Chapter 170: Lin Feng's words set off countless childhood scars! (3-in-1 Commuter Pass Plus Update)
In the silence of Zhang Zhixing and his wife, there were also viewers in the live broadcast room.
"Use 'grades' to make a deal and raise a child who has no love for his parents...... Alas, I thought of myself! My grades have always been good since I was a child, and my parents are what Mr. Lin calls 'parents who are happy for their children's grades', and they are also the kind of parents who will accept the 'grade deal' that the teacher says. When I was in high school, there was a time when my grades dropped very badly, and I heard them say a lot of heart-wrenching words every day, and those words are still fresh in my memory, not only unforgettable, but also difficult to love my parents...... Alas!! It's sad. ”
"Hug you! Mr. Lin's words really see through the essence and have good intentions! I think it will cause a lot of parents to reflect, right? ”
"That's right, as a parent, remind yourself that family is a place of 'love,' not a place of 'deals.'"
“……”
Outside the live broadcast room.
Liu Yong, the director next to Lin Feng, saw this scene through the screen, and then looked at the audience's speech, and sighed:
"This show has connected so many parents, and now it feels more and more meaningful."
"The topic of family education is really not easy!"
"Farming can still say what seeds are planted and what fruits are produced, but raising children is full of misunderstandings, and it is not good that sweet trees can also bear bitter fruits."
It was also at this moment, looking at Lin Feng, who could still be at ease in the face of different family education problems, Liu Yong's respect in his heart was even greater.
There are so many ways to reward children in the right way!
Moreover, Mr. Lin can easily mention Zhao Shengrui's parents through a small scene.
Tell them where there are pitfalls and how to avoid them.
Looking at the appearance of this couple, the problems of their family should have been resolved.
Mr. Lin is worthy of education!
Cattle!
However, after sighing, Liu Yong continued to stare at the couple curiously.
What will they do next?
And Zhao Shengrui, in the face of their actions, what will be his reaction?
At this moment, beside Liu Yong, Sun Wei's face was shaken, and she said with emotion:
"Teacher Lin is really whipping in! Incorrect rewards can really kill people! ”
Sun Wei couldn't help but think of herself, and said to Wu Peng:
"I'll be able to tell the story! My parents have always been material rewards in order to let me learn something, and in the end, I really think from the bottom of my heart that I learned things for my parents. ”
"In the end, it becomes a ...... in the face of rewards."
Speaking of the past, Sun Wei was still a little embarrassed.
Wu Peng also brought himself in, nodded, and said with a relative:
"I'm not much better, at home, my dad throws me a bunch of money at every turn, and then I become like this."
At this time, Wu Peng remembered that before he came to Xiangzhang Village, his face turned red.
At this moment, these two children suddenly felt like they were separated from each other in their past.
After a long time, Sun Wei smiled and said:
"Zhao Shengrui's family is also the same as our two families, I have met Mr. Lin, looking at this look, I should be able to get out of the misunderstanding."
Wu Peng nodded, his heart moved, and he said:
"Look at their performance, have they learned or have they learned?"
After saying this, the two children glanced at each other, and when they saw the expectation in each other's eyes, they both smiled.
What will Zhao Shengrui's family do next?
And at this moment, the discussion in the live broadcast room is also intense.
Because, Lin Feng's educational views have opened everyone's childhood memories and aroused everyone's desire to talk.
"Every word of Mr. Lin hit my heart!! I think I remembered my dad. ”
"I remember that in the third year of high school, I had an extraordinary performance and took the twenty-seventh place in the grade, and my dad bought me drinks and food along the way, and I washed my hair at night when I got home, and he insisted on blowing my hair! I had never enjoyed this treatment in the first half of my life. However, I felt uncomfortable at the time! I'd rather my parents do what they should do to me, and don't treat me badly because I got a good grade, which makes me feel like they're just doing good to me. ”
"Teacher Lin is so right! I once scored 98 points in primary school mathematics and was the first in the class, but the math teacher inadvertently said to my mother that if this child was more careful, he could actually get a full score, because he was wrong in a small question, which is a pity. Just because of the teacher's words, when I went home, my mother grabbed my ear and scolded me, saying that I didn't care and was embarrassed...... The joy of being the first in the class is gone. And I really don't understand what this kind of thing has to do with disgrace...... It's just that since then, I feel that I study for my parents, and the more they say that they are good for me, the more reluctant I am to study. ”
"After reading your story, I want to cry inexplicably and hug you."
