Chapter 62: The First Date with Jiang Rui (Part II)
Jiang Rui thought of the aggrieved feeling of being photographed by those onlookers with their mobile phones in the Hengde Bookstore in the morning because he was wearing JK, and he wanted to know what he thought of this strange costume in his heart.
"Then do you think it's a shame for a girl to wear a fancy dress like mine in the eyes of outsiders?"
Qu Junru told Jiang Rui his true feelings: "I think girls are beautiful in everything they wear. Rui'er, the JK you are wearing is very beautiful, and at the same time, Hanfu is also Chinese culture. These are not fancy costumes, nor are they worn out for filming to be watched and admired. Girls are super beautiful in any costume, not to show someone, or to wear it out to make themselves psychologically happy. This is not an aesthetic mistake, and there is no need for any psychological pressure, just be bold and wear it out. As long as you're happy, don't care what others think! ”
Jiang Rui took advantage of the heat to express some of the things he had encountered recently in a very vague way: "Smash, what do you think of those keyboard warriors who spread rumors on the Internet?" ”
The topic mentioned by Jiang Rui happened to be what Qu Junru was experiencing.
Because he wrote a post under his author's webpage that he has a lot of notebook novels written with a gel pen, a total of more than a dozen, and he said about 100 million words. The purpose is to show that he has been working hard to write novels every day during college, and in terms of writing efforts, he is no worse than those platinum gods. As a result, many people came to his author's website to ridicule or abuse.
Qu Junru was too lazy to bother with them, so he directly deleted the post. But that group of Internet trolls grabbed him and didn't give up, making him feel bad every day, and even a Douluo fandom he wrote became a topic of ridicule for them, Qu Junru really disliked this group of Internet trolls, so he deleted the novel. Later, Qu Junru directly deleted all the posts, not giving these people any chance to abuse or insult him.
Children who have experienced the rain know how to cover an umbrella for a child who is in the rain, Qu Junru is such a child who is willing to cover an umbrella for Jiang Rui: "No one is perfect, no one is perfect, no gold is bare enough, this sentence should have been learned by everyone since elementary school, right?" Those who say they haven't learned can only be those who haven't graduated from elementary school. Since everyone knows, we should understand that no one can be a perfect existence in the eyes of others. The Jade Emperor, as an immortal, was jealous; Erlang God, as a god of war in the heavenly court, has the problem of dealing with a monkey; In the same way, keyboard warriors are nothing, so they naturally have the problem of picking on others. If a person who spreads rumors on the Internet thinks that he is particularly unaccustomed to a person and feels that something has shortcomings, why don't they think of a way to build it or help others correct their mistakes? Relying on keyboard typing to insult the personality of others does not show any ability at all, and will only make others feel that the keyboard warrior is very high-minded, and the psychological defense line is too fragile to tolerate others to be better than it. In these days, nothing is easy, and when you think it is easy, someone must be suffering for you. Either your parents, your lover, or your future self. ”
After that incident, Qu Junru closed all comment sections in his posts or novels, and he also understood from that incident that he had to become stronger to stop these Internet trolls!
Fortunately, he walked out of the haze of Internet rumors through a year's break.
Now, Qu Junru is more willing to use his novels and stories to warm others.
Jiang Rui doesn't know how many times he was injured before he transformed into the current Qu Junru, and he doesn't know how many battles he fought alone on the road of love before he could grow into an online novelist who now has his own views on feelings.
Jiang Rui is a typical Aries, he has always liked to go straight, and his personality is like this, he will never hide it: "Son, I may be born different from you, if others have something bad for me, I will be very angry and want to beat each other." After trying to make the other party suffer real at my hands, they don't dare to mess with me again. ”
Qu Junru listened to Jiang Rui's words and only said three meaningful words.
"You're still young."
Jiang Rui didn't understand why Qu Junru said this, from her point of view, her psychological age is already the same as Qu Junru's real age, then she is already a girl with a correct three views on feelings, and she has a certain understanding of all boys' behaviors in relationships, and feels that boys don't want to be responsible for a girl's attitude towards a relationship.
