————Dad has to figure out a way to get bloated every day.

I discussed with my husband and took my father to the Chinese medicine hospital to find Dr. Qu, and begged the decades-old Chinese medicine doctor to think of a way for my father, at least it would be easier to go to the toilet.

Just do it, my husband took my father to see Dr. Qu the next day, and he prepared medicine for half a month.

The requirement for drinking this medicine is that you can't drink it all at once, it's best to drink one-third of it, and then drink one-third of it after a few minutes, and drink it within half an hour.

Chinese medicine is unpleasant, it is well recognized.

Who has nothing to do with an unpalatable Chinese medicine?

Oh, my mother-in-law is like this, every summer with a Chinese medicine, the name "Paste Fang"? Or "cream fat"? It has not been carefully verified.

Mother-in-law drinks every summer, the price is quite expensive, a match with the cost of 3-5 thousand, I don't know if it is a psychological effect or really effective, it seems that the cough is really less.

In the afternoon, I went to my parents' house, and as soon as I entered the door, the two of them complained about it.

"Ah Jun, how can your dad take this medicine for a day? Your dad can't even eat," Mom asked anxiously.

"Ah Jun, you ask the doctor, I've been taking this medicine for a whole day, and I haven't finished it yet, it's unpleasant." There is a basin with hot water underneath Dad's medicine cup, and the hot water is changed at any time to make sure the medicine is hot.

"Husband, come and see, why do you have to take Dad's medicine for a day?" As soon as I asked on the phone, my husband chased after me.

"Ah, Dad, that's not how you drink this medicine. The doctor told you to drink it in half an hour, in three divided doses, a few minutes apart." My husband laughed out loud when he saw it.

"No wonder, who can stand such an unpalatable Chinese medicine for a day."

Dad hurriedly got up and drank the rest of the Chinese medicine.

My father spent every day drinking Chinese medicine, soaking mugwort leaf water, scraping sha for him, and drinking all kinds of ingredients I cooked.

Every morning, I would ask my mother if my father was swollen.

Now my mother's reply has been changed to: "It's good, it's good, it's good,

1——— porridge does not swell after drinking,

2———— soaked in mugwort leaf water.

3——— Chinese medicine drank and went to the toilet.

4——— don't eat greasy... ”

My mom learned to lie to me and coax me. Later, she told me that Dad didn't want us to worry and asked her to lie.

I was mixed up in fear for a month.

I carried a thermos bucket every day to accompany my dad for a month.

I spent a month in a noisy argument every day.

During the month, I watched Mr. Xiao's various illnesses continue to worsen.

Finally, one day a month later, Mr. Xiao took the initiative to tell me:

"I have contacted a friend from Aoyuan Hospital and he has contacted the bed for me"

"My idea is that it should be better to go to the hospital to get egg whites and use medicine." Dad explained it to me in detail.

Indeed, the People's Hospital has consulted, and my father is no longer admitted for treatment, saying that there is no need for treatment.

——— Aoyuan Hospital is a local private hospital, which has the role of rehabilitation treatment and nursing.

Since my father took the initiative to contact and was willing to go for treatment, I will no longer stop it. It's just a pity in my heart.,3 months have passed 1 month.,If you go to the hospital now... Don't dare to think about it.

But there are also benefits, don't worry about the half-blind mother won't dial 120 at night.

Don't be nervous, Dad's stomach is swollen, and when there is no way, Mom is in a hurry.

——— at 7 a.m. the next morning, I arrived at my parents' house.

Mom sorted out about 10 large bags of things overnight:

Quilts, padded jackets

Washbasin, footbasin, towels

Biscuits, sugar

(Mom's low blood sugar to eat)

Mom's insulin,

Blood glucose measuring instrument

Mom's high blood pressure,

Cardiovascular and cerebrovascular drugs

Dad's High Blood Pressure Medication

A bottle of fermented bean curd,

A bottle of pickles.

————— was startled when he saw this formation.

My dad friend invited a driver to come and pick him up.

As soon as the driver arrived, I went up and down the stairs to carry the more than 10 bags of things.

I am a 1.68-meter, from the original weight of 58KG with strong muscles, a month straight down to 50KG, the legs are already skinny women, Da regardless of the physical load, on the stairs in a hurry. In my husband's words, "Although you are not fat, I found that your shin bones are quite good." ”。

No matter what tibia is good, it is all a strong burden and moving forward with difficulty.

Suppose I say I'm too tired to persevere, who's going to do it?

Work, work, study, and study, the old and the young, no one can spare time! It's just me, a salesman who sells products, and I have more free time, and I can use my own time.

Coupled with YQ, the product sales are not ideal. Forget it, earn less, earn less. I don't want to spend energy on this this year. Accompany my dad first, I don't want to leave regrets.

——— ward is arranged on the 11th floor by the elevator, and there are no roommates for the time being.

The bed is by the window, the space is large, bright and has a wide view.

When I arrived at the ward, my father was smiling.

Sitting on the sofa by the window, he laughed: "Fortunately, I came, and I feel that my illness is more than half better." There's no way to stay at home."

I sat on another sofa and thought to myself, "How to communicate with the doctor and how to accompany the nurse."

Accompany the nurse all day during the day, and the porridge at night is impossible to cook. Let's just eat the hospital meals. ”

First of all, I consulted the head nurse, and the hospital has less greasy diabetic meals.

If you really don't want to eat, you can go to the private restaurant in the courtyard and order food, and you can cook according to your general requirements.

Mom and dad can eat it, and you don't need to bring food from home.

I can bring the porridge in the morning, and my dad likes the greasy porridge cooked in my rice cooker.

The private hospital service is still good.

Less than 10 minutes after sitting down, the doctor came to round the ward, auscultation, ask about symptoms, measure blood pressure, and precautions.

The name plate of the bed is pasted: "Xiao Huiqing"

The doctor told me to follow him to the office.

Hand sign multiple agreements.

"After reading the examination report you brought, I have a general idea of your father's physical condition.

Now it's like this, it's impossible to be completely cured, and this has to be explained to you in advance.

What we can do is to try to reduce the symptoms and ease his discomfort.

Let him have a quality of life. ”

The doctor sat and explained to me in detail, and I stood like a student listening to the class teacher's training.

"Oh, oh, I know," tears rolled in his eyes.

"Also, that painkiller is going to be used by your father next."

Hearing the doctor say this, he was anxious and confused, and tears flowed directly from behind the spectacle lenses.

I have heard of such patients using painkillers before, and they will use more and more.

I have been resisting my father's use of painkillers, thinking that it has not yet reached the point of using painkillers.

"Don't think about it too much, the painkiller injection is just to make him feel more comfortable and improve the quality of life," the doctor handed me a napkin, comforting me.

After a while, I asked the doctor about whether the medical plan proposed by my classmate was feasible.

He recommended to me a specialist from the next office from a cancer hospital in Shanghai who had retired and worked part-time at the private hospital.

"Hmm, this... This option is not recommended for your father.

Your father's condition is not suitable for this type of medicine."

The expert in the next office told me clearly after reading the inspection report.

I didn't give up and asked, "What would happen if I used this medicine?" ”

"Hmmm... It will speed up the course of the disease. You may also have a fever after taking the drug. The specialist stood up and went to the ward to make rounds.

I followed behind, wanting to ask if there was any other way.

"No, now it's about improving the quality of life, give him whatever he wants, and make him happy." The expert replied to me bluntly.

Discouraged, I adjusted my mood in the hallway, took a few deep breaths, tried my best to stretch my frowning brow, and walked towards my father's ward.