"How nice it would be if Mr. Lin were my teacher! This is the first time I've seen someone say "love", and I really cried. When I was a child, I didn't get normal love, and my parents were not strict, but they liked to emphasize how much they gave, which made me always feel guilty, and I always felt sorry for their love if I didn't do well, and I didn't deserve their efforts if I wasn't good. As soon as I fail, I can't sleep all night, and this problem has not been improved until now. ”
"What you said is really a childhood shadow, don't ask me how I understand you, it's almost the same as asking."
"I'm crying too! Usually I don't cry when I watch some tear-jerking movies, animations, comics and books, but when I see Mr. Lin say, 'It's normal and satisfying to make demands on your parents', tears fall from my eyes. Because my grades can determine how I am treated at home! Moreover, I was always very emotional and moody in private, and I don't know if it was because of this kind of education. In fact, when I was younger, even before I went to school, they were very nice to me, so this polarization of attitudes made me especially conflicted. It doesn't matter now, so be it. ”
"I heard Mr. Lin's surprised answer - 'Dad is happy to hear you, so I'm very happy', this sentence directly made my heart chuckle! Think to yourself, I can't have heard such words from my parents. At home, they all practice repressive education, only criticize, and rarely hear praise. Even when I grew up, I was also very unconfident, and I felt uncomfortable with other people's praise and praise, and I didn't know what to do. And now, when they see other people's children being generous, confident, and able to speak well, they will let me learn the same...... But what do I learn? I don't know how I'm going to learn! I've discussed this with my parents, and they say there's no way out, and they won't boast about it...... Really desperate. ”
"Zhao Shengrui's parents are okay, my family is, before every final exam, they will always promise me how much is the reward for 90, how much is 95, how much is 100, and then, I have not fulfilled it once! Laughed and cried. ”
"Children who have excellent grades but don't love their parents? Ha! I remembered my sad experience. When I was a child, my classmates had pocket money, and I only had breakfast money every day. At that time, the salary of my family was not low, but when I wanted to drink drinks, when I bought snacks, I would not ask them, in addition to being introverted, I was also a little afraid of my parents. Because of the two of them, one is a father who can use an arm strength stick for exercise in my third grade to aim at his son's leg and loses it, and the other is a mother who can whip me with a coat hanger in front of my house in front of four or five of my classmates, and I can't get close to them! Later, I want to have snacks, and I'd rather skip breakfast hungry and save up for those things than open my mouth to ask my parents for them. To be honest, the reality that I didn't want to get married was caused by the fear that my parents brought to me. Up to now, I only have one or two friends, the kind that I can't talk to once in a few months. I'm really inferior to my life now. My parents always told me not to stay at home, to go out to play with friends, to talk about girlfriends. But they don't want to remember who stripped me naked and beat me in front of my friends and classmates. That's it, what friends can I have......"
"My God, Mr. Lin's words have uncovered how many scars of families and children!"
“……”
The barrage of discussions in the live broadcast room was flying all over the sky, and at the scene, Zhao Shengrui's parents had recovered from their silence.
"Lao Zhao, the ways and methods we used to treat our children were all wrong......
Zhang Liufang's heart was bitter and uneasy:
“…… Although the heart is good, it hurts the child. ”
Zhao Zhixing glanced at Lin Feng in the picture, bit his lip, and said to his wife:
"Don't talk about that, why don't we go talk to the kids? It may still be useful to make amends. ”
Hearing Zhao Zhixing's words, Zhang Liufang nodded, her eyes full of relief:
"Yes, we can't help the child, at this time, we should take the initiative."
"However, what did we say at the beginning of the child's situation? Don't say a few words, the child won't want to hear it. ”
"Let me think about ......"
Lin Feng listened to their discussions, and did not say anything to mention them, at this time, they should try to deal with the problem by themselves, in case there is any situation, it is not too late to raise it again.
And just when they were discussing how to find their children next.
Zhao Shengrui looked at Lin Feng in the picture in a daze and burst into tears.
This time, there was no sadness in the tears, but touching!
Mr. Lin is meticulous, insightful, and understands himself very well.