"What do you mean, my mental age is the same as yours now."
Qu Junru told her about the proper dry goods in her relationship: "No, no, no, Rui'er, don't say that." You think your mental age is the same as mine, that's just what you think. At your age, there's still a lot to learn, and there's a lot I haven't told you. There are a lot of setbacks in relationships, and now that you have experienced the frustration of being dumped, you are already very disgusted with a boy like Li Jialin who is irresponsible for his feelings. As everyone knows, boys have a lot of temperaments, and you don't know real feelings. ”
Jiang Rui asked Qu Junru rhetorically: "Smash, then I will enter the love stage from now on, what is it?" ”
Qu Junru hugged Jiang Rui tighter, leaned into her ear and said, "Rui'er, you can fall in love early, anyone can enter the love stage too early." But, it's time to knock on the blackboard! You must think about whether you have the ability to make the other person happy for a lifetime when you enter the love stage. If you don't, don't hurt the other person. Many people will ask, what is the meaning of the three views, I understand it this way, I have my own understanding of the world and life, but I can accept the different three views of others and treat them reasonably. The reason why we run the road of feelings is to catch up with the self who has high hopes. ”
Jiang Rui has his own opinion on this: "I have been on the road, and I am riding the sunset against my back. ”
Qu Junru continued to say to her: "Maybe there is a person in everyone's life who can't love, and the person who teaches you to love may not be able to accompany you to the end." Even if you can't have it, you still finish the whole story with each other in your heart. The other party has never appeared in your tomorrow, but it makes you full of hope for tomorrow. ”
Jiang Rui responded to Qu Junru and said: "An unequal relationship can't last long, because no matter what happens in the future, this relationship will still go downhill after all." ”
Qu Junru smiled and said, "But, shouldn't real love officially start after being together?" Each other has determined each other's intentions, and they climb the slope together towards a common goal. ”
Jiang Rui vetoed his opinion: "No, smash, I don't think love is once the relationship is confirmed, even if the task is completed." Being together should not be the purpose of loving someone. It is a commitment, a sense of security that reassures the other person that they are giving themselves to you. ”
Qu Junru believes that love needs to have sincerity: "What is precious in love is not ambiguity, but sincerity." If you get the order wrong from the beginning, it can only prove that your attitude towards this relationship is only ambiguous, just that momentary interest and curiosity, not sincere. ”
Jiang Rui looked at Qu Junru's eyes and asked a little incredulously: "Then what is sincerity?" ”
Qu Junru let go of the hand holding her, looked at the Ferris wheel in the distance, and said to Jiang Rui beside him: "Really? Genuinely possessive, and mine is strangely possessive. I won't say it if I'm jealous, I won't show what I mind, I don't like what I think belongs to me being snatched away by others, I think you're mine, you have to stay with me all the time, if you find someone else, I'm sad, I don't want it, I only accept one-on-one relationships. ”
Jiang Rui nodded at his words and looked at Qu Junru who was emitting a dazzling golden light on his body.
Qu Junru continued: "Rui'er, do you know that Pisces has a terrible ability? ”
Jiang Rui looked at him suspiciously and asked, "Huh?" What? ”
Qu Junru told her what her super sixth sense was: "Pisces has a super sixth sense, and their ability to predict is very strong, and they are born with it. It should be said that from the first meeting, I already know what kind of person you are, and when I ask you questions, you better tell the truth, because I like to ask questions with answers. ”
Jiang Rui asked with interest: "Oh, co-authored with what you just asked me, you actually already know what answer I will say?" ”
Qu Junru grimaced and said, "Guess." ”
Jiang Rui raised his jade hand and was about to beat Qu Junru: "Do you guess I guess it, wash you!" ”
When Jiang Rui was about to hit him, Qu Junru quickly got up from his seat and dodged.
"Haha, Pi is so happy this time."