised and said: "If you should be fast, you should be fast, if you should be slow, if you should be an official, if you should be an official, if you should resign, you should resign, this is Confucius."

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Turning the pages of history, Mao Sui during the Warring States Period, Huang Zhong during the Three Kingdoms Period, and many reformers, all of whom had lofty ambitions, but what we admired more was their courage to recommend themselves, and they fully believed in their own abilities. Because of self-nomination, they were not buried.

Nowadays, some people don't understand those who have the courage to recommend themselves and are good at performance, saying that it is a sign of "being in the limelight" and "no one in sight". In fact, whether it is Bruno, the defender of the "heliocentric theory", or Einstein, the proposer of the "theory of relativity", they have always shown their talents. Their "performance" has been recognized by the world. They spend their lives burning, unleashing all their enthusiasm and expressing their brightness. If you don't ignite it, then the brightness of the person will slowly disappear as if it were slowly oxidized.

On the racetrack, the first step is likely to mean the final victory, so the success or failure of your life may be determined by whether you dare to show yourself.

Generally speaking, people with a strong desire to express themselves have a strong sense of participation and a strong sense of competition, they can treat themselves with a positive attitude, regard public performance as happiness and opportunity, take the initiative to look for occasions for performance, and even dare to compete openly with strong opponents. Therefore, they have more opportunities to participate in practice than the average person. For example, when speaking at a meeting, people who are expressive often take the initiative to speak up and talk about their opinions. These views may be immature and imperfect, but if they dare to speak out and debate with various opinions, and if they continue to practice in this way, their eloquence will be tempered and their ideological level will be greatly improved.

In other words, expressive people usually pay attention to building their self-image and have higher pursuits. In order to create a good image in public, they must take this as a driving force, study hard, work diligently, and constantly enrich themselves, so that they can gain real talents and learning.

A strong desire to express oneself is the driving force to sell oneself, and whether a talented person can be reused depends largely on whether he can show his talent in the right place and win the recognition of others. If you have a unique skill, but you hide it deeply, others will not be able to understand it, and in the end, you can only have empty ambitions and talents. People with a strong desire to express themselves are always unwilling to be lonely, like to sing the leading role on the stage of life, looking for opportunities to express themselves, let more people know themselves, let Bole choose themselves, and give full play to their talents. In a sense, a strong desire to express oneself is a prerequisite for selling oneself.

It should be pointed out that there are positive and negative expressions. The boundary between the two lies in the motivation of self-expression and the grasp of proportion. If a person simply wants to show himself, overwhelm others, compete for personal limelight, or even play small actions, belittle others, and highlight himself, this desire to express himself will be narrow-minded and selfish, easy to make people disgusted, and make himself the target of public criticism, then there is no positive significance at all.

In short, as long as you have a positive attitude and choose a form of expression that is consistent with your personality to show yourself and participate in competition, it is conducive to realizing your life value.

Only heroic actions can make your ordinary and great life. If you don't shrink your hand when it's time to make a move, people will always remember you for your excellence. Zhang Fei in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is so reckless, and Wu Song and Li Kui in "Water Margin" are so irritable, but we can't forget them, for one reason - they can stand up in times of crisis, which ordinary people can't do.

Because, it is better to succeed than to succeed without planning anything. Dare to express yourself, don't be afraid to take any risks, there will never be a wonderful chapter in life without taking risks.