When he used to study, when he saw the Boyazi period and the mountains and rivers, he still seemed to understand, is there really such a confidant in the world?
Looking at Lin Feng now, he suddenly understood.
Mr. Lin has this kind of personality charm! And, he's really his confidant!
At the same time, Zhao Shengrui looked at the picture and discussed coming to his parents.
Listening to their voices grow smaller and quieter, until he couldn't hear anything concrete, his heart suddenly lifted.
"Are you coming to me now? It's so solemn. ”
Zhao Shengrui took a deep breath, only to feel that his heart was beating like thunder at the moment, and he began to feel dry mouth.
What will Mom and Dad do? Have they learned the essence of Mr. Lin?
Can the problem between me and my parents be solved today?
He didn't have an answer to all this......
Just when Zhao Shengrui was nervous.
"Knock knock."
The bedroom door has been knocked on by the parents!
Knowing that there would be such a thing, he was still so nervous that his heart was stuck in his throat all of a sudden!
The violent heartbeat and hot blood made Zhao Shengrui's hands and feet weak at this moment, and he could hardly move.
And outside the door.
His parents were also sweating in their palms and were very worried.
If your child doesn't open the door, what's next?
They are also very dazed and nervous!
even looked at Lin Feng in the picture from time to time, looking forward to whether he could say something, even if they knew that there was nothing to say now......
In such a delicate atmosphere, the air seemed to stop flowing.
The audience, who was still expressing their emotions in the live broadcast room, was also interrupted by this knock on the door at this moment.
Everyone suddenly came back to their senses and stared intently at the door.
Until I felt that the time to open the door exceeded my expectations, at this time, everyone was in a hurry.
"Zhao Shengrui, your parents are looking for you, hurry up and open the door!"
"If the door doesn't open today, we'll be in trouble."
"Hurry, hurry!! Open the door, kid! Always give your parents and give yourself a chance! ”
“……”
And Zhao Shengrui, who they urged, had no time to distract himself from watching these barrages.
He just stared blankly at the door in front of him, and with each step, his heart became more worried.
Gradually, Zhao Shengrui began to have tinnitus.
At this moment, he only felt that he was being put into a transparent cover, and the air was gradually drained, and he was about to lose his breath.
His bedroom was not big, but at this moment, he felt that the route to open the door was far away.
After Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing knocked on the door, they wanted to listen to the movements in the child's room as before.
But at this moment, all they heard was the sound of their own violent heartbeat.
"Plop, plop, plop......"
The sound of a violent heartbeat made the couple lose their sense of time.
I don't know how long it took, maybe it was long, so long that it made them despair.
Or maybe it's so short, so short that they've obviously discussed what to say, but they're still caught off guard.
Just listen to the "squeak".
The door is open!
A family of three, looking at each other, collectively aphasia!
They were speechless and burst into tears......
For a long, long time......
It wasn't until Zhang Liufang whimpered and hugged her son in her arms that the silence was broken.
And she had already forgotten all the words she had discussed with her husband before, and only said one sentence:
"Son, I'm sorry!"
At this time, Zhao Zhixing suddenly came back to his senses, reached out to wipe the tears on his son's face, and asked him in a choked voice:
"Son, dad was wrong, can you forgive me?"
Hearing his parents' words, Zhao Shengrui changed from sobbing to crying!
The parents who cried were heartbroken and cried until they were overwhelmed.
Is my son's performance because he has too much complaint about us?
Just when they were nervous, Zhao Shengrui's voice sounded:
"Dad, Mom and Dad, I don't blame you, I blame myself......"
Zhao Shengrui choked up and spoke:
"I don't like you to use other people's children everywhere to inspire me, but because I don't believe that you will change, I have been holding it in my heart."
"I'm so sad that I don't want to study, and I don't want to go out, eat, or even talk to you......"
"Actually, I've been blaming myself and why I hate you all the time at night."
"Mom and Dad, I don't want this, I don't want at all."
Listening to Zhao Shengrui's incoherent blaming himself, Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing's hearts were as hot as if they had been ripped out, and then they couldn't help but look at Lin Feng on the screen-
Teacher Lin is really a god, this is all deduced!
And Lin Feng saw this scene through the lens, and sighed slightly:
"A depressed child is not because he does not have strong psychological tolerance, but because he understands everything, but he does not understand."
Unfortunately, there are so few parents who understand this!
Hearing Lin Feng's words, the couple remembered their previous accusations against the child in black and white, and their guilt reached its peak, and they hurriedly spoke:
"Son, don't say that, it's your parents who are wrong."
Zhang Liufang hugged Zhao Shengrui, distressed and self-reproachful, and said:
"It's because we never think about things from your standpoint, and we always think about it and hurt you."
"I'm sorry."
"Mom and Dad didn't mean it, they didn't know how to educate their children."
Hearing his parents' words, Zhao Shengrui burst into tears even more and buried his face in his parents' arms.
In this way, a family of three hugged each other tightly.
At this moment, they finally understood each other.
The love that was once solidified in this family, at this moment, slowly flowed among the three of them.
After a long time, Zhang Liufang wiped her tears and said:
"Son, my parents promise that I will listen to your opinions on anything in the future, and you don't have to bury everything in your heart."
"Uh-huh."
Zhao Shengrui nodded, crying and laughing, his heart full of gratitude to Lin Feng.
If it weren't for Mr. Lin, I don't know what kind of twists and turns their family would have gone through, so that they could understand each other!
Watching the interaction of their family of three, the corners of the audience's mouths in the live broadcast room slowly rose.
"My aunt can see it all for me, it's good to reconcile!!"
"As Teacher Lin said, depressed children understand everything...... Alas, what Zhao Shengrui needs is the understanding of his parents, and with understanding, it is easy to say anything. ”
"It's still Mr. Lin's guidance, and the family can be regarded as understanding each other now."
"Teacher Lin, a thirty or forty-year-old child, do you accept it here?"
"Hey, you might as well ask: Teacher Lin, do you educate your sixty-year-old parents here?"
"Shoot shoots!!"
“……”
Outside the live broadcast room, director Liu Yong looked at Lin Feng's back, his eyes were shining, and he was full of worship.
When Zhao Shengrui, a child, appeared, he was really worried when he saw his situation, both for the child and for Teacher Lin.
On the one hand, there is the worry about the child's situation.
On the other hand, I am not sure if such a tricky problem can be cured by Mr. Lin.
But now that I see this scene, I am completely relieved.
In addition to being relieved, Liu Yong couldn't tell whether he was confused or emotional, and muttered to himself:
"How much effort does Mr. Lin have to press the bottom of the box? I feel that no family education problem can bother him. ”
When the words fell, Liu Yong's heart moved for a moment:
When I was connected before, the program team was really a little timid about the registration conditions and the selection of the registered families.
Because this is a live broadcast, any problem can be magnified, in case something goes wrong.
However, now I look at Mr. Lin's strong knowledge reserves, as well as excellent on-the-spot adaptability and field control ability.
Seem...... This show could be a little more daring??
Liu Yongmo rubbed his chin, thinking about this possibility, and then began to wander.
And beside him, Sun Wei and Wu Peng had already clapped their hands.
"That's a family! Everyone understands each other, and everything is easy to say. ”
Wu Peng said with emotion:
"Zhao Shengrui is self-torture, and there is no outlet for his emotions, which leads to depression."
Sun Wei nodded and patted Wu Peng on the shoulder:
"That's right, I hold everything in my heart, and it's no wonder if nothing happens...... Huh? I think you're pretty good at speaking now. ”
Wu Peng raised his eyebrows and pointed to Lin Feng not far away:
"Don't look at who the master is!"
Sun Wei "tsk" twice and said:
"I just praised you, and the prototype was revealed, can't you change a little cultured expression?"
"Cultured??"
Wu Peng's face was puzzled.
Sun Wei sneered and nodded at him:
"Stupid, 'close to Zhu Zhechi', 'famous teachers produce high apprentices', 'ears and eyes are stained', which one can't be used?"
After listening to this, Wu Peng thought about it for a while, and just when Sun Wei thought he had enlightened, Wu Peng opened his mouth and said:
"Sister Sun, you still know how to pat yourself."
When Sun Wei heard this, she was about to fight, Wu Peng begged for mercy again and again, and the two laughed together.
Lin Feng listened to the laughter of the children around him, and then looked at the smiling faces of the children on the other side of the screen, and the smile on the corner of his mouth unconsciously expanded.
That's what it's all about educating yourself!
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